Help with Cancer ex please!!
incandescentcancer10; How about a Cancer/Aries hate story lol... It's been a roller coaster ride.... We're so alike but different, it's soo weird...
As far as your situation is concerned, what do YOU really want? this is the question to answer. What do your own thoughts and feelings tell you? Well its complicated we've known each other for over ten yrs... Met in 5th grade hated each other, became a couple in 8th grade... Went to different high schools but got back together in 11th grade & then dated for 5 yrs so I have a lot of history for this guy... I have mixed feelings... I want to be friends but I still have feelings for him & I feel that ex's shouldn't be friends if there's still feelings... I guess my question should have been " Why is he trying so hard to remain friends & does he still loves me?"
As far as your situation is concerned, what do YOU really want? this is the question to answer. What do your own thoughts and feelings tell you? Well its complicated we've known each other for over ten yrs... Met in 5th grade hated each other, became a couple in 8th grade... Went to different high schools but got back together in 11th grade & then dated for 5 yrs so I have a lot of history for this guy... I have mixed feelings... I want to be friends but I still have feelings for him & I feel that ex's shouldn't be friends if there's still feelings... I guess my question should have been " Why is he trying so hard to remain friends & does he still loves me?"
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Outside pressure. Specifically friends and relatives who "know best". Being told, over and over again, that he/she is not good for you. Or not a good match. Or whatever. Especially by a strong-willed, controlling parent (usually the mother). Especially if you still live with her and have to bear her constant nagging on the subject...
Money issues.
Out-of-check egos.
Major insecurities within oneself or within the relationship.
Immature mind-games...
Money issues.
Out-of-check egos.
Major insecurities within oneself or within the relationship.
Immature mind-games...
Posted by glassblowing
Also, our lust is our love and if she wasn't ripping your clothes off and going all the way after you kissed her....
True that. I'm approaching 30 so I'm learning to keep that lust in check, a little, but the truth remains that, if I'm into a guy, I WANT to rip his clothes off and get down to business... sometimes even before he's had a chance to touch me/kiss me, lol. That being said, if I like a guy enough to consider him as a potential boyfriend, and not just a play buddy, I will wait a little to get to know him better before the whole ripping clothes thing
But I agree. Aries are VERY physical, so if she's not trying to jump him, she's either not THAT into him, or there are other factors influencing her decisions (like maybe she doesn't want to rush into a new relationship?).
Anyway, I find it encouraging that the girl still touches him from time to time. I know for a fact I wouldn't do that with a guy I wasn't at least a little attracted to...
I have Aries sun, Leo moon and scorpio rising. Rest are go with the flow water signs mostly. but there's a lot of fire and mars in me too.
Dated a Cancer man for almost a year, it is HARD WORK, let me tell you...
They're sweet, doting, and attentive to your needs. However, they're selfish when it comes to attention and time has to be on his terms, which doesn't go well with Aquarius pride and stubbornness. It eventually fell apart for various reasons, but a part of it was we were just different. He needed someone on a more intense emotional level, I needed someone who wasn't always so sensitive and would crawl back in his shell whenever sh*t hit the fan.
They're sweet, doting, and attentive to your needs. However, they're selfish when it comes to attention and time has to be on his terms, which doesn't go well with Aquarius pride and stubbornness. It eventually fell apart for various reasons, but a part of it was we were just different. He needed someone on a more intense emotional level, I needed someone who wasn't always so sensitive and would crawl back in his shell whenever sh*t hit the fan.
It hurts us to be away from our loves. You can never, NEVER understand if you aren't a scorpion. We will always be suspicious and angry when we're away. Our kind are very possessive. We obsess over our loves, its just our way. When we finally find monagamy, we want to keep it forever. I have rarely found it myself, but if I ever found someone that I could love forever... I can't even describe the feeling I would have. I would want to give them the world, BUT I WOULD DESTROY THE ONE WHO WOULD TAKE THEM FROM ME.
50% of my dreams are apocalyptic... by way of water. OR post apocalypse... and it's me and a few survivors living in a water world.
the last one i had a few nights ago... decomposing algae from dying life in all of the debris was killing the oceans and starting to kill off everything that survived.
it's so weird to me that whenever i have an end of the world dream, water is the main theme. there has to be some meaning to the end of the world and flooding.
the last one i had a few nights ago... decomposing algae from dying life in all of the debris was killing the oceans and starting to kill off everything that survived.
it's so weird to me that whenever i have an end of the world dream, water is the main theme. there has to be some meaning to the end of the world and flooding.
Ms. Elusive, I do sincerely apologise for my intrusion. I certainly hope my unannounced dropping-in did not inconvenience you 
+ignores all others+ 25thDecan, someone here mentioned +oral oficiando+ and im curious, do you consider yourself one since u play those instruments? Thats hot btw.