How do i get this virgo man to get more interested
We met last weekend at a college party and my friends introduced us, we spent the whole night talking and getting to know each other then we started kissing in front of everyone and decided to take it upstairs he took me to his room then started to take my clothes off, i immedietly told him i was a virgin i wasn't interested in having sex with him because i didnt know him.. he apologized and took me back down stairs and still spent the whole night by my side getting me water and making sure i was having fun because i was a little bit too drunk. my friends ended up crashing there at his house so he said i could sleep in his bed, he let me wear his t-shirt and held me tight all night i woke up the next morning and we acted like strangers i left and the next night i saw him again and he yelled from his car at me with a group of his friends "hey virgin" i ignored it and went inside the party but this time he was dancing with every girl and barely talked to me so i ignorred him. now 2 nights ago i went to another party at his house with my friends and he heard i was mad at him, i told him i wasnt and we danced alittle bit.. my friends didnt want to drive and wanted to stay the night .. they slept in a guest room and i was going to sleep on the floor, my virgo man came and found me and asked if i wanted an air mattress i said sure, he didnt have the pump to blow it up and asked if i wanted tos leep in his bed bc he felt bad for me to be on the floor, we started kissing alittle bit and then he told me that he had been sick all week and didnt want to give it to me, so we cuddled and he was coughing and had a fever all night, i spent the whole night scracting his back and helping him fall asleep, the next morning it was like we were strangers again.. i left and now i actually am sick and have a fever that i got from him so i texted him saying" i woke up super sick this morning/:" and he sent me sad faces and i texted back saying " i know): well i hope your at least feeling better lol " no answer.
what do i need to do for him to be interested in me, i really like him. i live in 2o min away fro his college and i said i was moving there enxt semester and he seemed really excited and im at his house almost every weekend with his friends and mine. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? i'm trying to show a good girlfriend side of me. but he seems like he kjust wants to fuck.
*** I"M A CAPRICORN GIRL, and yes i'm very emotional and loving i;m not a cold hearted one.
what do i need to do for him to be interested in me, i really like him. i live in 2o min away fro his college and i said i was moving there enxt semester and he seemed really excited and im at his house almost every weekend with his friends and mine. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? i'm trying to show a good girlfriend side of me. but he seems like he kjust wants to fuck.
*** I"M A CAPRICORN GIRL, and yes i'm very emotional and loving i;m not a cold hearted one.
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Paying for my food wasn't a buzzkill, it just was not a buzz-adder. Here is my analogy - If a guy is trying to get my under wears wet by the end of the date so that I will be in the mood to kiss, making me pay for my meal doesn't make them drier, but it also does not make them wet. So at the end of the date.. I was just at neutral.. nothing.. I don't hate him or dislike him. I am just not turned on either. It was not a test and I don't judge him for it. I am just thinking if he wants to seduce me, he has to use a different route cause I can't change my body's reactions based on him 'theoretically' doing nothing wrong. That is what chemistry is all about.
why did you break up with him?
Are you into this Aries guy? If you are don't make it too easy for him. They like a lil attention but don't over do it. They also like a lil mystery. Also be prepared for anything.I'm not sure Aquas and Aries usually last but they can show you a good time.
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Posted by Metoo
Oh wow, how strange, wonder what else was in his chart but honestly it sounds like a speed date. He wanted to get everything all at once, ooorrrr did someone hire a private investigator on you?
I mean, they are curious people, I wonder if he knew he couldnt see you again for awhile so wanted to cover alot this time. Aquas can be spooky, but this is a whole other level.
LMAO @ "speed date"
When I had met my previous Aqua he def wanted to know like everyone about me...but not the very first date!!! Maybe over the next week or so we talked everyday about everything.
This whole story is totally crazy-- please oh please keep us posted if you hear from him I am SO curious!!!!
No I believe Elle does agree...she just doesnt want the *family* secrets getting out.
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I obviously like it done in a way where I never actually do it smh lol.
If you read the other details, the paying thing was like one non-buzz-adding thing. It was also the way he said it so seriously like I never pay for my dates, rather than joking about it smoothly. There were also conversation issues and then him trying to like grope me and kiss me as if it was expected of me respond positively. I was just not in a welcoming mood for that. I don't actually know if he had paid for my food if that would make me like him more, it was just one thing in a bunch non-buzz-adding activity that stood out to me.
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I can understand that.
After Rig posted, I felt a bit calmer about the whole thing. She doesn't even know me was just trying to be helpful. It meant a great deal.
I can understand that.
After Rig posted, I felt a bit calmer about the whole thing. She doesn't even know me was just trying to be helpful. It meant a great deal.
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