To Missmorals.....lite hearted
Hello all, I hope all is well with everyone...needed to take a break very busy with work and personal life.
missmorals- girl you and I are just like.
Meet a Cap guy the other day and went out to eat and he was very confident, so confident that he was saying stuff like "He is going to make me his" LOL is what I did and he said that after the date I was going to call him. and I said to him very confident? and he said that people say he is overly confident and I said there is nothing wrong with that but when your confident gets shattered I hope that you can deal with it...
He also made the comment about I am going to call him and tell him how much I like him etc. and I said oh yea this was sunday of course and I have not pick up the phone to call him little do he know that I have no intentions on calling him. I also informed him that I know about Cappies etc...questions every action I could about there personality and he continued to hang in there, wanted to touch and kiss me but I would not let him I told him that I was not in the mood for that I showed no emotions what so ever.
He told me I waa fiesty and he likes that in a women.
He then asked me what do I think about him and I told him that I don't have a comment because I have not thought about that and he said "you have'nt and I said "no" I probably think about you tonight and decide whether I would go out with you again and then we left the restaurant and I gave him a hug and said thanks for the dinner and he said "I must have done something right I got a hug. duh the hug was for dinner duh...I did not tell him that. LOL....
I thought about him but I don't want him. not at all not even my type and the only reason why he want to date me is because he said that he always date big women and I was the smallest women he has dated in a long time...go figure..LOL....still don't want him...
I told him that anything he tells me that I am going to do I am going to do the opposite because one, I am not a child and 2, it really is not like that, 3 to confident I need to bring him back to reality or he will just get pissy mad at me and walk away if he as not already done that. It does not phase me anymore about them men and there personallity because my mind is made up.
This is my personal opinion on being in a relationship or being friends with someone anyone.
I just can't seem to fathom the idea of being with someone and having to watch what I say and be more sensitive to there needs then my own does not sit well with me. any realtionship or friendship is supported by each other, and communication. I need to be myself and say what is on my mind regardless. You know the saying "If you can't take the heat get out the kitchen" and that is how I feel about Cap men...they can dish it out but they can't take it they can do what they want be crital, analyze, disrepectfull and inconsiderate and you can't, because if you do then you will be hurting there precious feelings and they might go MIA until they get stronger. It is not fair not to any women and any women that has to deal with any man under those circumstances or more must be press for a man or weak themselves.
One last note, an old Scorpio male got in touch with me (don't date scropio men dare not, we will be fighting) and he has being trying to get me to come to his house for dinner and I won't go. Why? you ask don't go backwards only forwards, I was talking to him on the phone and he got sarcastic and I said to him "know I see why I stop talking to you" I said "both of us can't be sarcastic and he said can we take turns and I said "no" the only person who can be that way is me and started LOL...well he did not comment on it but he is still trying to get me to come to dinner...I told him straight up that I don't know if I want to date right know..I don't believe in leaving one relations and jumping right into another. Men and wom
missmorals- girl you and I are just like.
Meet a Cap guy the other day and went out to eat and he was very confident, so confident that he was saying stuff like "He is going to make me his" LOL is what I did and he said that after the date I was going to call him. and I said to him very confident? and he said that people say he is overly confident and I said there is nothing wrong with that but when your confident gets shattered I hope that you can deal with it...
He also made the comment about I am going to call him and tell him how much I like him etc. and I said oh yea this was sunday of course and I have not pick up the phone to call him little do he know that I have no intentions on calling him. I also informed him that I know about Cappies etc...questions every action I could about there personality and he continued to hang in there, wanted to touch and kiss me but I would not let him I told him that I was not in the mood for that I showed no emotions what so ever.
He told me I waa fiesty and he likes that in a women.
He then asked me what do I think about him and I told him that I don't have a comment because I have not thought about that and he said "you have'nt and I said "no" I probably think about you tonight and decide whether I would go out with you again and then we left the restaurant and I gave him a hug and said thanks for the dinner and he said "I must have done something right I got a hug. duh the hug was for dinner duh...I did not tell him that. LOL....
I thought about him but I don't want him. not at all not even my type and the only reason why he want to date me is because he said that he always date big women and I was the smallest women he has dated in a long time...go figure..LOL....still don't want him...
I told him that anything he tells me that I am going to do I am going to do the opposite because one, I am not a child and 2, it really is not like that, 3 to confident I need to bring him back to reality or he will just get pissy mad at me and walk away if he as not already done that. It does not phase me anymore about them men and there personallity because my mind is made up.
This is my personal opinion on being in a relationship or being friends with someone anyone.
I just can't seem to fathom the idea of being with someone and having to watch what I say and be more sensitive to there needs then my own does not sit well with me. any realtionship or friendship is supported by each other, and communication. I need to be myself and say what is on my mind regardless. You know the saying "If you can't take the heat get out the kitchen" and that is how I feel about Cap men...they can dish it out but they can't take it they can do what they want be crital, analyze, disrepectfull and inconsiderate and you can't, because if you do then you will be hurting there precious feelings and they might go MIA until they get stronger. It is not fair not to any women and any women that has to deal with any man under those circumstances or more must be press for a man or weak themselves.
One last note, an old Scorpio male got in touch with me (don't date scropio men dare not, we will be fighting) and he has being trying to get me to come to his house for dinner and I won't go. Why? you ask don't go backwards only forwards, I was talking to him on the phone and he got sarcastic and I said to him "know I see why I stop talking to you" I said "both of us can't be sarcastic and he said can we take turns and I said "no" the only person who can be that way is me and started LOL...well he did not comment on it but he is still trying to get me to come to dinner...I told him straight up that I don't know if I want to date right know..I don't believe in leaving one relations and jumping right into another. Men and wom
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