scorpios pleaseee help
I know he isnt right for me but u know it isnt difficult to come out of it when u hav already fallen too deep n sacrificed alot for the relationship..
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To the OP:
Its not that you are wrong and he is right or he is wrong and you are right. Its just that you two are different from each other. You two behave differently and want other person to behave differently too. You know yourself well that what you feel, what you want, what you think etc. Now you need to know what he feel, want and think if you're really serious about him.
First, Virgos express their love in words very rarely. They show it through their actions; by caring for you, by doing little things for you even without asking and by going beyond their ways for you in the time of need. I think, they are better than those people who are masters of words, flatter you with their magical tongue to the extent that you feel like a queen, make claims that they will bring stars & moon for you but in the time of need they just disappear from the face of worth. I have experienced through life that there are two types of people: one who say much and others who do much. And most of the Virgos I know belong to the second group.
Second, Virgos are loners and enjoy their own company. There is another world inside their minds and they don't let someone enter in this world that easily. First they will test you and if they feel that you deserve, only then they will let you enter in this world. They bottle up their feeling and open to someone gradually and slowly. I have read somewhere that it's often difficult for a Virgo to really be 'married' in any deep sense of the word. There's a quality about the Virgo which is psychologically untouchable, and if you try to invade it you get the same reaction as if you tried physical rape. Most of the Virgos don't like to ???gossip?? that much, they like to ???discuss??. It has been said that one key way to make a Virgo love you is to stimulate him on an intellectual level. For instance when he is watching TV you consider TV as a barrier between you and him but tactfully you can make it a tool for bonding between you two. Say something thought provoking about what he is watching that make him think and serve as in initial point of conservation. Mercury is the ruling planet of Virgo and Venus is the ruling planet of Libra. One is the planet of mind and the other is the planet of love. But I don't think this will take you two apart from each other as love is not just body, the deeper love is in mind. Connect him on the mental level and the love you'll get from him in return will be deeper.
Good Luck
Its not that you are wrong and he is right or he is wrong and you are right. Its just that you two are different from each other. You two behave differently and want other person to behave differently too. You know yourself well that what you feel, what you want, what you think etc. Now you need to know what he feel, want and think if you're really serious about him.
First, Virgos express their love in words very rarely. They show it through their actions; by caring for you, by doing little things for you even without asking and by going beyond their ways for you in the time of need. I think, they are better than those people who are masters of words, flatter you with their magical tongue to the extent that you feel like a queen, make claims that they will bring stars & moon for you but in the time of need they just disappear from the face of worth. I have experienced through life that there are two types of people: one who say much and others who do much. And most of the Virgos I know belong to the second group.
Second, Virgos are loners and enjoy their own company. There is another world inside their minds and they don't let someone enter in this world that easily. First they will test you and if they feel that you deserve, only then they will let you enter in this world. They bottle up their feeling and open to someone gradually and slowly. I have read somewhere that it's often difficult for a Virgo to really be 'married' in any deep sense of the word. There's a quality about the Virgo which is psychologically untouchable, and if you try to invade it you get the same reaction as if you tried physical rape. Most of the Virgos don't like to ???gossip?? that much, they like to ???discuss??. It has been said that one key way to make a Virgo love you is to stimulate him on an intellectual level. For instance when he is watching TV you consider TV as a barrier between you and him but tactfully you can make it a tool for bonding between you two. Say something thought provoking about what he is watching that make him think and serve as in initial point of conservation. Mercury is the ruling planet of Virgo and Venus is the ruling planet of Libra. One is the planet of mind and the other is the planet of love. But I don't think this will take you two apart from each other as love is not just body, the deeper love is in mind. Connect him on the mental level and the love you'll get from him in return will be deeper.
Good Luck
Posted by Orpheus
.... sexual desire. I was raised conservatively and still have residual guilt ....
lol .. this place is getting hilarious
Posted by jru2
lol, B74
yeah, you did good. Something always told me to drop this one like a bad habit too ... from the beginning. lol, but the more I pushed her away, the harder she tried ... it was all good then. But on subject of ex's, she has admitted that she's still in love with one of her ex's ... her soul-mate she thinks, but it's really just some objectified image of him --- well, that's my opinion. If she had him, she would get tired of him too. She's just like that, but then so am I ... always chasing, always longing for something we don't have. I'm trying to learn to be in the moment more though, and to enjoy whatever I do have to the fullest. Haha, and right now, that's sex with a pregnant woman ... she's been insatiable lately ... even though she doesn't say that she loves me anymore.
