Need advice from female virgos!
Well Wondergem - I too am a divorced woman and have been single for awhile (my choice) and the reason being was because I wanted to devote my time and energy to my boys and their well being for what we all had experienced. My goal was to help them become emotionlly stable, independent and loving themselves to that they would succeed in life and their relationships. I did date and had and still have many wonderful male pals. The men that were my "pals" were able to come to my home but the men that I thought that there may be something there - I did not bring to my home. Reason, did not want to add further emotional complications to my life or my boys unless I was absolutely sure of my decisions. Yes, she is being cautious and thinking about her daughter - good for her! Says quite a bit about this lovely womans character doesn't it? Continue to respect her wishes - when she feels the time is right for her and her daughter, she will most definately let you know.
Well wishes to you - you wonder of a Gem!
Well wishes to you - you wonder of a Gem!
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Oh Cancerlady, I looked it up and Chad is a Scorpio- I looked it up on IMDB- his bday:
November 15, 1974.
Oh Cancerlady, I looked it up and Chad is a Scorpio- I looked it up on IMDB- his bday:
November 15, 1974.
Michael Kroeger as Mike Kroeger (born June 25, 1972) is the bass guitarist for the band Nickelback.
Mike was the first band member to get married and start a family. His wife and kids often tour with the band. The family tour bus is where Mike stows his Soloflex for weight training on tour.
Posted that for you too- notice what it said about him being the first to get married and start a family- you family loving Cancers you, lol
Mike was the first band member to get married and start a family. His wife and kids often tour with the band. The family tour bus is where Mike stows his Soloflex for weight training on tour.
Posted that for you too- notice what it said about him being the first to get married and start a family- you family loving Cancers you, lol
i have been reading your postings about capricorn men and nodding my head all morning! fascinating stuff. it all rings true for me.
i had a brief relationship with a cap man in the UK around 6 years ago when i was 27. i finished it suddenly one day as i couldn't deal with exactly the issues you all talk about. the erratic phone calling. the secrecy, the lack of emotion. i wasn't really sure where i stood in the relationship.
once we were stopped randomly by the police. they asked him if i was his girlfriend and he said yes but he really hesitated. that hurt me very much and from then on, i became really paranoid as i was falling in love with him by then.
everything was on his terms. he could be late but i couldn't. he moved very slowly but criticised me if i did. he came to my parents house yet didn't seem to want me to come to his. yet i saw glimmers of his senuousness and admired and respected his stamina and strength of character more than anyone else i'd ever met (and i meet a lot of people!). i told him this when i broke it off with him and he put his head in his hands and said that he needed to grow up. he seemed genuinely quite shocked that i was finishing it. it was as if he hadn't noticed my paranoia.
6 years and i find i still can't forget him. i think underneath his cool exterior he liked me a lot. he used to surprise me at the beginning with the most off the wall but also well-thought out gifts, which, being quite cookie myself, i appreciated. then however, he would 'disappear' both emotionally and physically for a while. i found this difficult to deal with back then but see now that i should have been more patient. i like space myself, but guess i just need to feel more reassured.
i think he liked my vitality (i'm a gemini), my quirkiness and perhaps even my ambition. we were intellectual equals although i always had the feeling he didn't like me doing better than him. he was very secretive about his work, perhaps because we are in the same field. he 'forgot' to tell me that we had applied to the same company for example, even though after we both had accepted jobs there.
he is very security conscious and we lost contact for ages but i had the fortune to find out his company email recently. i found out he was living in japan, just before i was about to go to on holiday to japan myself. a complete fluke. i asked if he could show me around. he obliged. we seemed to be getting on okay and i was very excited.
then i committed a fatal error. when in japan, i phoned him and left a voicemail to try and fix up the meeting. i said i would call him the next day but the next day, i totally chickened out. i don't know why, i think i was probably scared of his indifference towards me.
i now feel like a total idiot. since getting back to the uk, i emailed him to apologise with a crap excuse which im sure he saw through, but i think i have now lost all his trust! i have had a few replies from him but in true style he never instigates emails. he does work an awful lot and apologises in his mails for not having a lot of time for the personal things in life and that his mails are always shorter than mine however.
what's more, i suddenly find myself as of this week working for the same company that he works for albeit in the UK. my bosses have met him several times (arrgh!) and i guess it is only a matter of time before we meet or bump into each other because we all have to travel regularly to the states and far east.
