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??? Gem girl (usually) contacts me in a chat site after she finishes playing a game I believe she uses to relax herself. But during the game she flirts so hard with the other guys playing it that it turns my eyes green. Sending kisses and calling one specific other guy baby. hmmmm.??
^^^^ first thing you have to understand about the gem. Flirting is really just a part of our character.It is as much a part of what makes us who we are, as our DNA. And I bet that??s even how she got you initially.
Generally the flirting is harmless. If you watch her and pay attention, you will notice she is like that with everyone??_men, women, children, everyone??_doesn??t even matter the age??_it is just a part of how we communicate. I come from a family of seven other siblings, and when we were kids, I got my ass whipped less than any of the others simply because of that ability to flirt even then as a child. My siblings always tease that I had that charm I would use on my parents. Call it charm, whatever, I flirted and talked my way out of shit and also got what I wanted.
Most people, if you ask them to describe the traits of a gem, will automatically say we are too flirty??_ So why do people who cannot accept this still get involved with us? Go figure. If you know you absolutely cannot stand this, please don??t even waste your time. You will be hurt over and over at you own expense I might add, because the gem is never doing it to hurt you deliberately.
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^^^^ first thing you have to understand about the gem. Flirting is really just a part of our character.It is as much a part of what makes us who we are, as our DNA. And I bet that??s even how she got you initially.
Generally the flirting is harmless. If you watch her and pay attention, you will notice she is like that with everyone??_men, women, children, everyone??_doesn??t even matter the age??_it is just a part of how we communicate. I come from a family of seven other siblings, and when we were kids, I got my ass whipped less than any of the others simply because of that ability to flirt even then as a child. My siblings always tease that I had that charm I would use on my parents. Call it charm, whatever, I flirted and talked my way out of shit and also got what I wanted.
Most people, if you ask them to describe the traits of a gem, will automatically say we are too flirty??_ So why do people who cannot accept this still get involved with us? Go figure. If you know you absolutely cannot stand this, please don??t even waste your time. You will be hurt over and over at you own expense I might add, because the gem is never doing it to hurt you deliberately.
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?? She contacts me only after she finishes playing her game and then she acts like I mean something to her. Strange but ok.??
^^^^First off you need to understand. As much as she may like you, that gem is never going to stop ???doing her?? she obviously likes to play games on this chat site, and that is exactly what she is going to do, that is exactly what she is doing. The fact that she knows you are online is not going to dictate her having a need to only communicate with you. If you want her to pay attention to you, just start up the conversation, she will respond just as she is responding with other members on the chat, she will also keep the communication going with the other members at the same time, Just don??t expect her to only chat with you because you happen to be online.
A word of advice here??_ don??t let your jealousy of this whole issue with how she acts with other members online be an issue. Gems like to know you care, but generally we don??t get all caught up by that, and ultimately it repulses us to the point of leaving you so fast, all you will see is the dust cloud.
???She's has me on punishment for this test my cousin did on her. It was to check how serious she felt towards me. She somehow verbally admitted no interest in anyone seriously to my cousin, but when I confronted her she told me she loved me and I hurt her by testing her. So I apologize and accept this punishment which is exile from her friendslist.??
^^^^ from your other post about this gem gal, I did wonder your ages??_ The above quote kind of answers that question for me. My second bit of advice. STOP WITH THE DAMN TESTS. Gem will not like this at all. In fact, you keep doing this and you are going to see the results, and you will not like them. Accept a gem for who they are, call a gem out on their shit, ask a gem the question for which you need answers, but don??t ever ever ever try and test a gem. Know that we are intelligent enough to spot it head on as soon as it starts to happen. Yes, please believe that we are manipulative to pass ???all of your test.??
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^^^^First off you need to understand. As much as she may like you, that gem is never going to stop ???doing her?? she obviously likes to play games on this chat site, and that is exactly what she is going to do, that is exactly what she is doing. The fact that she knows you are online is not going to dictate her having a need to only communicate with you. If you want her to pay attention to you, just start up the conversation, she will respond just as she is responding with other members on the chat, she will also keep the communication going with the other members at the same time, Just don??t expect her to only chat with you because you happen to be online.
A word of advice here??_ don??t let your jealousy of this whole issue with how she acts with other members online be an issue. Gems like to know you care, but generally we don??t get all caught up by that, and ultimately it repulses us to the point of leaving you so fast, all you will see is the dust cloud.
???She's has me on punishment for this test my cousin did on her. It was to check how serious she felt towards me. She somehow verbally admitted no interest in anyone seriously to my cousin, but when I confronted her she told me she loved me and I hurt her by testing her. So I apologize and accept this punishment which is exile from her friendslist.??