Lol. That's an Aqua's m.o. Threaten to leave and they'll come running. I'm still tripping off the drama. I've known several aqua women and they've never seemed that way, except for this last one. If anything, they're too detached for my taste. I like my space, but not to the point where the "relationship" is non existent. As for living in the moment, I'm all for that but be careful. You need substance to back it up. Otherwise that's all you have. A series of "moments."
Can I ask what is funny? Anyway, glad you could laugh.
Asc: Aquarius
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Taurus
How close to your moon are you?
Very close, I identify with it more than my sun honestly. I do not fit the idea of the Virgo, I am very sensual and pretty lazy/easygoing.
How much of it's traits do you feel define who you are and how you respond to situations?
Somewhat, it's a piece of the whole.
How easily can you differentiate between your lunar responses and solar responses?
Not super easy, they tend to work pretty well together.
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Taurus
How close to your moon are you?
Very close, I identify with it more than my sun honestly. I do not fit the idea of the Virgo, I am very sensual and pretty lazy/easygoing.
How much of it's traits do you feel define who you are and how you respond to situations?
Somewhat, it's a piece of the whole.
How easily can you differentiate between your lunar responses and solar responses?
Not super easy, they tend to work pretty well together.
I don't know why I'm making this post. I guess to vent. About how much I hate myself, maybe, I dunno. I have another account on here but I'm too ashamed of myself to post with that account.
I guess I'm just a bad person. I always have been. I've always been told I am by everyone, except my mom. She realized it later. But she wasn't there when I was younger to tell me I was good. At least not enough.
I've never felt good.
Well I have. For brief moments. A few weeks of good. And then I stop avoiding the truth.
I know I'm smart. I know I'm good at public speaking, writing, school, debate, planning. I know I'm capable.
But I have no work ethic. None. I get some, for a bit, and I do well. But then I get over whelmed. I start avoiding. I become lazy.
I'm a loser. I'm not worth anyone's time, I'm not worth my own time. I'm a waste. I'm a waste of an intelligent person. I've failed time and time again.
This planet can't take more people like me.
I'm an Aries. I'm too much of a coward to kill myself and too honest to lie about it. I think I deserve to die. I'm hurting and disappointing everyone in my life, like usual, I kind of just want get rid of myself for the sake of them. So I won't keep taxing them in the future.
I know where a gun is but I won't even touch it. Or look at it.
I'm too afraid of death for that. But I'm not hopeful for the future.
I'm too afraid of everything. I just don't want to hurt anyone anymore. I don't want to hurt myself. I want to go rot in a hole somewhere and be there for the people who wouldn't be there for me, for those brief moments they need me. And then go back to rotting.
I don't mind rotting. I hate this. I hate having a life and doing things because I don't deserve it. I don't know if I even like it. Everyone hates me.. before now I didn't hate myself, but maybe I should. Maybe I should just start agreeing with them and give up on the waste of space that is myself.
I guess I'm just a bad person. I always have been. I've always been told I am by everyone, except my mom. She realized it later. But she wasn't there when I was younger to tell me I was good. At least not enough.
I've never felt good.
Well I have. For brief moments. A few weeks of good. And then I stop avoiding the truth.
I know I'm smart. I know I'm good at public speaking, writing, school, debate, planning. I know I'm capable.
But I have no work ethic. None. I get some, for a bit, and I do well. But then I get over whelmed. I start avoiding. I become lazy.
I'm a loser. I'm not worth anyone's time, I'm not worth my own time. I'm a waste. I'm a waste of an intelligent person. I've failed time and time again.
This planet can't take more people like me.
I'm an Aries. I'm too much of a coward to kill myself and too honest to lie about it. I think I deserve to die. I'm hurting and disappointing everyone in my life, like usual, I kind of just want get rid of myself for the sake of them. So I won't keep taxing them in the future.
I know where a gun is but I won't even touch it. Or look at it.
I'm too afraid of death for that. But I'm not hopeful for the future.
I'm too afraid of everything. I just don't want to hurt anyone anymore. I don't want to hurt myself. I want to go rot in a hole somewhere and be there for the people who wouldn't be there for me, for those brief moments they need me. And then go back to rotting.
I don't mind rotting. I hate this. I hate having a life and doing things because I don't deserve it. I don't know if I even like it. Everyone hates me.. before now I didn't hate myself, but maybe I should. Maybe I should just start agreeing with them and give up on the waste of space that is myself.
Hello! I have an okay grounding astrology, but I would like to hear your opinions on my chart.
Eviction is Sunday Bling, so Monday is vote night
I love this placement, you guys never go unnoticed even when you try lol
Top three placemnts are rising, sun and moon and they will be equally important to delineate your personality among other things.
Top three placemnts are rising, sun and moon and they will be equally important to delineate your personality among other things.
Yeah and then they have a week to sulk or try and map amends. It's the audience that votes them out...