How Fast Do Aries Move On?
Posted by xxnightbynight
I have too much water in my sign to let go that easily. - I'm emotional. - But I did have a long term relationship I was able to get over within 6 months. - There have been men in and out of my life but... some I cant seem to get over. Not sure why? - I've spent much less time with them and yet... I'm stuck like glue. - We're all different. But I can see how it's easy for some Aries to move on very fast... But I have to add this:
no matter how fast it seems we've moved on ... whoever we "moved on" from will always have a special place in our hearts. Even if you hurt us... the GOOD memories stick out far more than the bad ones.
I wish this were the case for me. But i have had some really bad times in every relationship except one and that didnt last long. I swear i think i was drugged for a number of years i have endured alot of bullshit that i cant believe i accepted. i dont have any good memories and im tired of saying that but its the truth.
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I dunnno I don'y keep track maybe 7 or 8 through the years that really got to me
You just get through them with your hobbies . work , friends and never alcohol lol
I don't know your hearts going to get broken at times just because you have to put yourself out there in the trust and love department if your going to be in a realtionship. I keep looking like a fool
You just get through them with your hobbies . work , friends and never alcohol lol
I don't know your hearts going to get broken at times just because you have to put yourself out there in the trust and love department if your going to be in a realtionship. I keep looking like a fool
The birth chart gets stuck loading at least for me
Posted by BigGirlPanties
cap moon....ugh...double ugh...!
And what is that supposed to mean?
When I fall in love, I make my intentions known. I reveal all of me. In essence, I tell them "I stand naked before you. Here I am." Yeah, it sounds corny, but I take it seriously and I pay close attention to their reaction. Fellow Saggies, how do you reveal yourself when you're in love. Anyone can respond, but I want to hear from my fellow signs in particular.
@OP, as someone who has lost my mom and butted heads with her for similar reasons, looking back, i needed to get over myself. in addition, i wonder if she was going through peri-menopause and if that were the cause of some of the unnecessary outbursts? the irony is, this is something i too will experience one day and imagine how much of a shit i'll feel like when the shoe is on my foot.
your mom may have always had this type of personality, but IF her outbursts are increasing/different than they were in the past, you should really consider the menopause angle. she may not even be aware of it herself and if that be the case, the situation requires compassion. in a way, it'd be akin to getting mad at someone who is bipolar...while knowing they're bipolar.
overall, it's you that has changed, not her. she's a taurus after all. she's your mother, you will ALWAYS be her child. she has to LEARN how to treat you as a young woman and when you are acting a little more young, than woman, hey, you get what you get.
oh and there is nothing in her chart that screams "anger issues." also, she's more like you than you than you may realize (your mom has venus in Pisces in her 12TH HOUSE)
your mom may have always had this type of personality, but IF her outbursts are increasing/different than they were in the past, you should really consider the menopause angle. she may not even be aware of it herself and if that be the case, the situation requires compassion. in a way, it'd be akin to getting mad at someone who is bipolar...while knowing they're bipolar.
overall, it's you that has changed, not her. she's a taurus after all. she's your mother, you will ALWAYS be her child. she has to LEARN how to treat you as a young woman and when you are acting a little more young, than woman, hey, you get what you get.
oh and there is nothing in her chart that screams "anger issues." also, she's more like you than you than you may realize (your mom has venus in Pisces in her 12TH HOUSE)
*catches beer*
You know, I think thrift store shopping is a cap thing. We can't resist a good deal! and proud of finding those good deals! lol!
I can't afford full price on the brands I like, but I can afford those brands at a thrift store. Its all about quality. If you buy something trendy at Wal-mart, for example, it falls apart after a couple of washings, but quality made items with quality fabric can be classic and will last a long time.
Shopping IS a sport, afterall!
I can't afford full price on the brands I like, but I can afford those brands at a thrift store. Its all about quality. If you buy something trendy at Wal-mart, for example, it falls apart after a couple of washings, but quality made items with quality fabric can be classic and will last a long time.
Shopping IS a sport, afterall!
Jynja, can you shoot me a direct link? Not exactly sure where to go...
And do all these cost money??
And do all these cost money??
The thing you need to remember about Leo/Scorpio is it is double trouble. Both signs are fixed. He is less likely to compromise. It is not because he doesn't want to but because he feels he does not have to.
If you want him in your life , you need to simply find a way to accept the relationship on his terms. I wouldn't go silent. What would that accomplish?
If you want him to consider giving up his life style you need to show him why he should. So you are going to have to be a little more freaky a little more outgoing a little more whatever than the next person. The only difficult part is you do not know who your competetion is. It's like competing with a ghost.
There are people who are going to tell you to not waste your time and move on. That's ok too. Just remember this is you life and..............
You only live once but once is enough, if you do right.
All Leos want the best...the BEST everything. So be the best...the BEST everything.
Good Luck
If you want him in your life , you need to simply find a way to accept the relationship on his terms. I wouldn't go silent. What would that accomplish?
If you want him to consider giving up his life style you need to show him why he should. So you are going to have to be a little more freaky a little more outgoing a little more whatever than the next person. The only difficult part is you do not know who your competetion is. It's like competing with a ghost.
There are people who are going to tell you to not waste your time and move on. That's ok too. Just remember this is you life and..............
You only live once but once is enough, if you do right.
All Leos want the best...the BEST everything. So be the best...the BEST everything.
Good Luck
I'll give it a brief shot. Look at the temper of the fire signs. Aries will react quickly. They will blow up and let out their greivance without a thought of what they said or who they hurt in the process. There is no filter. Leo also has quite a roar, but its not as quick of a reaction as Aries. They will filter their words better and are more conscious of the factors contributing to the emotion and more in tune to the people in the pathway. Sag has a better tendency to control said temper and look at things logically and present a more thought out expression of that anger and considers the best approach so as not to alienate everyone in its path.
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