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Darn it....that should read: "what's that got to do with my job?"
Am I weird or do you sometime hate stupid compliments from ur boss/supervisors? I hate when they say shit like, "You have such a great smile and you're so "good"! " WTF!?!?! Does that mean and WHY is it on my performance evaluation???!
Am I weird or do you sometime hate stupid compliments from ur boss/supervisors? I hate when they say shit like, "You have such a great smile and you're so "good"! " WTF!?!?! Does that mean and WHY is it on my performance evaluation???!
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Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I absolutely hate when someone doesn't "get" my humor. But I love the person who retorts right back! Anyone who doesn't get it is stupid unless its my boss or a cop who just pulled me over, then I have to zip it.
+1 but I'm like oh we'll on the humor.
don't be too lazy to open a new tab and watch that video. it's hilarious.
Does he have a Gemini Venus?
I'm sure we are guilty of it at points! But when you read your chart or personality triats based off of your sun sign, a lot of it hits home, which makes us firm believers. I love astrology. It's interesting and can keep me entertained for hours while learning something new each time that you may have overlooked or didn't come across yet. I like to use it as a guide, a bit of an understanding of this mystery person. I like to use the advice forums a lot for many situations, as a lot lf it has really hit home, surprisingly. It's good for an "overview" of a person, but not every aspect. Like say if your interest suddenly changed into a different person, using their sun sign could give you a good (though broad) understanding as to why they have.
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Posted by ArticleL
Aries are fine I can consider appointing this title to you make a appointment. Ill have 3 Aquas for you to turn out once you arrive.
The prophet is back He shall receive the 3 Aquas now.
As far as the girl I'm thinking maybe there was a feeling of inadequacy. Maybe A bit of jealousy even at the reactions that were pulled from her by others. Although it is soon, you want to know that you are capable of being her everything, and withdrawing into herself yet managing to perk up when others arrived probably made you doubt what you would be able to give to her, or get out of her.
I don't know if that's exactly what it was but if similar, I know what its like being a bit thrown off and possibly even jealous of "new" reactions in others that were not pulled from them by you.
Maybe you are aware of your pull on folks? If you are, Maybe the withdrawal/comfort into herself was to not-so-easily get sucked in to your energy. And maybe the energy with her friends was also a bit of release from what she had been fighting back from you? If you look at it like that, then you've already got her, if that's the case. Thing is to make her feel as comfortable, by relaxing, IF there is a next time.
I don't know if that's exactly what it was but if similar, I know what its like being a bit thrown off and possibly even jealous of "new" reactions in others that were not pulled from them by you.
Maybe you are aware of your pull on folks? If you are, Maybe the withdrawal/comfort into herself was to not-so-easily get sucked in to your energy. And maybe the energy with her friends was also a bit of release from what she had been fighting back from you? If you look at it like that, then you've already got her, if that's the case. Thing is to make her feel as comfortable, by relaxing, IF there is a next time.
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
The thing that concerned me a little was your first sentence ".....dating a female aries on and off for almost a year..."
Nothing "on and off" about dating an Aries.
As a rule you are either dating us or you don't exist.
^This
Are you polite? I don't know how to explain it but when it comes to certain things like etiquette and eating with my mouth closed (lol) and being dressed well my manners are great. I hate bathroom humor.
however I can be a bit bossy and very blunt with (mainly with those who are close to me), and I suppose that may come across as rude? however I am very sensitive about people being harsh on me though I do appreciate the advice a LOT. I know it's dumb, but I'm already very critical of myself. I see my own flaws and others flaws under a microscope but I don't think of that as bad I simply notice it (I don't treat people badly if I see a flaw in them... but if they ask me for advice I will tell them what I think their flaws are, but I say it in a nice way...)
if i feel very close to someone and I want them to do something I say it as an order and a friend of mine commented on how annoying that is. for example I say, "come here"... "sit down"..."bring the pillow".... etc. lmao I don't even NOTICE it. she says that she wants me to say please. by the way she's a pisces. but what the hell, she's my friend why do i have to say please to her? if someone does something nice for me I say thank you but when it comes to such a simple thing like me wanting her to sit down why can't i just say SIT DOWN lol.
my parents spoiled me a bit so when i analyze it too much i think, "god maybe i'm just being a spoiled brat who needs to get what she wants..."... but, i don't think that's the reason, because i don't ask my friends for anything extravagant, i don't ask them to do things for me that would help me, i just like getting the point across. and i like people being direct with me too. as much as i love guessing games and putting the puzzle of someone's mind together, once the puzzle is finished and they are my friend - i love directness.
for me, being comfortable around someone means letting the aggressive, direct side of my personality come out. it can be a pain for me to be indirect around strangers just to soften my personality... it gets annoying...
i consider myself kind, i love helping people, i just feel such a comfort level with some of my close friends that i can be bossy... i don't act bossy around strangers.
are any of you similar?
however I can be a bit bossy and very blunt with (mainly with those who are close to me), and I suppose that may come across as rude? however I am very sensitive about people being harsh on me though I do appreciate the advice a LOT. I know it's dumb, but I'm already very critical of myself. I see my own flaws and others flaws under a microscope but I don't think of that as bad I simply notice it (I don't treat people badly if I see a flaw in them... but if they ask me for advice I will tell them what I think their flaws are, but I say it in a nice way...)
if i feel very close to someone and I want them to do something I say it as an order and a friend of mine commented on how annoying that is. for example I say, "come here"... "sit down"..."bring the pillow".... etc. lmao I don't even NOTICE it. she says that she wants me to say please. by the way she's a pisces. but what the hell, she's my friend why do i have to say please to her? if someone does something nice for me I say thank you but when it comes to such a simple thing like me wanting her to sit down why can't i just say SIT DOWN lol.
my parents spoiled me a bit so when i analyze it too much i think, "god maybe i'm just being a spoiled brat who needs to get what she wants..."... but, i don't think that's the reason, because i don't ask my friends for anything extravagant, i don't ask them to do things for me that would help me, i just like getting the point across. and i like people being direct with me too. as much as i love guessing games and putting the puzzle of someone's mind together, once the puzzle is finished and they are my friend - i love directness.
for me, being comfortable around someone means letting the aggressive, direct side of my personality come out. it can be a pain for me to be indirect around strangers just to soften my personality... it gets annoying...
i consider myself kind, i love helping people, i just feel such a comfort level with some of my close friends that i can be bossy... i don't act bossy around strangers.
are any of you similar?