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I live here (middle-east) but am not a native.
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McShaker, I am feeling so much empathy for you right now, truly..i know I am not the most popular woman on this board as I do not do the "is he thinking about me now" thing, not out loud anyway. I do in my head and i obsess and obsess and obsess and feel that, esp because I'm a pisces, i have some pyschic power to make them think of me and want me. but i inevitably get to a point of having to accept some really truly harsh realities. He MAY NOT be thinking of me just because I am, and HE MAY not be wanting me as much as I want him, and HE MAY just be going along with his life and not giving our special nights any more thought than "nice lay" and i know i drive some of the other women crazy on this board with my ramblings but I am trying trying trying soooo hard to build my self respect and self esteem up so i don't self destruct. I have just spent the past three weeks TRYING to let go of a man who obviously DID NOT think what I thought were truly special close intimate moments as I did. he has moved on has not called has not emailed and i really doubt highly that he will. there are so many other women out there. Saying this hurts and i know you are in such a hard place right now with losing your job, that's so awful and I'm so sorry, and i know how nice it would be to have someone there to hold you and tell you it'll be ok...and it will, you said it yourself about priorities. but you also said, how "casual" this fling is for you and yet your doing all the same wondering and waiting and wishing that we all are/were...other people have said it in so many ways here, they, cap men, and other men too, can be SO there that you feel like the most special person on the planet, and then they leave and you can't figure out what the hell is going through their heads. You're hurting so much right now, such a hard blow, and my heart truly goes out to you because I know the feeling so well, try to be hopeful, and not for him but for you, call some friends, family , whomever can give you some love and support...cry on their shoulders and try not to do anything that'll make you feel worse. I have no clue, maybe if you did call him he would be there. but i know for myself when i've been in those places and called this kind of man desperate for his love and support, it wasn't there and i ended up feeling even worse than i already felt. that's why i'm practically begging you to reach out to other people who you KNOW will be there for you, you seem like a loving caring person and there must be some loving caring people who can be there for you now when you need it most, not someone who won't even return a phone call
I'm so sorry, McShaker. I think you had told me that you were anticipating leaving that job, bc. of company downsizing or something. I hope you find some new job you'll love soon.
Ladies, these men are wounded 'fraidey cats... they don't want and can't handle a relationship (with anyone) so just remember that-- IT"S NOT YOU, IT'S HIM!! Yea, there may be other women, but it's no different what they're doing w/ them. Jumping around just keeps them from getting attached and HURT...again.
Ladies, these men are wounded 'fraidey cats... they don't want and can't handle a relationship (with anyone) so just remember that-- IT"S NOT YOU, IT'S HIM!! Yea, there may be other women, but it's no different what they're doing w/ them. Jumping around just keeps them from getting attached and HURT...again.
Hi pisces woman...I'm pretty new to this board so I don't have much opinion about people here. Only CapGirl and she is very, very nice...I really like her. I don't know why you say you aren't popular here but I appreciate your response, it's good to know someone cares. I had no desire to call him back and what happened today only reinforces that.
It saddens me when I read you because that's exactly what happened...he made me feel so special ESPECIALLY and I guess I thought a guy could only be this way with someone he has deeper feelings for...I guess not..
Since, from the start, we both new it was only casual. That's the main reason I was so shaken the next day. So much tenderness, so much affection...so much...so much...so much...even asked me if we were going to see each other again...called me 1 week after and said I will be calling you back. I left a voicemail 1 week ago and that's where we are at right now...
The thing is, it's more that I feel guilty for saying something that MIGHT have scared him. He said "don't get attached now" (it's an inside) to which I replied "don't even worry about it" (another inside)and I added "no more than you...". He asked me to repeat...and I did. I guess it's my thing...I always feel guilty...WHAT IF I had not said that...I keep making a big fuss about it...like that's the reason he's not calling...
Anyways...Other things to think about right now...like finding a job...making sure I can pay my bills...my house...
I don't know what to think of this but...I had a flat tire on the 1st of January and one on my birthday. How many flat tires do you have...in a life time! I know it's ridiculous but it hit me while I was waiting for road assistance...just weird...
I HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY AND THAT I WILL FIND ANOTHER GOOD JOB WHERE I WILL BE ABLE TO FULFILL MYSELF AND BE HAPPY AND THEN FIND SOMEONE TO COMPLETE ME...I just have to believe that...
It saddens me when I read you because that's exactly what happened...he made me feel so special ESPECIALLY and I guess I thought a guy could only be this way with someone he has deeper feelings for...I guess not..
Since, from the start, we both new it was only casual. That's the main reason I was so shaken the next day. So much tenderness, so much affection...so much...so much...so much...even asked me if we were going to see each other again...called me 1 week after and said I will be calling you back. I left a voicemail 1 week ago and that's where we are at right now...
The thing is, it's more that I feel guilty for saying something that MIGHT have scared him. He said "don't get attached now" (it's an inside) to which I replied "don't even worry about it" (another inside)and I added "no more than you...". He asked me to repeat...and I did. I guess it's my thing...I always feel guilty...WHAT IF I had not said that...I keep making a big fuss about it...like that's the reason he's not calling...
Anyways...Other things to think about right now...like finding a job...making sure I can pay my bills...my house...
I don't know what to think of this but...I had a flat tire on the 1st of January and one on my birthday. How many flat tires do you have...in a life time! I know it's ridiculous but it hit me while I was waiting for road assistance...just weird...
I HAVE TO BELIEVE THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY AND THAT I WILL FIND ANOTHER GOOD JOB WHERE I WILL BE ABLE TO FULFILL MYSELF AND BE HAPPY AND THEN FIND SOMEONE TO COMPLETE ME...I just have to believe that...
Merci CapGirl...It's just so hard right now...too many things happening at the same time...
...I'm scared...
...I'm scared...
" It has been over a week since that conversation. I have not had a way for him to reach me since then because I have been travelling so I do not know how he feels now. I can call him but I'm afraid to. Is this relationship a lost cause or can I/should I try to win him back? How do you win back a Scorpio?"
Sounds like something I would do.
This whole story sounds just like me and my ex pisces and technically, he never won me back.
Hey, next time, do not say things you do not mean.
I think he might be a little confused as to where your feelings for him stand you know? So I think you should do the card/letter thing and let him know how you feel. Will it work? I have no clue. But if my pisces would have did something like that, it probably would have worked a bit.
With my experience, it takes a lot to get me to get back there.
Good luck.
Sounds like something I would do.
This whole story sounds just like me and my ex pisces and technically, he never won me back.
Hey, next time, do not say things you do not mean.
I think he might be a little confused as to where your feelings for him stand you know? So I think you should do the card/letter thing and let him know how you feel. Will it work? I have no clue. But if my pisces would have did something like that, it probably would have worked a bit.
With my experience, it takes a lot to get me to get back there.
Good luck.
Man oh man. I have felt like this so many times. Sometimes you gotta tell them.
"You sound kind of insecure Shaka. Most people don't listen to board dictators who are about "keeping amongst the same sign" anyway. So really your message is a waste of time and space. There has been nearly 200 post since Qbone made his topic, and 95% of them aren't Virgos to begin with. So obvioulsy no one really cares, as they are just going to do what they do anyway."
...Dam n.
Why do you always make sense?
Huh?
...Dam n.
Why do you always make sense?
Huh?
"BS, you're probably right...you may not become close friends at the rate you're going. It sounds to me like this girl is too insecure, and is so busy trying to be bossy and tell you what to do instead of trying to be a friend. Of course, that's not gonna work. "
We're very close, ya kno? But you are right. I meant I don't see us being as close as we are. It is the truth. It's like... don't think you can just boss me the heck around and talk to me how ever you want to, and I'm not gonna do anything back. (not talking to you). She gets mad when I wanna do things my way ALSO. I do cooperate, but if I disagree with a certain thing, she gets mad.
"Aries, including myself, can be pretty bossy and controlling. If I were you I'd pull her aside and explain how you feel, and that you're not going to tolerate her behavior towards you if she wants to be your friend"
I plan to do that next time she decides to do that.