i don't want to stalk him but i want to let him know how i feel about him in a subtle way. how the devil does one do this in email?
any advice greatly appreciated, especially if you are a capricorn male! how would you like to be pursued, indeed, would you like to be pursued at all? should i tell him that i respect and admire him? shall i seek his advice career wise? he seems to qui
i had a brief relationship with a cap man in the UK around 6 years ago when i was 27. i finished it suddenly one day as i couldn't deal with exactly the issues you all talk about. the erratic phone calling. the secrecy, the lack of emotion. i wasn't really sure where i stood in the relationship.
once we were stopped randomly by the police. they asked him if i was his girlfriend and he said yes but he really hesitated. that hurt me very much and from then on, i became really paranoid as i was falling in love with him by then.
everything was on his terms. he could be late but i couldn't. he moved very slowly but criticised me if i did. he came to my parents house yet didn't seem to want me to come to his. yet i saw glimmers of his senuousness and admired and respected his stamina and strength of character more than anyone else i'd ever met (and i meet a lot of people!). i told him this when i broke it off with him and he put his head in his hands and said that he needed to grow up. he seemed genuinely quite shocked that i was finishing it. it was as if he hadn't noticed my paranoia.
6 years and i find i still can't forget him. i think underneath his cool exterior he liked me a lot. he used to surprise me at the beginning with the most off the wall but also well-thought out gifts, which, being quite cookie myself, i appreciated. then however, he would 'disappear' both emotionally and physically for a while. i found this difficult to deal with back then but see now that i should have been more patient. i like space myself, but guess i just need to feel more reassured.
i think he liked my vitality (i'm a gemini), my quirkiness and perhaps even my ambition. we were intellectual equals although i always had the feeling he didn't like me doing better than him. he was very secretive about his work, perhaps because we are in the same field. he 'forgot' to tell me that we had applied to the same company for example, even though after we both had accepted jobs there.
he is very security conscious and we lost contact for ages but i had the fortune to find out his company email recently. i found out he was living in japan, just before i was about to go to on holiday to japan myself. a complete fluke. i asked if he could show me around. he obliged. we seemed to be getting on okay and i was very excited.
then i committed a fatal error. when in japan, i phoned him and left a voicemail to try and fix up the meeting. i said i would call him the next day but the next day, i totally chickened out. i don't know why, i think i was probably scared of his indifference towards me.
i now feel like a total idiot. since getting back to the uk, i emailed him to apologise with a crap excuse which im sure he saw through, but i think i have now lost all his trust! i have had a few replies from him but in true style he never instigates emails. he does work an awful lot and apologises in his mails for not having a lot of time for the personal things in life and that his mails are always shorter than mine however.
what's more, i suddenly find myself as of this week working for the same company that he works for albeit in the UK. my bosses have met him several times (arrgh!) and i guess it is only a matter of time before we meet or bump into each other because we all have to travel regularly to the states and far east.
i don't want to stalk him but i want to let him know how i feel about him in a subtle way. how the devil does one do this in email?
any advice greatly appreciated, especially if you are a capricorn male! how would you like to be pursued, indeed, would you like to be pursued at all? should i tell him that i respect and admire him? shall i seek his advice career wise? he seems to qui
Oooh and Ryan Peake is a Pisces! March 1, 197
The other vocalist/guitarist of Nickelback, and the drummer Daniel Adair is a cuspy Aqua/Pisces February 19, 1975.
Ok I know I should have put all this in one post, lol.
The other vocalist/guitarist of Nickelback, and the drummer Daniel Adair is a cuspy Aqua/Pisces February 19, 1975. Ok I know I should have put all this in one post, lol.
Thanks OBPices. I'm a March 1ster too by the way. But I was born in '83.
Yayyy congrats Cancermamaduece and da dxp has censored an unecessary remark from haffo can u say male menopause lol anyways your 2 angels will give u joy blessins of the most high
Yeah I guess I am. Time sure flies though.
Well it's been 2 weeks since I last saw him. I haven't given up completely but I haven't tried to contact him since that last phone call. We used to contact each other by email too but not very often so he could've reached me that way. He does not have a computer at home but he does have access to one so the fact that he hasn't tried to email me AT ALL tells me something.
