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May 07, 2012Comments: 0 · Posts: 280 · Topics: 20
Ok..so could someone please tell me what this really means??? I was born at 11:11 pm and wonder if it REALLY means anything. (Oct 24, 1968) or if it is just one of those rumors floating around the world.
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May 25, 2012Comments: 122 · Posts: 5590 · Topics: 41
^^^ tbh, he's probably lost a bit of trust in you and feels that you are changing and or trying to manipulate him. Not saying he's justified but that's probably how he feels. Have you reached out to him? Did you two argue about it?
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Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
Seriously, he needs to print that out and frame it for his wall.
Cuz it's coming, full speed ahead...
... and his "light at the end of the tunnel" will turn out to be the oncoming Karma Train to fuck his ass up.
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Nov 21, 2009Comments: 0 · Posts: 445 · Topics: 10
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Oct 19, 2010Comments: 14 · Posts: 937 · Topics: 33
1)"he said i don't usually add just anyone as a friend in Facebook"
He planned and knew his intention with you from beginning...he is very private and doesn't want to get caught. Figures this could be a good step to win you by expressing the above.
2)"he said i have a relationship and i love her but she not satisfying me in sex thats why i have cheated not only with you and with other people also."
3)"he said he loves me too but he cant leave her because he committed and he feels like he taking care for her."
2)+3) i feel he is testing out ways to get what he wants with you. In the first method 2) he was very frank with you "honest is the best policy"...you probably couldn't accept it. Then he tried to use the "appeal to pity" in 3. that he has NO CHOICE because he has this "heart of gold" he needs to be this good and help her. Leaving her would be hard. However, we all know that is bs.
4) he said i cant i wish i knew you earlier and everything i cant hurt her she loves me and i love her and I'm happy now"
By now he probably already got what he wanted. So now hes telling you that there is no chance you and him will be more than what you guys are now because THAT IS ALL he ever wanted.
the rest are just fillers for you to stay...How does one plan of achieving their career goals? health goals? by planning every step, implementing the plans, change and adapt if unexpected things take a turn (which is also planned), have a time frame. How does this guy get you to do what he wants? say and do anything (like holding your hand and saying how much he misses you..because he knows you'll crack) to get laid and be "friends"
sweetie, these romantic words/actions isn't dichotomous to a man's love for you, yes at times its a indicator but not absolute. Its what one doesn't do or say that will reveal the truth. And the truth of the matter here is mentioned in everything you expressed. All beginning with "he isn't". He isn't going to love you the way you need. He isn't going to leave his girlfriend for you. He isn't happy with his life and the people in it. He isn't ready for any relationship.
Do you really want a person who just has a bunch of "isn't-s"?