^^^^ from your other post about this gem gal, I did wonder your ages??_ The above quote kind of answers that question for me. My second bit of advice. STOP WITH THE DAMN TESTS. Gem will not like this at all. In fact, you keep doing this and you are going to see the results, and you will not like them. Accept a gem for who they are, call a gem out on their shit, ask a gem the question for which you need answers, but don??t ever ever ever try and test a gem. Know that we are intelligent enough to spot it head on as soon as it starts to happen. Yes, please believe that we are manipulative to pass ???all of your test.??
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And please stop involving cousins, sisters, brother, whoever??_ You know there is a song that rings very true ???DON??T ASK MY NEIGHBOR?? really, if you wanna know something come and ask. That third party BS is so juvenile. Just sayin dude.
???She shares her secrets with me. If she's crying over something she tells me she's been crying. But she never tells me what's it about. She only let me help her once with her problems, but after that first time she has told me only when she's upset. It's like playing tug of war or something.??
^^^^ What? This shouldn??t be a tug of war at all. You are making it to be. For a gem to share her secrets, you should know she must consider you her inner circle, or important enough to hold something as valuable and fragile and well guarded to her, so for this you should be appreciative. HOWEVER??_ sharing her secrets and frustrations puts her in a vulnerable position. (a place gems don??t like to be??_we are a masculine sign that has to portray strength at all times ??? male and female), so know that she shares because she just wants you to listen, that??s it??_she does not want you to try and fix the problem (actually this is true of most women in general, we just want the man to listen), know that if she wants your help, she will communicate that in no uncertain terms.
But also know that most times a gem won??t ask for help because there is always the very real chance that you might fail. She would much rather believe that you could and would help, than to put you to the task and then you disappoint her anyway. This is so much worse.
Gems are never looking for a ???white knight in shining armor?? to come riding in. For the most part, we can take care of ourselves rather nicely. So don??t try to fix her world. One thing that rings true of most gems, at least with me anyway, we accept people for who they are, and will really wish people would stop wanting to change/fix us.
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???She shares her secrets with me. If she's crying over something she tells me she's been crying. But she never tells me what's it about. She only let me help her once with her problems, but after that first time she has told me only when she's upset. It's like playing tug of war or something.??
^^^^ What? This shouldn??t be a tug of war at all. You are making it to be. For a gem to share her secrets, you should know she must consider you her inner circle, or important enough to hold something as valuable and fragile and well guarded to her, so for this you should be appreciative. HOWEVER??_ sharing her secrets and frustrations puts her in a vulnerable position. (a place gems don??t like to be??_we are a masculine sign that has to portray strength at all times ??? male and female), so know that she shares because she just wants you to listen, that??s it??_she does not want you to try and fix the problem (actually this is true of most women in general, we just want the man to listen), know that if she wants your help, she will communicate that in no uncertain terms.
But also know that most times a gem won??t ask for help because there is always the very real chance that you might fail. She would much rather believe that you could and would help, than to put you to the task and then you disappoint her anyway. This is so much worse.
Gems are never looking for a ???white knight in shining armor?? to come riding in. For the most part, we can take care of ourselves rather nicely. So don??t try to fix her world. One thing that rings true of most gems, at least with me anyway, we accept people for who they are, and will really wish people would stop wanting to change/fix us.
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Go and ???do you?? dude. Sure, offer help, or ask how can you help? (Gem ladies adore chivalry and true gentleman), if she responds like this, ???I??m good, I got this,?? accept that you have done your job just by listening to her. Hell, that??s a plus in your favor, because Gems appreciate when people let them talk, and then listen sincerely and attentively to them.
???We've been talking for six months and we always express interest in each other, but how would I know if she just considers me some guy she thinks she can keep waiting on a shelf while she gets her rocks off. I'm not the one.??
^^^^ Really? It??s only been six months. Yeah, gems have a way of getting all up in your heart fast.
I cannot really fathom how you see her, as keeping you on some kind of shelf, while she gets her rocks off??_ From everything you have written, she has only expressed herself in true Gemini form, it is you who have played games already, put her to tests already, had an ex GF call and verbally harass her??_come on dude, you are lucky that gem lady is still even around, much less interested.
You have to understand that if you want to keep that gem around, don??t be acting like her life has to change now that you have plopped in her world (especially after only six short months) Don??t ever make her feel like this - - - - > now that you two are dating (Can I assume exclusively?) she has to act like she fell off of mars and never knew others before you, and that she better not dare look in the direction of another, and she better be attentively catering to you at all times, and basically she better sit still some and stop all that flitting around to and fro. This to a gem gal is like telling a butterfly to duck tape them wings. Trust and believe!
