Guide to dating a Cancer Man/Lady.
Just don't say things like "do whatever you want" when I am out with you, for a virgo that's practical and considerate (giving a choice, not imposing etc.) for a cancer totally hurtful (interpreted as I don't care what you do). Hope that's helpful.
Oops! Guess I've been doing it wrong.
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Posted by cowpuncher
My Cap ex wife had to know where I was, every minute of every day, 24/7. If I was 15 minutes late getting home IN LOS ANGELES TRAFFIC... my cell was ringing and I was getting pissy "where are you?" questions... and eventually that turned into "Who are you cheating on me with!" The 405 Freeway apparently you psycho, that's who.
Some people have a hole inside of them where their confidence should be. You can't fill it for them, it's impossible. They either have to learn to do it for themselves, or not. If they don't, they'll never be a healthy partner for you in a relationship, and they will make your life miserable - seeking their security and positive self image through you, rather than within themselves. Eventually, when that hole doesn't go away, they don't see that as a flaw in themselves. They see it as you being unwilling to wave some magic wand to make it go away for them. Then they start blaming you. Then, things start getting progressively more and more ugly.
Don't go down that road, it only ends in disaster. Keep your eyes firmly fixed on this, and make him treat you right, or find someone else who will.
lol cowpuncher you have the best stories ... i enjoy reading them all ....ironicly your married story reminds me of me I got married very early I fell inloved young with than my best friend. Taurus who now I despise anyway I was the nuerotic jealous insecure maniac wife lol ...he blame my character for leaving but I know that was just. Part of it he has his fault too but I'm much. older than my cappy ( that would be another thread) and maybe I'm getting back what ive sowed lol.... but I was with ex husband Taurus 15 yrs and when we were seperated I waited for him for another seven yrs before I've. Decided. Enough is enough. So I'm Avery loyal sag I just don't understand why he soon compulsive it get me hot tempered I'm not use to feeling withstrained I like coming and going and if I'm out somewhere. He should trust me because I will not do that I don't know if he insecure or traumatized or he just has control issues.
Posted by cowpuncherPosted by lildol
If I'm asking where you're going OR when you'll be back there is a reason (planning your demise)...
You KNOW I fear the hell out of you... right? :p lolclick to expand
I knew you'd appreciate that comment
Posted by capgirl75
Interestingly, I *DO* make a mental note of when the person is home, though. I kind of dislike men who are going out too much, if they are seeing me. I do not say anything about it, but I'm paying attention to all the nights he's home and on the phone with me as opposed to going out. But I am absolutely not about to tell someone what they can and cannot do on their own time.
I don't see a problem with that... if you're used to your other half coming home between 5pm and 6pm (or they call then) and it's 9pm and you haven't heard from them, that's a problem! (i.e., if you're married, you live together, in a serious relationship or you typically spend every night together - not some casual dating relationship). But, different strokes for different folks - I do, however, think respect is a 2 way street...
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As said in the movie, nothing happens that you don't choose. Sweet dreams Abra!
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nothing is happening!Posted by cowpuncherPosted by lildolPosted by cowpuncherPosted by lildol
If I'm asking where you're going OR when you'll be back there is a reason (planning your demise
You KNOW I fear the hell out of you... right? :p lol
I knew you'd appreciate that comment
I'm going to hit Ebay for some kevlar underclothes before we meet up. That's all I'm saying. lolclick to expand
A cast iron "cup" might not be a bad idea either *evil grin*
Posted by truecapPosted by Wynter
A Taurus girl at work found herself a sugardaddy, so every week we get a rundown of the gifts he gave her over the week-end. Last week it was a Burberry coat.
My Cappy moon approves.
Now imagine what she had to do to get those items.... Ewwwww!click to expand
I try not to
She just turned 21 and is going through her 2nd divorce. (the guy's 43)
Posted by lildol
If I'm asking where you're going OR when you'll be back there is a reason (planning your demise
Lol I should e the one planning my demise lo
@CP I just would like to add, I'm not jealous and psychotic like that anymore I'm more calm playback with those sort of stuff. I don't get those feelings. Of being jealous and possessive for cap boy than I did for my ex hubby. Taurus. I actually want cap boy to go out more and have a social life. I enjoy going out and having social life. I guess we are in two different aspects in life I've been married had children raised them and started having an outgoing life @ an older age Capricorn boyfriend is looking to settle down have kids I did that already. I'm not sure I want to do that...And with him acting crazy! Is making me run for. The borders. I'm about to do a Houdini. Cap disappearing act.
Lol but I probubly be back anyway ....because the sex is so soo good!!
Who bumped this damn thread?