truecap, I doubt that I can. I'm a good friend to him, but it's obvious for me that even this stays a friendship, and doesn't go back to how it was, it'll be over at some point. Especially if he keeps behaving the way he does, cos now he isn't even really friendly most of the time. I just think after he gets help and starts trying to make his life better, he might be open for a relationship as well.. I hope, which is why I wondered if Aquarius man can do that, "leave" and come back.. But until then, I'll be his friend and help him, or at least try.