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???We've been talking for six months and we always express interest in each other, but how would I know if she just considers me some guy she thinks she can keep waiting on a shelf while she gets her rocks off. I'm not the one.??
^^^^ Really? It??s only been six months. Yeah, gems have a way of getting all up in your heart fast.
I cannot really fathom how you see her, as keeping you on some kind of shelf, while she gets her rocks off??_ From everything you have written, she has only expressed herself in true Gemini form, it is you who have played games already, put her to tests already, had an ex GF call and verbally harass her??_come on dude, you are lucky that gem lady is still even around, much less interested.
You have to understand that if you want to keep that gem around, don??t be acting like her life has to change now that you have plopped in her world (especially after only six short months) Don??t ever make her feel like this - - - - > now that you two are dating (Can I assume exclusively?) she has to act like she fell off of mars and never knew others before you, and that she better not dare look in the direction of another, and she better be attentively catering to you at all times, and basically she better sit still some and stop all that flitting around to and fro. This to a gem gal is like telling a butterfly to duck tape them wings. Trust and believe!
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SS- what signs do water signs show if they are interested in someone?
Last but not least, don??t ever put a gem girl on a pedestal. I promise with my whole heart, she does not want this position, unlike some sign (no offense Leo ladies)
and if you put a gem there she will fail you every time, but most times if you don??t hold her to expectations (otherwise known as boundaries), she will meet every one of those expectations that you didn??t hold her to in the first place.
^^^^ But, this is good, because gem girl won??t place you on a pedestal either, or see the relationship through ???rose colored glasses?? nor place expectations on you. That is why really, we gems are able to quickly get over our anger, and we typically won??t hold grudges. We understand that, shit happens and we all fall down. Now, when you think about it, dealing with a person like this makes it so much easier to be who you are, without fear of castrated if you do make a mistake. Just sayin. That??s probably why many people say being around a gem is so easy.
???I want her gaga over me.?? < - - - - if she ever feels this, you??ll never know it anyways. Just sayin
???She always makes it a point to talk to me right before I'm going to walk away.?? Of course, she must get the last word in.
???I don't know if she wants me jealous?? HELL to the NO!
???Am I playing with fire or what??? Nope. What you are doing is trying to catch air and keep it tightly sealed in a jar.
I hope I didn??t come across as ???Hard on you?? I??m just trying to give some serious advice coming from one who is a gem lady who is living the gem life every single day, since you did say you wanted. ???a little guidance concerning this woman.
and if you put a gem there she will fail you every time, but most times if you don??t hold her to expectations (otherwise known as boundaries), she will meet every one of those expectations that you didn??t hold her to in the first place. ^^^^ But, this is good, because gem girl won??t place you on a pedestal either, or see the relationship through ???rose colored glasses?? nor place expectations on you. That is why really, we gems are able to quickly get over our anger, and we typically won??t hold grudges. We understand that, shit happens and we all fall down. Now, when you think about it, dealing with a person like this makes it so much easier to be who you are, without fear of castrated if you do make a mistake. Just sayin. That??s probably why many people say being around a gem is so easy.
???I want her gaga over me.?? < - - - - if she ever feels this, you??ll never know it anyways. Just sayin
???She always makes it a point to talk to me right before I'm going to walk away.?? Of course, she must get the last word in.
???I don't know if she wants me jealous?? HELL to the NO!
???Am I playing with fire or what??? Nope. What you are doing is trying to catch air and keep it tightly sealed in a jar.
I hope I didn??t come across as ???Hard on you?? I??m just trying to give some serious advice coming from one who is a gem lady who is living the gem life every single day, since you did say you wanted. ???a little guidance concerning this woman.
Whew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!damn, I know I'm gemini, ruler of communication. But maybe I talk too damn much. Just sayin
Yeah, I kinda feel like your friends r making you feel like there's something wrong w/ your relationship Wheb in fact there isn't. There is no time line for love. When you feel it n it rolls off your tongue without a doubt would be the right time whether it's a month into things or a year.
Do it on your own time hun. Say no to peer pressure! Lol
Do it on your own time hun. Say no to peer pressure! Lol
A LITTLE KNOWN U.K. MOVIE DEBBY DOES LONDON
THE PART WHERE SHE SAYS UNUN SEVERAL TIMES
THE PART WHERE SHE SAYS UNUN SEVERAL TIMES