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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
Hey thanks guys! That's really sweet of you all. And Alana there'll be a party out in some nightspot in Dublin this weekend so it'd be great if you can make it too. I'm now 30. Yikes!
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
From one Feb 8th-er to another: Happy Brithday Primegen!
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Nov 17, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 305 · Topics: 17
Tell me about it. I think he feels that I'm his girlfriend, but just doesn't want to call me one. It consciously makes him feel as if he's being held down or something. But if we don't have a label, i guess it makes him feel that he's a free man and can do what he wants. It's weird. But then it makes me wonder, are we ever going to get past this point?
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Oct 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 207 · Topics: 29
I am a taurus lady and have met a Cancer male that i am interested in. I met him at a family party where we exchanged numbers. We spoke frequently over the phone for about 4 months before meeting up (as i live in another state). During these conversations we really vibed with one another and even though he often seemed shy, i was able to bring him out of his shell. Anyway I recently travelled back to the same state and we met up and had what i thought was a great time. We chilled, laughed, talked and had great sex!!! I was there for two weeks and for the first week he bombarded me with calls for the first three days and took me out regularly, then he disappeared for four days, then called me again, we met up a couple more times and then he dissappeared again!!!
I am due to be moving back to the same state as him in a couple of months and he tells me he can't wait and that he is really missing me. My problem is that during all of this time, we seem to have two good weeks where he calls me repeatedly and then two weeks where he does not accept my calls and doesn't seem to want to speak to me (during these times he will text me goodmorning or goodnight via my mobile). It just seems like he forgets about me and then remembers again. When i ask him about it, he will avoid me for a while and i never get a direct answer, he will just say that he is going through some issues but that we are still cool. I want to believe him but at the same time my taurean nature requires a bit more security. Is he really interested or just playing games?
Please help!
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Aug 01, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1322 · Topics: 35
Pato~ yes... I had a Cancer act like this to a certain extent. He had an ex-girlfriend (3 yr. relationship) cheat on him and she was living some "secret life". He was on the dating sites and I met him on there. He wasn't as intense and in full, hot pursuit in the beginning, like these Cap men., but he wouldn't usually answer his phone and I had to suggest the idea/plan for getting together. He faded out... after I think I freaked him out by asking what his interest level was in this. Then, he came back and emailed after several months... I agreed to see him, he "stood me up"/ had emailed me about some family emergency. I think there may have been one more round after that, which was more frustration and I told him don't contact me again unless you are serious about wanting a relationship. And haven't heard from him again! Yea!! He is STILL on that dating site, and from what I know he's been active and never off it for the past THREE years. So that tells you right there- it's HIM, not me!! He's 38 too, never married. COMMITMENT ISSUES!!
I was never that hung up on him, thank gosh! Took a bit to get him off my mind, but I didn't have this "fated"/ karmic connection with him, like I feel with this Cap. guy.
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May 03, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4058 · Topics: 601
Another VERY disturbing thing.
Hi,
I've been spending quite a bit of time with a collegue of mine... out of work hours!
I get the impression that he likes me, others have noticed this too. And he took me out for dinner on my Birthday.. he treats me so well, and I'm starting to get feelings for him.
The thing is, although he always tells me I look great and gives me all this attention, he has yet to make a move! I'm not sure if this is because we have known each other for a few years and he's taking it slowly, or if I'm not letting-on enough that I like him, or even myself and my freinds have read it wrong and he sees me as a friend... although I honestly don't think it's that last one!
So, should I make it more obvious that I'm interested, or wait as he could be just taking it slow... or.. make the firt move myself?
Never made the first move before, and don't want to scare him off, how would Libras tend to handle this?
Any advise would be appreciated... thanks! :-)