Pisces loves Virguy
Signed Up: Oct 04, 2012
Comments: 1 · Posts: 664 · Topics: 18
Comments: 1 · Posts: 664 · Topics: 18
Lol hello Virgo R... maybe you can give Pisces X some good advice for her Virgo doctor .(...
What's your advice to her?
What's your advice to her?
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Posted by lildolPosted by lnana04
Aww@lildol!...trying to hide from the camera lol.
Thanks for the pics!
DO NOT like my pic taken!
And on top of it, my butt looks flat and otherwise big/broad... *hangs head*
(at least my legs looks skinny)click to expand
LoL! Come on Lildol, you look fine! I can tell you were trying to hide though lol.
But I understand you. I lose all cool at the sight of a camera...talk about duckin and dodgin smh.
Thanks again for everyone's input!
Why would that make him heartless?
I rarely get disappointed. I generally don't have expectations of any kind.
You may be right MB. we are probably not go -getters. Things have a way of finding us. Mates, friends careers. We are typically very lazy people. We tend to work smarter not harder. So actually get up and go get??? Why...you can go get and then bring.
People tend to mature as they get older. It is called wisdom. The older you get the more you realize what is important and what is not. One of the things you should realize, is that you can't go to war every time. It's not that we are no longer fighters, we become generals instead of soldiers.
You may be right MB. we are probably not go -getters. Things have a way of finding us. Mates, friends careers. We are typically very lazy people. We tend to work smarter not harder. So actually get up and go get??? Why...you can go get and then bring.
People tend to mature as they get older. It is called wisdom. The older you get the more you realize what is important and what is not. One of the things you should realize, is that you can't go to war every time. It's not that we are no longer fighters, we become generals instead of soldiers.
Posted by lnana04
Looks like your mom?
Theres always a twist to a Gemini story lol.
one more twist my mom is also capricorn i never got well with mom she is very impatient which is very unlike of any Capricorn she loves money
i really loved my mom too much until 15
at 16 i suffered a huge setback i failed in one of my paper in my board exam i managed to clear it later
my dad was there to support me but my mom left me alone went to orphanage for six months
after that relationship with my mom got worse she came she still loves me but i cannot forgot what she did to me i still feel she should have supported me during those time
my life has been full of bad luck some of my friends who study worse than me manage to pass through
but i have always faced failures a lot some due to my luck some due to my carelessness
after i failed in love i really wanted to die i could not take anymore failures
sometimes i dunno what is keeping me from killing myself
I project daily anxieties into make believe relationships.
If I am needing a break from something horribly stressful in my real life I will sit at my computer and imagine all these terrible feelings are over my latest unavailable man.
That seems so much sweeter than reality.
Sometimes.
Unavailable is good for me because I'm not entirely sure I'm capable of being touched by a man without shaking like a leaf. I get so cold, and I shake so hard for so long.
You don't hear back from them after that.
When they're unavailable however,
I can tell myself that the problems are all his.
His fears alone.
Him needing to be the one to "man up".
It's fairly manipulative. It's pretty damaged.
I do genuinely adore these men, but it never works out and it may as well be his fault first.
I worry that the longer I go without a man touching me, the harder it will be. I worry that the longer I go without the courage to be emotionally intimate with a man increases the risk that the isolation itself will change me irrevocably into the sort of person who simply no longer -can- connect with other human beings on that level.
I do not want to live the rest of my life devoid of human touch.
Gentle touches full of so much more meaning than words convey.
"I accept you" is about as close as I can think of and it does a piss poor job by comparison.
I really liked this one. We'd actually have been compatible but he's just as damaged as me I reckon.
Scared.
I think I made an error in judgment
I think this guy is not "unavailable" so much as he is "Aquarian"
My Aqua and I are supposed to meet irl in Nov We live in the same city and have not met for 6 months. The plan was that we would meet in July. His disappearing act prompted me to explain that I was no longer interested in bonding with someone over the course of an entire year, online. I won't give my emotions to a figment of my imagination any longer. That even if this is to be completely unromantic I would need to take this to irl or walk away. - as expected he initially went into a diatribe about how great I am but he's just not ready for a relationship anytime soon. (He's said he thinks us meeting will = couple) I agreed I wasn't either and dropped it. Magically, a few days later - we are meeting for drinks with a mutual friend from online in November.
Hes still in disappearance mode - processing. The fact that hes even processing this is good but I'm scare
If I am needing a break from something horribly stressful in my real life I will sit at my computer and imagine all these terrible feelings are over my latest unavailable man.
That seems so much sweeter than reality.
Sometimes.
Unavailable is good for me because I'm not entirely sure I'm capable of being touched by a man without shaking like a leaf. I get so cold, and I shake so hard for so long.
You don't hear back from them after that.
When they're unavailable however,
I can tell myself that the problems are all his.
His fears alone.
Him needing to be the one to "man up".
It's fairly manipulative. It's pretty damaged.
I do genuinely adore these men, but it never works out and it may as well be his fault first.
I worry that the longer I go without a man touching me, the harder it will be. I worry that the longer I go without the courage to be emotionally intimate with a man increases the risk that the isolation itself will change me irrevocably into the sort of person who simply no longer -can- connect with other human beings on that level.
I do not want to live the rest of my life devoid of human touch.
Gentle touches full of so much more meaning than words convey.
"I accept you" is about as close as I can think of and it does a piss poor job by comparison.
I really liked this one. We'd actually have been compatible but he's just as damaged as me I reckon.
Scared.
I think I made an error in judgment
I think this guy is not "unavailable" so much as he is "Aquarian"
My Aqua and I are supposed to meet irl in Nov We live in the same city and have not met for 6 months. The plan was that we would meet in July. His disappearing act prompted me to explain that I was no longer interested in bonding with someone over the course of an entire year, online. I won't give my emotions to a figment of my imagination any longer. That even if this is to be completely unromantic I would need to take this to irl or walk away. - as expected he initially went into a diatribe about how great I am but he's just not ready for a relationship anytime soon. (He's said he thinks us meeting will = couple) I agreed I wasn't either and dropped it. Magically, a few days later - we are meeting for drinks with a mutual friend from online in November.
Hes still in disappearance mode - processing. The fact that hes even processing this is good but I'm scare
Posted by capgirl75
Aww, Lildol, you are SO pretty! Love these pics. You look like you had a blast.
TY! We did have a great time. But, you, YOU, didn't join us and I had to fight him off all by myself... he's an animal!! Damn unruly goats
FYI: I want no excuses from you for next weekend. Your son will LOVE Knoebels
Ok, now let me see yours!
Posted by lnana04Posted by lildolPosted by lnana04
Aww@lildol!...trying to hide from the camera lol.
Thanks for the pics!
DO NOT like my pic taken!
And on top of it, my butt looks flat and otherwise big/broad... *hangs head*
(at least my legs looks skinny)
LoL! Come on Lildol, you look fine! I can tell you were trying to hide though lol.
But I understand you. I lose all cool at the sight of a camera...talk about duckin and dodgin smh.click to expand
I've been like that all my life, even as a young child. I wonder if that is a Cap thing... hmmmm... in general, we tend to not like to draw attention and pics are, in a sense, drawing attention to ourselves. Regardless, I just don't like the way I look in pics. CP even told me I'm better looking in person. He's a sweetie; I'm sure he was just saying it to be nice