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Apr 12, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4267 · Topics: 82
Basically I just don't think theres anything wrong with a woman initiating conversations,approaching guys,etc. but there IS a difference between myself and women who are sometimes as well as completely sober acting stupid,clingy,grabby and pathetic with guys.So think you may be refering to those women Yes?In that case I agree with you,even just toying around judging women on that hotornot website taurusgoddess mentioned the girls wearing next to nothing,wearing too much make,etc. got low votes from me lol.
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Dec 31, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 585 · Topics: 81
GL, I called my gemini friend up to wish him happy V-Day. I dont know why i did this. Well actually he was on my mind. When he answered the phone he was Happy and asked me why was i whispering on the phone,..i told him i didnt know his situation so maybe he have a wife now. He said no he's not married the wife ideas went out the window when i left him. I could have crumbled into a thousand pieces. He was so flighty when we were together but when we did find the time for each other it was Great!!.
I wonder if us Aquarian women have more of tendency to go back and look-up old loves?? or is this women in general??
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Jan 13, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 212 · Topics: 32
My (ex) Cappy got me something for V-Day and I guessed everything in the book and he won't tell me and I have to wait until the weekend after this coming up one to get it. But what are good V-Day gifts for men? Any suggestions?
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Nov 17, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 305 · Topics: 17
Thanks for ur comments guys. I appreciate it. I'm not taking this very easily, still really hurt. I know we werent together at the time he did sleep w/her, but it still hurts. Yes, he is a police officer. I don't know if he was trying to use some of his training on me or not. He really looked deep into my eyes this a.m. tho. Like he could tell he really crushed me in 2.
T36 -- u r totally right. I'm going to let him miss me. If he tries to call, I won't be answering. I really have nothing to say to him anyway. I don't think he'll call tho. I think he knows he really did a number on me this time. U know what. When we got together after that two weeks apart, and after he had did that w/her he asked me if I had went out on a date, etc. Then he asked if I had boned anyone. I told him no. That right there should have told me he did. Why else would he have asked. I was going to ask him then, but I knew deep inside, had a feeling that he had.
Oh well, I don't deserve the treatment he gives me. I care a lot about him, he knows that. It's a waste tho. As much as I want things to work and to be w/him, Im just letting it go now. I dont think there is any use in continuing this non ending circle of breaking up/being together, and especially him seein others at the same time. Man I have strong feelings for him, but I can't and won't let myself be treated this way. I do deserve better.
Ladies, I just want to be w/him and for things to be normal, but I guess I have to realize and live in reality right now that it's just not going to happen w/him and I. And it hurts....BAD!
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Aug 01, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1322 · Topics: 35
Well... you did say you were surprised he suggested a VDay date, Virgo1881, right? But that is weird- a test on Thurs. and it's Tues. night. If you aren't too far into this guy, I'd consider punting him, or launching, as they say. I'm starting to come around to APW's line of thinking these days... OMG??!! LOL
Ladies, I've been on match.com for 2 days now, signed up for the first time, and it's a major ego-booster, time filler. I have no time to worry or think about the #1 AHole, bc. I'm busy checking out these various guys sending me "winks" and emails. It's too fun! I said I'd never do the online dating, but I'm getting a real kick out of it so far-- A guy w/ degrees from Stanford and Yale is interested... and when that's out there as a possibility, makes me wonder why I'd waste more time on a game-playing little boy like the Cap.!
Anyway- for those of you at the end of your rope, who've felt powerless and obsessive for way too long now, it's an option to consider.
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Nov 17, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 305 · Topics: 17
I agree APW....couldn't have said it better!
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Dec 31, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 585 · Topics: 81
"We must! I do it all the time...Although by then, they've either found someone else or they are so "heartbroken" that they don't want to talk to me anymore...sheesh."
You too OFA? when i do this i find that i'm kicking myself because i should have been stronger, but on the other hand again my curosity was/is satisfied,.it felt good to call him and get it off my chest. The chances we take huh?; )
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Jan 29, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 835 · Topics: 31
Girls, I guess we just need to turn into a bitches to get the attention of a man. My guy that just broke up with me broke up because he can't get over a his ex girlfriend who made him give up all of his friends, wouldn't let him travel on business, got mad at him for not buying her brat son a car and stole everything he owned when she left including his car, passport, and and his financial papers. He can't get over her. He even said that he compares me to her. He told me when we first started dating that he loves that I'm so sane and so normal and I told him to be careful that he might get bored by normal after having so much drama in his life. He said no way. It's such a curse to always be right.
As for Match.com. I'm on there. Have been for years off and on and have never met anyone that I had chemistry with. I have been out with lots of one dates from that site. I do know people that have met somebody that way though so I don't give up, but I am starting to get a little jaded with the whole dating scene on the whole. Hahaha!! Does anybody want to join my Valentine's Pity Party?????
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Apr 12, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4267 · Topics: 82
MY pisces is out shopping right now,cooked him dinner and yeah,probably be fucking like rabbits later lol.