Pisces loves Virguy

ngs for now .. maybe more later ...

Posted by piscesx
I have told him a few times in the past that we should stop seeing each other if .....
Every time I mention that perhaps we should not continue, he becomes more attentive, makes plans ahead of time, but that lasts only a short time, and soon back to the old routine of seeing me on the spur of the moment, not responding to texts for many hours.

You giving him signals that your regard for him is conditional, and if he doesn't adhere to you then he isn't worth you .. which is what the quotes above are saying is equivelant to shooting yourself in the foot, considering by virtue of him being a Virgo, it is in his nature to believe he isn't worthy of you.
This is an insecurity they live with daily .. and you using those manipuating tactics of suggesting to him that you don't want him because he isn't good enough for you the way he comes, and you'd rather not have him at all the way he comes ... which is what you mean when you say those things quoted above will ruin any chance you might have had with him because instead of maneuvering him closer to you, it will enhance this rooted insecurity, and create a wall.

Posted by Let*It*Be
It gets even better.
.... if you remain patient...IT GETS BETTER.

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And second, the above is horse-shit.
Virgo comes the way he comes, he doesn't change for the better or worse. He doesn't change at all. For someone to tell you the be patient that it gets better, when you clarify that your concern is his inability to open up to you is in essence telling you that the "getting better" part entails that he opens up and to support your emotional insecurity by being emotional .. and that is a crock of shit.
be careful what you take to heart because some people have no realistic experience with Virgos.

It doesn't get better to mean ..... he gets to be a better boyfriend with time.

The beauty of the Virgo is that they remain constant, are extremely reliable ... which means there are no changes .. you get exactly what you see.

The only "getting better" is you, and how you change yourself to understand that the Virgo nature comes simply, no games.