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The title got you to take a look huh? sans the manelo offer....so I guess you found something tantalizing enough to grap your attention
The title got you to take a look huh? sans the manelo offer....so I guess you found something tantalizing enough to grap your attention
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"youre one of his mates, how predictable" - God! your're so new to this board Shaka2.....if you think the above:-).....it's clash of the titans for ages with these two extremely intelligent guys....but also me thinketh a sneaking admiration for each other, but they hide it so well.....well they are virgos!!!!:-)
Welcome to the Board but I got to be honest, I don't like the slagging and your below-the-belt names of Q-bone......pretty childish, pretty tit-for tat stuffy.....so your one of the "new kids on the block" - kid being the "operative" word!!!
Alana x
Welcome to the Board but I got to be honest, I don't like the slagging and your below-the-belt names of Q-bone......pretty childish, pretty tit-for tat stuffy.....so your one of the "new kids on the block" - kid being the "operative" word!!!
Alana x
Hello to you Copperhead....and welcome:-)
Just a quicky response.....I'm aquarius with ascendent gemini!! and my virgo guy of 3 years had a scorpio moon & ascendant!!! - so we have kind of similarities.......
Golden Rule...never ever, ever in your life:-) be flippant or dismissive when these guys want to share or talk about feelings (and they do big time)......they are passionate, speak from the heart, and speak the truth.
Me being aquairus felt uneasy and uncomfortable and quite flippant and dismissive when it was "heart" time, i'd even have to look away fromm his eyes it got so intense at times!!!! This was my way of trying to diffuse the feeling talk and dampen down the love heights!!! I know I hurt him to the core with some of the things I said....to this day he can recite like a parrot all the "flippancies" I uttered - we are now "forever friends" - but I won't have him as my exclusive lover.....
Good luck with your virgo guy Copperhead ..... (like the name!!!)
Alana x
Just a quicky response.....I'm aquarius with ascendent gemini!! and my virgo guy of 3 years had a scorpio moon & ascendant!!! - so we have kind of similarities.......
Golden Rule...never ever, ever in your life:-) be flippant or dismissive when these guys want to share or talk about feelings (and they do big time)......they are passionate, speak from the heart, and speak the truth.
Me being aquairus felt uneasy and uncomfortable and quite flippant and dismissive when it was "heart" time, i'd even have to look away fromm his eyes it got so intense at times!!!! This was my way of trying to diffuse the feeling talk and dampen down the love heights!!! I know I hurt him to the core with some of the things I said....to this day he can recite like a parrot all the "flippancies" I uttered - we are now "forever friends" - but I won't have him as my exclusive lover.....
Good luck with your virgo guy Copperhead ..... (like the name!!!)
Alana x
Are you silly/goofy at times?---Yes very,.at certain times
Do a lot people find you funny?---Not alot but some do
Do you consider yourself weird or unique?---Unique
Has anyone else?---Yes,friends and family
Are you a great person to talk to?---Yes and also a great listener
Do you lie a lot or was there one point of time in your life where you did?---No, i try to avoid as much as possible bcose when one lie is told you have to continue. Its a waste of my time.
Are you very friendly?---Very
Do you like to socialize?---Very much so when i'm in the mood
Do you get along with Scorpios?---My b/f is scorpio no problems so far
Can you be kinky at times?---Very much so
Has anyone ever called you naive?--- No
Are you very forgiving?---Absolutely not. according to what was done i will eventually forgive but never forget. (maybe the scorpio rising though)
Can you stay mad at someone for a long time?---Yes i can. according to what was done to me,.i'll continue to Maybe be nice but on the inside(my feeling) of me will keep them at a distance. (maybe scorpio rising again though)
BlueAqua; )
Do a lot people find you funny?---Not alot but some do
Do you consider yourself weird or unique?---Unique
Has anyone else?---Yes,friends and family
Are you a great person to talk to?---Yes and also a great listener
Do you lie a lot or was there one point of time in your life where you did?---No, i try to avoid as much as possible bcose when one lie is told you have to continue. Its a waste of my time.
