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I noticed the same thing awhile back. I just don't believe in getting THAT fired up over something and being OVERLY optimistic to the point where you're not being realistic. I think people confuse negativity with reality anymore given that we have such a coddled and ignorant society.
Do I want the best case scenario to happen? Of course. However, at the same time, I'm bracing myself for worst case scenario so I can handle it if it happens. I'd much rather be aware of all outcomes than "DOOP DEE DOO, THE BEST WILL HAPPEN!!" and then getting bitch slapped by reality when it doesn't.
So in turn, I just half expect the worst case scenario to happen so if it does, I'm not highly disappointed and not taken by surprise. If the best case scenario happens, then yay the world can rejoice.
It irritates the hell out of me when some dipshit starts prattling on about negativity and the like. I'm sorry, but best case scenario/"positive" side of things is an automatic given. Duh. Who wouldn't want it to happen? At least I'm not some mindless, clueless dipshit who goes around, blind to the bad things in the world and then crying a river when bad stuff happens. Some "optimistic/positive" people that I've known have been very naive and haven't experienced much in their life. It's kinda scary.
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Let's hope so ... let's hope no woman has lowered herself to such cuntiness
Well the first 2.5 of the months were continuous text almost 24hrs around the clock. About 2 weeks ago, he had said that though he loves talking to me the texting all the time was kind of taking a toll because he always felt he had to be quick to respond, etc. So I told him simply it could be fixed and no longer texted him. After that day, he continue to initiate the texting each day and oddly also called me 3 nights in a row. This happened after my first visit when he was talking all lovey dovey to me. Before I admitted my feelings to him, there were several opportunities in which I gave him a chance for an "out" to stop talking to me so much.
I don't know if there is someone else because I haven't asked. I know of the 2 girls because at some point I had asked him not due to jealously but because if he was sleeping with me, I wanted to know if there were other girls he slept with. Both of which were just one night stands that don't live near him. And both girls happen before I ever did the drive to go see him.
So basically he came to see me twice (when we were still kind of strangers July/Aug)
I went to see him (after that visit was a week of telling me his feelings. And he use to joke and tell me "i hate you" but after this visit it because "ps love you" (Sept)
Than he came to see me on a Saturday (in which he said he was only staying overnight but I asked him to stay the weekend and he eventually did) and the following Friday I went to see him (last week)
maybe because I didn't cook for him when I went to visit LOL
david, are you a taurus?
This doesn't sound much like typical Virgo traits, but more of a dog a** man frankly. And furthermore, you allowed it and accepted it. If your relationship is not a give/take, you got my back, I got yours, then why are you in it? It's because you have settled and accepted this treatment and he just goes with the flow. And to top it all off, since he does things for his other child, he is also probably doing the mother too and taking care of her while you sit on the back burner where you politely stay in your lane and accept his poor treatment.