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Virgo1881,
He didn't forget. The day is still young, if you are worried, give it a few hours, then contact him. If he really has stood you up for no reason, that would be bad. I don't think he is that hateful.
He didn't forget. The day is still young, if you are worried, give it a few hours, then contact him. If he really has stood you up for no reason, that would be bad. I don't think he is that hateful.
it so confusing just last saturday he was talking about spending more time together, and then i dont hear from him is frustrating. he includes me in his life introducing me to his family his friends and then he disappears then he appears and now this....
He called you to come and visit him while hasn't notified you about BS you gonna see there. And then say: "I wanted to see you". This is not a good behaviour. Such behaviour needs very good reason to be digested well in a person's mind. If he calls you there and knows that you gonna see something nasty, then this person must have a good reason for doing so, especially after treating you like "I don't wanna you to see this all crap". Contradiction? Yes. Explaination required.
He started to drinking. This is bad sign. A person who started to hurt himself (yes getting alcohol in this situation is equals to hurting himself) surely has very good reason for it. You see, when a person is in bad situation, first they usually start hurting other people and when it doesn't work they start hurting themselves. But sometimes, they just start hurting themselves right away. The difference between those two is how much that person feels hurt. If a person is really in a very bad situation he will start hurting himself right away and pass others. Your intuition is right here, there is something "big" behind all what you can see. This requires an explaination.
Ignoring you might be for not hurting you. Yet, in this case the reason must be related with you. He didn't want to talk with you about why he is ignoring you, which strenghtens the possibility of reason being with you.
You have said that he is not honest with you. Possible. But it may also be because he is an idiot. You see, people are not perfect, they can have mistakes. This is understandable case, but willing to correct mistakes is what really counts which is not appliable in your case. Sorry. I don't see that he is trying to fix his mistakes. He appears just uses you for his emotional needs. And if you like to be used intentionally, then there is no problem.
"In retrospect, I wish I had stayed and talked to him but at that time I felt I was going to hear more b.s. from him anyway. "
Yeah this is where you have exploided finally. Understandable. Yet, I think this part must be continued and finished once the situation is appropriate. And there is a little mistake of you here (actually this is a mistake because of this guy, with someone else with greater understanding it wouldn't be a mistake). If you already knew this guy well enough (which I suppose you did since you were planning on marriage) you should have not allowed yourself to explode because you would knew that he cant take it. But as I said before, this is a mistake becase of him. It is not a mistake if we are generally speaking.
His sister tried to avoid you when you called him the second time. This is another sign of problem being with you. I can assume that their family might not want your marriage with him. Very possible. Watch it. If this is a case, then you should take his family member comments as a nonsence and talk with him directly. And in your situation, it will be very benefical for you if you ignore his family members comments right now and talk to him directly. After all what will you lose?
He started to drinking. This is bad sign. A person who started to hurt himself (yes getting alcohol in this situation is equals to hurting himself) surely has very good reason for it. You see, when a person is in bad situation, first they usually start hurting other people and when it doesn't work they start hurting themselves. But sometimes, they just start hurting themselves right away. The difference between those two is how much that person feels hurt. If a person is really in a very bad situation he will start hurting himself right away and pass others. Your intuition is right here, there is something "big" behind all what you can see. This requires an explaination.
Ignoring you might be for not hurting you. Yet, in this case the reason must be related with you. He didn't want to talk with you about why he is ignoring you, which strenghtens the possibility of reason being with you.
You have said that he is not honest with you. Possible. But it may also be because he is an idiot. You see, people are not perfect, they can have mistakes. This is understandable case, but willing to correct mistakes is what really counts which is not appliable in your case. Sorry. I don't see that he is trying to fix his mistakes. He appears just uses you for his emotional needs. And if you like to be used intentionally, then there is no problem.
"In retrospect, I wish I had stayed and talked to him but at that time I felt I was going to hear more b.s. from him anyway. "
Yeah this is where you have exploided finally. Understandable. Yet, I think this part must be continued and finished once the situation is appropriate. And there is a little mistake of you here (actually this is a mistake because of this guy, with someone else with greater understanding it wouldn't be a mistake). If you already knew this guy well enough (which I suppose you did since you were planning on marriage) you should have not allowed yourself to explode because you would knew that he cant take it. But as I said before, this is a mistake becase of him. It is not a mistake if we are generally speaking.
His sister tried to avoid you when you called him the second time. This is another sign of problem being with you. I can assume that their family might not want your marriage with him. Very possible. Watch it. If this is a case, then you should take his family member comments as a nonsence and talk with him directly. And in your situation, it will be very benefical for you if you ignore his family members comments right now and talk to him directly. After all what will you lose?
gl- I am not a big fan of receiving flowers unless they are wildflowers--but I'm just not a flower girl. Nor am I a fan of fake anything. But I guess he meant well. I would have appreciated them if I KNEW THE GUY. I didn't go to North Carolina, by the way.
Virgo1881, it's ok. He has not forgotten, please don't worry. Give him a call later, be your sweet self and tell him you're looking forward to seeing him tonight, or something positive like that. Put the guilt on him, so to speak 
It may help you to feel better.
It may help you to feel better." "2 - 3 sweet ass licking lines" - that man can kiss my sweet ass any time he dam wants to - that's for sure:-)!!!"
Then tell him to kiss your ass the whole time. This way he wont find a time to bother us here.
Then tell him to kiss your ass the whole time. This way he wont find a time to bother us here.
Thanks Qbone ! Hope you are having a good valentines day. Chocolatey hugs from Scorpgal.
! Hope you are having a good valentines day. Chocolatey hugs from Scorpgal.Which sign do you all think is the most jealous sign? I'm sure I've read it somewhere before. I know Leo's can be...not sure how I know that, lol. I don't know about Gemini's though. Can anyone give me some insight or opinions on this subject?
Hi girls,
I'm sitting here today feeling all sorry for myself because my relationship ended a little over a week ago and I really thought I was going to have a Valentine for the first time in 8 years. I also heard something on the radio this morning and I'm not sure it's a good thing or if it's just plain disturbing. They said that 50% of men between the ages of 40 and 65 are either divorced or never married. In some ways that's depressing but in other ways that gives me hope that I will actually meet someone again :-)
I'm sitting here today feeling all sorry for myself because my relationship ended a little over a week ago and I really thought I was going to have a Valentine for the first time in 8 years. I also heard something on the radio this morning and I'm not sure it's a good thing or if it's just plain disturbing. They said that 50% of men between the ages of 40 and 65 are either divorced or never married. In some ways that's depressing but in other ways that gives me hope that I will actually meet someone again :-)
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY