Pisces loves Virguy
So what would you rather us do?? Take the time to approach the situation or yell and scream? I've done the latter on occasion and it didnt get me far.
And dont pretend like you fishes are any better....when you cant handle something you swim away...isn't any different or better! How do you think that makes a virgal feel??
And dont pretend like you fishes are any better....when you cant handle something you swim away...isn't any different or better! How do you think that makes a virgal feel??
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Posted by seraphPosted by R1g0rM0rT1s
the answer to those questions is........i don't know. i don't know the real reason i like him but i do kinda suspect it's for the wrong reasons hence the constant need to slow down and evaluate what's going on cos i don't want to go at his pace which i feel is already persuading him to feel things that he's mistaking for something more.
also, it's as if there's something in the back of my mind that is telling me that when he gets to know what i'm REALLY like, he'll have a dramatic change of heart LOL. i haven't been working these past few weeks and i'm a different person in that zone so i've told him he should wait until that time to see if he still feels the same.
which also buys me breathing space.
So this is an issue of self-worth, then?
You feel uncomfortable with what might be the genuine article because you don't feel like you're worth it? "Once he sees the real me . . .", once the other shoe drops, etc. And then you feel you would have to deal with his disappointment, including your own? So it's much simpler to keep people at arms length, because the stakes are lower. There's less risk, and there's less emotional investment involved that could potentially go sour.
"which also buys me breathing space." Is it fair to say that that you prefer the distance and comfortable defenses of "breathing space" over the genuine risk of going all-in with someone?
Does any of this sound familiar?click to expand
ffs seraph, i'm a grown woman! no this is NOT an issue of self-worth. it's too much bloody self-worth, lol!!! the best way to describe it is that i always have this feeling i'm looking over someone's shoulder to see if something better is out there. i like to keep my options open. my marriage was such a sham on both sides that it was easy to live like that and so consequently, i've never managed a monogamous relationship.
i have impossibly high standards and ridiculous mood swings sometimes that verge on irrational. the last 5 years, i've been living on my own and i'm sure it's made me a less 'angry' person...cos that's what i had issues with then.
when you commit to someone properly and don't just play at it like i've always done, then you are opening up your world to them. i've already told the crab that i want to be with someone wh
Posted by lnana04
Aww@lildol!...trying to hide from the camera lol.
Thanks for the pics!
DO NOT like my pic taken!
And on top of it, my butt looks flat and otherwise big/broad... *hangs head*
(at least my legs looks skinny)
with someone who i don't feel the need to keep secrets from cos that is a huge red flag that i'm not really into someone. so i'm just gonna take this day by day and see where it goes. no promises. i won't make them to him either cos i'm really no prepared to make false claims in the emotional department.
oh yeah....someone asked how much virgo i had in my chart earlier? the answer is ascendant, pluto and uranus.
oh yeah....someone asked how much virgo i had in my chart earlier? the answer is ascendant, pluto and uranus.
You pray?? To WHAT god??
As for you voting twice, vote wise
(unless you really do want WW 3!)
As for you voting twice, vote wise
(unless you really do want WW 3!)
seraph: i was only joking about the get out of my head...it's just that your observations are too incisive sometimes. grrrrrr!!
And that's why so many people lose patience and Aqua's miss out on some really good relationships. I used to date another Aqua and he did the disappearing thing for a couple months. During that time I met the Aqua I'm seeing now. Damn my luck! Another dang Aqua! lol!
To all who answering wat placements or planet that bring humor? I'm curious of how we find humor in our charts
Posted by lildolPosted by lnana04
Aww@lildol!...trying to hide from the camera lol.
Thanks for the pics!
DO NOT like my pic taken!
And on top of it, my butt looks flat and otherwise big/broad... *hangs head*
(at least my legs looks skinny)click to expand
LoL! Come on Lildol, you look fine! I can tell you were trying to hide though lol.
But I understand you. I lose all cool at the sight of a camera...talk about duckin and dodgin smh.
Thanks again for everyone's input!
Why would that make him heartless?