Are you very friendly?---Very
Do you like to socialize?---Very much so when i'm in the mood
Do you get along with Scorpios?---My b/f is scorpio no problems so far
Can you be kinky at times?---Very much so
Has anyone ever called you naive?--- No
Are you very forgiving?---Absolutely not. according to what was done i will eventually forgive but never forget. (maybe the scorpio rising though)
Can you stay mad at someone for a long time?---Yes i can. according to what was done to me,.i'll continue to Maybe be nice but on the inside(my feeling) of me will keep them at a distance. (maybe scorpio rising again though)
BlueAqua; )
Where did the "f@# $ off" come from? Good question. I was annoyed at him from the start because he didn't tell me before I came to visit that he was dealing with these problems. He said he didn't want to tell me because he still wanted me to come see him. Although everything was great in the beginning, his problems got the best of him to the point where he was almost completely ignoring me but still wanted me around. I tried to be understanding but after awhile it came down to the fact that I took time off work and travelled to come see him and I didn't expect to get caught up in his drama. If we were living together, fine, but I only had limited time with him and didn't know when I'd be able to see him next. I didn't want to spend that time watching him watch tv and ignore me. Plus his drinking freaked me out. He didn't get wasted but it was every day and his intake increased a little each day. My intuition was telling me that there was something more going on so I kept questioning him and after awhile, he didn't even want to talk about it anymore. I didn't feel he was being honest and didn't like the way he was acting in the end so I just had enough and that was where my reaction came from. In retrospect, I wish I had stayed and talked to him but at that time I felt I was going to hear more b.s. from him anyway. I tried to call him last night but his sister answered and said that he was not home. I couldn't get more than that because his family does not speak good English. But atleast he knows I called. He does not have a number to call me at and thinks that I am in another country right now. I don't know if I should try again or just give up.
Thanks for the advice Alana!! We haven't got to the talk about feelings stage as yet, but when we do, I'll know not to diffuse the situation with humour as I normally do! He's so quiet and the way he looks at me sometimes makes me blush!!! But he does say the sweetest things when I'm least expecting it, which is really cool! We've been kind of seeing each other since December and I'm not sure whether to ask him how he feels or whether to just leave it for him to bring up. I know he's been hurt badly by his last girlfriend, who was seeing someone else without telling him and then moved away. He saw her last time we were out together, and I asked him why he didn't speak to her, and he just said, 'because I was with you.' Bless!
Hey CapGirl1225...
As you've probably read, I'm of course a Cap. and have been dealing w/ a Cap. male for almost 1 1/2 years. It started off w/ a bang, him chasing me and wanting to spend every evening w/ me. And then it got all messed up and has never been the same. Anyway, it's really been a power-control struggle with each of us wanting the other to confess their feelings, what they want, and to basically "submit" and be vulnerable. I've given in and done some of that, but haphazardly through email and text msgs., but it doesn't seem like it's enough for him. He wants "the physical" but I want the relationship first, so that's another aspect of the struggle for control.
The TEST you all the time, to see if you'll chase him. They seem to like to try to get an emotional reaction of you too, to get a "true sense" of your interest level. If you're like me, that won't happen- I don't get all dramatic and lose control, particularly when I can see that's what they're trying to do!
I'm sure others, like Sweet&Sour, will have more to add. But, if I were you, if you start seeing these red flags (disappearing/not calling/not committing to a plan to see you), I'd RUN. It's no fun, and the eroding of your self-esteem trying to deal w/ him, is not worth it. I'm now trying to move on in a new way myself, bc. I'm sick of being alone and wondering why I'm still doing this dance w/ him.
As you've probably read, I'm of course a Cap. and have been dealing w/ a Cap. male for almost 1 1/2 years. It started off w/ a bang, him chasing me and wanting to spend every evening w/ me. And then it got all messed up and has never been the same. Anyway, it's really been a power-control struggle with each of us wanting the other to confess their feelings, what they want, and to basically "submit" and be vulnerable. I've given in and done some of that, but haphazardly through email and text msgs., but it doesn't seem like it's enough for him. He wants "the physical" but I want the relationship first, so that's another aspect of the struggle for control.
The TEST you all the time, to see if you'll chase him. They seem to like to try to get an emotional reaction of you too, to get a "true sense" of your interest level. If you're like me, that won't happen- I don't get all dramatic and lose control, particularly when I can see that's what they're trying to do!
I'm sure others, like Sweet&Sour, will have more to add. But, if I were you, if you start seeing these red flags (disappearing/not calling/not committing to a plan to see you), I'd RUN. It's no fun, and the eroding of your self-esteem trying to deal w/ him, is not worth it. I'm now trying to move on in a new way myself, bc. I'm sick of being alone and wondering why I'm still doing this dance w/ him.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!
lol, how cute, I'll take the puppy for my Valentine's date! Daisy can still cuddle!
same to you all...no plans for me tonight, just saying "Happy Tuesday" i will talk to my kids, who I LOVE and LOVE me, and someone in work just heard on the radio that today is the busiest day for florists(to be expected) AND this is funny, private investigators!! so...that just goes to show, we're not alone in all this "looking for love in all the wrong places" stuff, that really made me laugh. I may get together with a couple friends tonight OR if too tired after work, might just crash in bed, put on some kind've absolutely positively NON-romantic movie and read a book. It really is just another day, if you love someone you don't need a special day to show it.
I hope everyone has a really great Tuesday...Mcshaker, hang in there, my thoughts are with you
I hope everyone has a really great Tuesday...Mcshaker, hang in there, my thoughts are with you