I got bad news Moloko...
he probably said "you don't look happy" to try to get me to talk and say what's wrong... but unfortunately THAT person was there...
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yeah i had no sleep monday niggt lol.. found a bottle of rum and that was it lol 
wheretomylady, I'd have to admit that I've tested before too, and it's worked (taurus also). I've actually told a guy that I was thinking about moving away too. It did work, I had him going. Actually to the point where I said I had already told my family that I was going to move. It made us closer, and then I just decided not to move...lol. Never planned on in the first place. I've actually tested a lot, some worked, some didn't. It was kind of fun...but it shouldn't be done tho!!
A two timer is one thing that I am not. I am human, and I happen to have a crush. All though I do appreciate everyone's comments. I can't talk to anyone that I know about this, so it helps to get it off my chest. Thanks again everyone.
God Bless
God Bless
anotherpisceswoman,
Ok I definetely know where ur coming from. And the attitude you have about it has made u so frustrated with these caps, and i don't blame u. My cap is the same way, only mostly thinking about himself, but I can tell he cares a lot about me also, but of course mostly puts himself first. Which i've learned to deal with. When me and my cap last called things off it ruined me for a chance with a great man also. This guy called/texted all the time, took me out whenever I wanted, did whatever I wanted, wanted to spend a lot of time with me, but guess what? All it did was turn me off to him. It just didn't seem like fun or somehting. I don't know if it's because there was no challenge, or whatever but it just wasn't there. I love being with my cap so much more.
wheretomylady, yes he does respect a lot more now since I showed up at his place. Right when he came to the door and he came outside, I just looked at him, with these sad eyes and told him how much this really hurts me and that i WILL NOT be treated like this. And then went on to say other things. He told me the next day that he did respect that and then that he could tell my feelings for him were very real (guess he was still doubting them). They do have a hard time trusting. So anyhow, it's very good to call ur cap out on the things he does wrong and how u feel about them the second he does them.
Ok, got a story real quick. Yesterday I sent him a text. Ok, so 3 hrs later I still don't have a reply, Im thinking WTF right. So anyhow I thought maybe he was not having such a good day and I knew he wasn't at work already so it wasnt like he was busy with that. So I did reply tho while he was already at work. Well I don't get a reply to the second text. This is really worrying me now, because I'm thinking that things were going so well and now this. I was flipping out and having no patience (my taurus side cming out!). so i sent him another a couple hrs later and he told me he was in the middle of something at work. Then he called (awwww!). He said he got a chance to call me and figured he better do so ASAP because he could tell that I was getting impatient and p1ssed off at him. I just had to laugh. I told him I tried to be patient and just wait but I couldn't. He laughed, he knows how I am and he loves it. Actually I think he just loves the fact that I chase after him and get freaked out when he doesn't reply or pay attention to me. I thought at first that to get him to contact me was to back off, me not contact him in any way and then he would contact me. I don't think that quite works with my cap.
Ok I definetely know where ur coming from. And the attitude you have about it has made u so frustrated with these caps, and i don't blame u. My cap is the same way, only mostly thinking about himself, but I can tell he cares a lot about me also, but of course mostly puts himself first. Which i've learned to deal with. When me and my cap last called things off it ruined me for a chance with a great man also. This guy called/texted all the time, took me out whenever I wanted, did whatever I wanted, wanted to spend a lot of time with me, but guess what? All it did was turn me off to him. It just didn't seem like fun or somehting. I don't know if it's because there was no challenge, or whatever but it just wasn't there. I love being with my cap so much more.
wheretomylady, yes he does respect a lot more now since I showed up at his place. Right when he came to the door and he came outside, I just looked at him, with these sad eyes and told him how much this really hurts me and that i WILL NOT be treated like this. And then went on to say other things. He told me the next day that he did respect that and then that he could tell my feelings for him were very real (guess he was still doubting them). They do have a hard time trusting. So anyhow, it's very good to call ur cap out on the things he does wrong and how u feel about them the second he does them.
