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Apr 12, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4267 · Topics: 82
supposedly its a "astrology" scorp thing yeah,not a definate rule though:/
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lol,branhs unique even for a virgo from my own experiance,except for his work POV,most of the ones I know are goofy 90% of the time lol.
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actually yes, it does!
i'm german, but originally from bulgaria, parents are both bulgarians...
Capgirl, thanks for the tip, just may make a little trip to borders after work, i guess i'm at the point of, as I said, being sick and tired , of constantly trying to figure out what's in their heads. and by the way, everytime i DID confront and ask, I got either very vague answers, or in your face stuff that spelled out totally that NO, i will not be staying with you. Ah, but then, when i finally said, ok we don't want the same thing, goodbye, a short time later I'd get a call saying something like "i've been a jerk, sorry" and off we'd go to the races, me thinking he'd come to his senses when in reality i think it was more of a "let me keep her around cause i really do like her, UNTIL something better comes along" and in all honesty, many people were totally stunned that he'd even be looking for someone else, they figured we were really good together, and why would he get rid of a hot, intelligent, etc person like me.(Yes a little pride here, but it's coming from other people and yes, helps my self-esteem) So my experiences with these guys hasn't been too fruitful, and yes, i think i will get that book because obviously I am attracting and attracted to these kinds of people. I guess we could go into all sorts of psycho-babble about my childhood etc. but i think i want to be done with the brain torture to myself. Maybe appreciate someone who really does appreciate me. Enough with the constant questioning and "is he testing me" crap, as i said before, i really don't think they're testing, they are just totally self centered and thinking only of what they want at the moment. instant self-gratification and to hell with anyone elses feelings or thoughts. see we/I spent so muchtime wondering what he was thinking of me and the truth is nothing, he wasn't spending time wondering what he could do to test me he was just totally in his own head thinking his own thoughts about whatever it was that would make HIM feel good about himself at that very moment. and if it was me, fine, if it was something else, fine also. i really don't think they spend all that much time thinking about other people except themselves.
again thanks for the book tip capgirl, think i need it. would dearly love to trust someone without all the mind games and questioning.
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true! but if "People can act totally different..be more truthful.. lie more.. let their feelings show more.. be a total git..." then that's... erm... people's problem, i'd say, lol
me, i'm a total fake on here. in real life i'm a horse........... yyeeeyaaah...
So Bob where'd you go? Did you finally give up on the girl who obviously has moved on? I hope so,for your sake, but you never wrote back, wondering how you're feeling about all this, i think u didn't get the answers you wanted. Don't give up on yourself, she's not worth it, no one is worth self destructing)and maybe ending up in jail) over.
Hope to hear back, there's other fish in the sea (no pun intended) and actually some of us fish people are really nice and caring esp when we find the right person.
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Im ruder here than I am at home still rude though lol,im actually kinda quiet and a keep to myself type but not enough to come off as "too" quiet for people,I don't freak em out or get them suspecious.Basically depends on the person im talking to as well,if they're kinda shy and standoffish,I don't expect them to "open up" right away or whatever but actually really don't care to either though.