Someone mentioned that his family might be standing in the way. I'm starting to think that they are playing a bigger part in this than I initially thought. He LOVES his family and even though he loved me too, at that point he had to choose between me and his family and me walking out on him like that made the choice so much easier for him. He is from a culture that has deep respect for parental and family ties and I think I may have been too impatient when it came to meeting his family. Of course I didn't realize that at the time. I was thinking he was ashamed of me and didn't want to introduce me to them. He kept saying that was not the case, that it just wasn't the right time. But he is a bit at fault for telling me before I came that everything was ok and that he wanted me to meet them and become part of his family.
There was definitely some awkward communication between us and cultural miscommunication as well. I never expected this because when I first met him and when we kept in touch, everything was so easy and wonderful.
Smileysmile, I share the same thinking with you. This is torturing me 24/7. I don't even know if we are necessarily right for each other anymore but I feel an overpowering urge to go see him and set things right, even just to tell him that I am sorry and that i hope he is ok. Even if it meant that nothing further were to happen between us. I can't believe how much this bothers me. You're right...Pisces don't make any sense. I've always known this about myself. It freaks me out!
What else doesn't make sense is that Scorpios and Pisces are supposed to be a perfect match...so why have I NEVER EVER had a successful relationship with one? This Scorpio would be my third. Scorpio number 2 and I never even made it to first base. Scorpio number 1 was very loyal...to his ex girlfriend...a little TOO loyal for my comfort.
Someone mentioned that his family might be standing in the way. I'm starting to think that they are playing a bigger part in this than I initially thought. He LOVES his family and even though he loved me too, at that point he had to choose between me and his family and me walking out on him like that made the choice so much easier for him. He is from a culture that has deep respect for parental and family ties and I think I may have been too impatient when it came to meeting his family. Of course I didn't realize that at the time. I was thinking he was ashamed of me and didn't want to introduce me to them. He kept saying that was not the case, that it just wasn't the right time. But he is a bit at fault for telling me before I came that everything was ok and that he wanted me to meet them and become part of his family.
There was definitely some awkward communication between us and cultural miscommunication as well. I never expected this because when I first met him and when we kept in touch, everything was so easy and wonderful.
Smileysmile, I share the same thinking with you. This is torturing me 24/7. I don't even know if we are necessarily right for each other anymore but I feel an overpowering urge to go see him and set things right, even just to tell him that I am sorry and that i hope he is ok. Even if it meant that nothing further were to happen between us. I can't believe how much this bothers me. You're right...Pisces don't make any sense. I've always known this about myself. It freaks me out!
What else doesn't make sense is that Scorpios and Pisces are supposed to be a perfect match...so why have I NEVER EVER had a successful relationship with one? This Scorpio would be my third. Scorpio number 2 and I never even made it to first base. Scorpio number 1 was very loyal...to his ex girlfriend...a little TOO loyal for my comfort.
Primegen:
Hi, I speak up to a fault. If someone does something that bothers me I nip it in the bud immediately. I've always been this way and sometimes I wish I wasn't so frank. I don't like problems to fester.
Another point:
Materialism....I like nice things..I like to be pampered as well. But, and I say But, I reciprocate. I keep the proverbial "balance."
Can you talk a little about the Libra girl you dated? I've read a few posts where you refer to the relationship but I'd like to know more about it.
I'm involved, or thought I was involved with an aquarius. Today I found out that he is chatting with one of his employees online. I took a BIG hit there. Anyway, my moon is Aqua, FYI.
Curious about your Libra gal.
Hi, I speak up to a fault. If someone does something that bothers me I nip it in the bud immediately. I've always been this way and sometimes I wish I wasn't so frank. I don't like problems to fester.
Another point:
Materialism....I like nice things..I like to be pampered as well. But, and I say But, I reciprocate. I keep the proverbial "balance."
Can you talk a little about the Libra girl you dated? I've read a few posts where you refer to the relationship but I'd like to know more about it.
I'm involved, or thought I was involved with an aquarius. Today I found out that he is chatting with one of his employees online. I took a BIG hit there. Anyway, my moon is Aqua, FYI.
Curious about your Libra gal.
2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:
CL I'm not defending or condoning haffo I've given it more thought,at first I thought maybe he didn't know any better but after reading some past threads I think he does know better,he got what he deserves.
P.S. You need some kissing and licking down there and
a bubble bath to relieve the soreness(smile)
CL I'm not defending or condoning haffo I've given it more thought,at first I thought maybe he didn't know any better but after reading some past threads I think he does know better,he got what he deserves.
P.S. You need some kissing and licking down there and
a bubble bath to relieve the soreness(smile)