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Jacdoniel
"- What wanting to see you, has to do with things that's around you ? Wanting to see you is a feeling (From the heart)and those BS or Crap as you call them, that comes (from life), What kind of wife can you be if you can not support him when things doesn't go as you would like it to go. Is true love conditional ? Should he only get in touch with you when everything is beautiful around him ? in that case what would be the difference between you and any other girl out there. The explanation required is simple, we call it "life's ups and downs"."
What wanting to see you has to do with things that's around you? Do you know irritation? Thats it. What I was adressing as "crap" wasn't feelings of this man. By saying crap I was adressing his family problems. I'm not a wife material person. I'm not a female either. You should better look at profiles first and then put your text here next time. True love is not conditional, but when a person is placed in situation where he/she will face with something irritating, then I think it is quite fair to have choice upon this. After all, this woman is having relationship with this man, not his family and she should have a choice wheither see this or not. You call it life's ups and downs. I think you mix two things here. Life's ups and downs is something that you have no control over. Here, for this girl it is not ups and downs. It is forced and better say "deceived" situation where she faces with your so called "ups and downs". It's a matter of choice here and I think this guy simply missed the point. I don't say that situation is wrong, no, what I try to say is that some people don't know how to handle them well enough. I also do understand that his problems is important for her. After all what will make her different from a girl that is walking on the street? Yes nothing would be if she doesnt interested in them. But there is one thing about that; if she can help him in his problems then she would but if she can't then she better stay away from him while he solves them. This is done just for sake of relationship because when they together debating over something that has no solution then they simply destroy their relationship. And if she stays away from him that doesn't mean that she wont see him when he wants, but making her see him while not notifying about crap she gonna see there, is the actual problem what we have here.
"- Since when starting to drink is a bad sign ? of course drinking too much maybe unhealthy, so is eating too much, sleeping too much, sex too much, working too much so on and so on ... too much of anything is not good, but then again, what that has to do with him wanting to be with her."
It is obvious that this guy started drinking because of his problems. (As she said he started drinking when his problems arrived and increased the amount every day). What I tried to say was this drinking habit is a sign of something bigger than he allows you to see.
"- You're assuming "wrong", if she knew him, the way you suppose she did, she would at least know about these problems and wouldn't be that surprise about him being the way he is (Nobody gets to where they are overnight). My opinion is they don't know each other at all."
I am talking about what she should have known. If she choices her marriage partner over her wrong knowledge about him then this is her bad choice. And I also gave her tip about how to solve it. And I also said "If".
"In a relationship, the most important is "Destination" where both of you are going, once that is set and your both willing to work for the relationship sake, than together and I repeat together, you will go through "ups" and "downs" that is just life, he will not always be the way you want him to be, you will not always be the way he wants you to be, that's life and the only way to make it is to support each other (as long as he doesn't direspect you and/or abuse), that goes
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I don't know.lol.
But I can assume that it is something very nasty.
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I agree on that one with Keef.
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Tiamat
I thought Mercury sign describes on how you communicate. (How well you communicate) I didn't know it has impact on personality.
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Brahn0913
I agree that both signs choice on different topics to master. But I am still convinced that Pisces is more talented on using its abilities that Virgo does. Pisces is just somehow "confused" for some assine reason.