Posted by belledandy20
Last week he told me he's not ready for a long-term commitment, and it's best for us to be friends.
Posted by belledandy20
If you read my original post, it was him who said we have a commitment / a relationship, when we had no discussion about it.
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Contradictory are we? I'm confused. Which 1 is it?
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Posted by tiki33
If your 10xs prettier, exotic looking or just all around sexy with lots of friends, big personality with a little bit of skank on the side and have a big ego and combine that with his Narcissism he will most certainly drop her for something better, I've witnessed this with my own eyes.
When there's an even prettier jewel, he'll drop her for another and another...
the pattern is there for a reason. He'll never change if he does this. It will go on and on. When you're middle aged, he'll go for a younger woman, then when she's middle aged, he'll go for an even younger version.
Look to Hugh Hefner...(no offense to Hugh)
Play this game, little Aqua, go ahead. Go on with your bad self.
Be the "one" to fix him.
Love it BoomShaka!!! And SOOO true :-)
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On n'aime que ce qu'on ne poss?de pas tout entier.
Posted by Nefer
But do you really want this Pisces as a friend?
I was going to suggest the same thing - but got too lazy to respond.
TGFN (thank goodness for Nefer - I'm having bracelets made
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Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
I have some experience with this
My advice? Seek out that Moon-Sun conjunction. THAT is where it's at
and mars to moon on both parties. WIN~!
this way no "unrequited love" either.
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yes Rose you could be right. If he just doesnt care then it doesnt make him resentful.
Just makes him a thoughtless prick who cannot bestow an ounce of courtesy. Is that another taurus trait?
Just makes him a thoughtless prick who cannot bestow an ounce of courtesy. Is that another taurus trait?
Nefer on point again.
I have noticed this more and more in my own life over the past few years.
I can make friends really easily once you accept me and my ways, the fact that I feel what you want before you do yourself makes me an excellent friend. Sadly for you I don't value friendship the way most people do.
It's something ethereal out there, nothing you can grab with your bare hands or try to understand.
Once you get into that true friend zone -barely anyone ever does- you'll be lodged in there for the ages.
I will do everything and anything for you without having to ask or beg even.
I do expect you to do the same thing for me or at the very least offer me something I cannot provide for myself.
Funny how I have slots in my life that are open for people to fill up.
Only 1 person will get to throw me against the wall and yell their opinion at me about shit I do.
One will be my beloved and they get me in all my glory and shortcomings.
One is for wisdom at any and all hours of the day
I spread my love and attention over all my true friends, they realize this or wouldn't have gotten this far.
Most people don't get it. When we're friends I'm always there for you, but that doesn't mean I'll keep in contact like others do. You don't have to expect me to ring you up every day and talk about my day, no that's what my love is for. I do my own thing and you do yours, without trying to blackmail me into more social contact. Never try to blame me for not being more active in your life.. We both have our own and I'm there if you want me to be. I pick up after 3 or 4 months absence like I just saw your yesterday and nothing ever changed time-wise. If you do not understand this ability and crawl up the walls for it, we cannot ever be true friends. It's a natural selection process but well worth it if you can live with this arrangement.
Yes some 'friend' people will leave us sooner or later, but we don't really care. It's the natural course of life, you love & leave people *shrug*
There's always more people to get to know and I'm doing it right now as I write this.
My chart is perfect for being a warm attractive personality, but it's only the top layer.
I always hope that special people will find a way to stay in my life, but I won't force you if you don't want to. I do hope with a fiery passion most of the time.
Especially since I do my own selection process.
I have noticed this more and more in my own life over the past few years.
I can make friends really easily once you accept me and my ways, the fact that I feel what you want before you do yourself makes me an excellent friend. Sadly for you I don't value friendship the way most people do.
It's something ethereal out there, nothing you can grab with your bare hands or try to understand.
Once you get into that true friend zone -barely anyone ever does- you'll be lodged in there for the ages.
I will do everything and anything for you without having to ask or beg even.
I do expect you to do the same thing for me or at the very least offer me something I cannot provide for myself.
Funny how I have slots in my life that are open for people to fill up.
Only 1 person will get to throw me against the wall and yell their opinion at me about shit I do.
One will be my beloved and they get me in all my glory and shortcomings.
One is for wisdom at any and all hours of the day
I spread my love and attention over all my true friends, they realize this or wouldn't have gotten this far.
Most people don't get it. When we're friends I'm always there for you, but that doesn't mean I'll keep in contact like others do. You don't have to expect me to ring you up every day and talk about my day, no that's what my love is for. I do my own thing and you do yours, without trying to blackmail me into more social contact. Never try to blame me for not being more active in your life.. We both have our own and I'm there if you want me to be. I pick up after 3 or 4 months absence like I just saw your yesterday and nothing ever changed time-wise. If you do not understand this ability and crawl up the walls for it, we cannot ever be true friends. It's a natural selection process but well worth it if you can live with this arrangement.
Yes some 'friend' people will leave us sooner or later, but we don't really care. It's the natural course of life, you love & leave people *shrug*
There's always more people to get to know and I'm doing it right now as I write this.
My chart is perfect for being a warm attractive personality, but it's only the top layer.
I always hope that special people will find a way to stay in my life, but I won't force you if you don't want to. I do hope with a fiery passion most of the time.
Especially since I do my own selection process.