Ok, got a story real quick. Yesterday I sent him a text. Ok, so 3 hrs later I still don't have a reply, Im thinking WTF right. So anyhow I thought maybe he was not having such a good day and I knew he wasn't at work already so it wasnt like he was busy with that. So I did reply tho while he was already at work. Well I don't get a reply to the second text. This is really worrying me now, because I'm thinking that things were going so well and now this. I was flipping out and having no patience (my taurus side cming out!). so i sent him another a couple hrs later and he told me he was in the middle of something at work. Then he called (awwww!). He said he got a chance to call me and figured he better do so ASAP because he could tell that I was getting impatient and p1ssed off at him. I just had to laugh. I told him I tried to be patient and just wait but I couldn't. He laughed, he knows how I am and he loves it. Actually I think he just loves the fact that I chase after him and get freaked out when he doesn't reply or pay attention to me. I thought at first that to get him to contact me was to back off, me not contact him in any way and then he would contact me. I don't think that quite works with my cap.
APW~ It's absolutely mind-boggling to think that they don't really want us!! hehe I think in the case of my cap it's insecurity in large part. I've told him at least 3 times in telling him off that this is never going to work on any level, and that we have too much bad history and the cycle just keeps repeating. Then I'll see him or whatnot and end up drawing him back in, so I am to blame I guess in part. He must feel foolish for getting "slapped" and then coming back around? I don't know... this is just one "analysis"! It's insanity. I was feeling "at peace" and had let it all go, when I was first trying to calm you down a couple weeks ago : ) but the anger is slowly returning... because I let him pop back in and he can't keep communication going. I give him through the weekend, and then I'm "buttoning up the hatches."
Sorry for the negativity, MyCap and Wheretomylady, but we're dealing w/ some bad apples or difficult child-men in my case I think!!
Sorry for the negativity, MyCap and Wheretomylady, but we're dealing w/ some bad apples or difficult child-men in my case I think!!
Me too, I think it's possible they are the same person. Why? Because they have the same IP address many times, first TC about ten times, then BS gets the same IP address for twice, then the same IP address to TC again etc.. And not just that. They also have the same IP addresses which are different IP addresses. So, not just that same IP address all the time but different IP addresses which both of them have from time to time.
LOL
"e.g. OFA (my favorite leo opinionist LOL) calls out our negative traits, and yet, she's totally in love w/ one (though she may never admit it!). Or Dancing Bread, who thinks we are high maintenance, but shares a valued friendship w/ a leo male."
yeah, that seems to be the way it is. and i'm not innocent in that perspective either, hehe...
i must admit, from a distance it does seem like leos are absolutely in love with themselves and think they are superior to anyone, and selfish, too... but i got to know truthseeker pretty well and i very(very!) much enjoy her company, to say the least. one awesome lioness!!!
still i know a few male leos who are absolutely horrible: unfair, ignorant and cowards. and i find that a lot more off-putting than arrogance and self-centeredness. maybe it's not the sign in general, after all!?
"e.g. OFA (my favorite leo opinionist LOL) calls out our negative traits, and yet, she's totally in love w/ one (though she may never admit it!). Or Dancing Bread, who thinks we are high maintenance, but shares a valued friendship w/ a leo male."
yeah, that seems to be the way it is. and i'm not innocent in that perspective either, hehe...
i must admit, from a distance it does seem like leos are absolutely in love with themselves and think they are superior to anyone, and selfish, too... but i got to know truthseeker pretty well and i very(very!) much enjoy her company, to say the least. one awesome lioness!!!
still i know a few male leos who are absolutely horrible: unfair, ignorant and cowards. and i find that a lot more off-putting than arrogance and self-centeredness. maybe it's not the sign in general, after all!?
that's the point, people. go to bed and sleep while you can!
what's a two timer?
flowerchild, time's a healer. i know it's a clich?, but it's true!
flowerchild, time's a healer. i know it's a clich?, but it's true!
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people." -Admiral Hyman G. Rickover
Another of my favorites. My writing professor quoted that one.
people." -Admiral Hyman G. Rickover
Another of my favorites. My writing professor quoted that one.