" think it's an Arien nature to want to be a leader- and for some, they lead by taking control of others. "
The funny thing about her is ...she admitted she is a follower most of the time. But then again she WANTS to run things (??..exactly). To me, she has little control over things, wether it comes to being bossy with me or herself, or handling other situations. Now if she feels she's gonna lead by taking control of me...LOL, wow, this should be good. I hope to God that she is not thinking that way.
I'm gonna try and ignore that one.
"I think pulling someone (who's just friend) and telling them what kind of behavior you'll tolerate from them is a bit aggressive.... especially for a friend. If she's just a friend, and you find her overwhelming, then just spend less time with her."
Spending less time with her is what I am doing but she is very "clingy". She said she really admires me and loves me as a friend. Now, I think I would be wrong to completely avoid her. Pulling people to the side is not aggressive, to me. She IS sensitive, but I don't think it will hurt her.
". I chose to spend less time with her and bring into my life more stable friendships. I felt that she needed to know why I was not going to be as involved in the friendship."
I had a Leo friend, she was a mess. Talk about perpetrating.
We're very close, ya kno? But you are right. I meant I don't see us being as close as we are. It is the truth. It's like... don't think you can just boss me the heck around and talk to me how ever you want to, and I'm not gonna do anything back. (not talking to you). She gets mad when I wanna do things my way ALSO. I do cooperate, but if I disagree with a certain thing, she gets mad.
"Aries, including myself, can be pretty bossy and controlling. If I were you I'd pull her aside and explain how you feel, and that you're not going to tolerate her behavior towards you if she wants to be your friend"
I plan to do that next time she decides to do that.
" think it's an Arien nature to want to be a leader- and for some, they lead by taking control of others. "
The funny thing about her is ...she admitted she is a follower most of the time. But then again she WANTS to run things (??..exactly). To me, she has little control over things, wether it comes to being bossy with me or herself, or handling other situations. Now if she feels she's gonna lead by taking control of me...LOL, wow, this should be good. I hope to God that she is not thinking that way.
I'm gonna try and ignore that one."I think pulling someone (who's just friend) and telling them what kind of behavior you'll tolerate from them is a bit aggressive.... especially for a friend. If she's just a friend, and you find her overwhelming, then just spend less time with her."
Spending less time with her is what I am doing but she is very "clingy". She said she really admires me and loves me as a friend. Now, I think I would be wrong to completely avoid her. Pulling people to the side is not aggressive, to me. She IS sensitive, but I don't think it will hurt her.
". I chose to spend less time with her and bring into my life more stable friendships. I felt that she needed to know why I was not going to be as involved in the friendship."
I had a Leo friend, she was a mess. Talk about perpetrating.
Hey I'm just curious about this
Are you silly/goofy at times?
Do a lot people find you funny?
Do you consider yourself weird or unique?
Has anyone else?
Are you a great person to talk to?
Do you lie a lot or was there one point of time in your life where you did?
Are you very friendly?
Do you like to socialize?
Do you get along with Scorpios?
Can you be kinky at times?
Has anyone ever called you naive?
Are you very forgiving?
Can you stay mad at someone for a long time?
I'm going to see how you guys compare to my Aqua friends.
Are you silly/goofy at times?
Do a lot people find you funny?
Do you consider yourself weird or unique?
Has anyone else?
Are you a great person to talk to?
Do you lie a lot or was there one point of time in your life where you did?
Are you very friendly?
Do you like to socialize?
Do you get along with Scorpios?
Can you be kinky at times?
Has anyone ever called you naive?
Are you very forgiving?
Can you stay mad at someone for a long time?
I'm going to see how you guys compare to my Aqua friends.
Hey Elliot, since you're the only Scorpio guy I see on here...
(if there is anymore you can reply, you don't have to be Elliot)
How do you feel about a lady approaching you? Is it too much?
Or would you rather do it?
(if there is anymore you can reply, you don't have to be Elliot)
How do you feel about a lady approaching you? Is it too much?
Or would you rather do it?