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Oct 04, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 664 · Topics: 18
Lol ... I can't find a YouTube video for that Matilda quote ....
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And to give you a huge HINT why you should stop communicating. LOSS, loss is what is NEEDED for a man to FEEL something for you, you communicating makes him feel SAFE, safe that he hasn't LOST anything, safe that he can have his cake and eat it too without losing either of you, he feel so safe that he doesn't have to make any hard choices NOW, he has you on the side to whine to, to listen to him talk ABOUT HIMSELF AND HER, plus he has her and whomever else he's dealing with.
Men fear LOSS (a huge majority of them do) and if you go on completely, stop listening to him whine about another woman as if you're his mother, if you just stop being there he'll actually have time to figure things out much quicker than if you were consistently around holding his hand, listening intently like your his psychotherapist or his mom.
He's taking you for granted, and you're allowing him to devalue your worth by playing this game with him which doesn't motivate him, LOSS MOTIVATES A MAN--FEAR OF LOSING MOTIVATES A MAN. So to preserve your good feelings for him, move on, you do not want to feel used by him. End it on a good note and move on, he'll be back.
SHE TOLD ME I CAN TALK TO OTHER PPLE, BECAUSE SHE KNOWS MY WORLD DONT REVEALS AROUND HER.I TOLD HER I ONLY WANT TO TALK TO HER AND HER ONLY, I LOVE HER TO DEATH, SHE AWWWWW.....BABE!SO WE FINISH TEXTING THAT NIGHT AND I TEXT HER WHILE SHE WAS SLEEP, EXPRESSING MY FEELINGS!AND I TOLD HER AS HER FIRST HUSBAND, I WILL WISH THE BEST FOR YOU FOREVER, EVEN IF YOU EVER TALK TO SOMEBODY!SHE GOT MAD!SO AFTER THAT WE WENT BACK TO STAGE ONE, JUST TEXTING, NO NICKNAME CALLING!ITS LIKE EVERY TIME WE HAD A ARGUE, SHE WILL NOT GIVE ME TIME TO EXPLAIN!SO I HAD TO EXPLAIN OVER TEXT MESSAGES, THAT WAS LIKE 10-15 MESSAGE BECAUSE IPHONE DON'T HAVE NO LIMIT ON TEXTS!SO TWO WEEKS GO PASS, WE CRACKING JOKES, STATED I GOT A BIG HEAD, BECAUSE I DO!I CRACKED A JOKE ON HER LIL PEACH FUZZ.SHE GOT MAD AND SAID FUCK ME?SO NEXT DAY I DIDN'T SAY NOTHING!SO I HAD FLOWERS DELIVER TO HER HOUSE!SAYING IM SORRY!SHE SAID IT WAS OVER, DONT CALL NOR TEXT HER!RESPECT HER DECISION!SO THEN SHE APOLOGIES SAYING SHE SORRY, SHE WILL BE MY FRIEND AS LONG AS I STOP WITH AGGRESSING TEXTING HER!SO NEXT MORNING I SAID GOOD MORNING!THEN THE NEXT MORNING I SAID IM GULITY OF LOVING YOU!SHE CALLED AND SAID WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT!SHE SAID SHE HATE ME, DON'T FIND ME ATTRACTIVE, DON'T WANT TO HAVE MY BABIES, DONT WANT NOTHING!IF I LOVE HER SO MUCH LIKE I DO I WILL LEAVE HER ALONE, I SAID I WILL MESSAGE HER ON HER BDAY DEC.30, SHE SAID DON'T DO THAT!SO NEXT WEEKEND I MESAGE HER SAYIN DID YOU REALLY MEAN THAT SHE SAID LEAVE ME ALONE, YOU STAY PRESSING ME!SO I HAD TO BREAK IT DOWN TO HER HOW I REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER!SHE SAID IM SORRY FOR ACTING THAT WAY!YOU JUST DONT UNDERSTAND I NEED SPACE, SO I SAID I LOVE HER, AND THIS WASNT HOW I PLANNED THIS TO GO!SO DEC.30 HER BDAY, AND I SAID I WANT TO TAKE YOU OUT AND FORGET ABOUT ALL THIS BULLSHIT AND START OVER!AND SHE SAID O.K., SHE DO LOVE ME BECAUSE SHE WON'T BE TEXTING ME NOW AND I HAVE 3MONTHS TO PLAN FOR HER BDAY!I HAVE TO SAY THE REASON WHY I WAS SO TEXTING HER AND GIVING HER SPACE EVERY OTHER DAY, I WAS WORRIED ABOUT ANOTHER DUDE!NOW WE TALK EVERYDAY AS FRIENDS, OUR CONVERSATIONS BE ENJOYABLE!I LOVE HER TO DEATH, PPLE SAY TAKE ONE DAY AT A TIME!SHE SAY LETS BE FRIENDS AND SHE WHERE THINGS GO, BUT I DON'T WANT TO SEE WHERE DAYS GO, I WANT IT TO BR PROMISE LIKE IN THE PAST!WHAT YALL THINK I SHOULD DO NOW?
I'm an aquarius woman dating a cancer male. We've been together for 8 years and while i love him, it has NOT been easy. Cancers in love are very selfish while aquariuses become submissive to their partners because we are naturally givers and want to do whatever it takes to please our partners. We put with all of cancers moodiness and antics and cancers somewhat appreciate that and are very loving and nurturing.
For the both of you to work i suggest being a bit more giving and for the aquarian to be less stubborn.
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