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Jan 13, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 212 · Topics: 32
I know that I've been back and forth with my feelings with the Cap ex (if y'all haven't noticed) but I finally gave up caring about anything with him. Last night we had another heated argument which resulted in him hanging up in my face and I said forget it. I don't want to be treated this way. I don't want to feel not important enough to share things with or tell things to. We've known each-other for almost 2 years and have gotten nowhere but in the same spot.
What really ticked me off is when I asked him about the women calling his cellphone (which I believe i had a somewhat right to since I was his girlfriend then) and he said it was none of my buisness. That was when we were in a relationship, and I asked him are you still going to tell me that same thing? Once again he said it's none of my buisness what girls he talk to. Ok, well damn. Do y'all think I don't have a right to know? If i was his girlfriend?
I just don't want to do it anymore. I jus't dont . . care enough to care.
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Nov 17, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 305 · Topics: 17
IMO, I think u should just let him go. Just as a normal cap, he doesn't know what he wants. One minute he wants to get back w/you, and the next he's being mean. Just back off for a while and see where he goes. If he comes back and wants to work things out again, it's only going to be the same cycle, I've learned that w/these men. They don't give up easily, but they repeat the same cycles. Weird, I know.
I just got to a point also where I just don't care enough anymore to go thru all the torture w/these Caps. It's rather frustrating and not worth all my worries. And I've found it rather relieving.
He does have a right to tell u who this chick is if she called when u two were dating, but I guess there isn't anything u can do if he won't tell u. Mine would always be honest w/me if I asked him something, whether it'd hurt me or not.
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Sep 26, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 247 · Topics: 20
2 sharks swimming in opposite directions:
CL I've been visualizing you breast feeding two babies at one time. I'm turned on. I'm a freak. Besides having a foot fetish I have this film of women who squirt milk while they're having sex it's something I not to long ago discovered turns me on I'm f'd up.
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Jan 13, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 212 · Topics: 32
I thought so, and this whole time he's trying to make me feel bad for asking him, like it was invasion of his privacy.
Werewolf. We could start our own pack ya know.
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Feb 06, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 582 · Topics: 34
I am learning more and more everyday about a Virgo man. These message boards do help me understand alot more about them. I am a Sag women and I have been dating a Virgo man. He was always very kind to me until he backed off. Well, this past weekend he came over and we talked basically all night long. I told him how I felt. I told him that I'm not sure if I love him because I don't know him well enough but, that I do know when I wake up that I think about him and when I go to bed I think about him and in between I think about him. He looked at me with so much compassion in his eyes and said, "thank you, I needed to hear that" and kissed me like he has never kissed me before. He also told me that he was afraid of not being good enough for me and that is why he backed off. I told him all I needed was him to be there and care about me and let me be there and care for him. The next night he called me to ask if he could come over and cuddle with me. I told him yes and we did. It was a wonderful weekend and I hope it is a forward move in our relationship. He even texted me last night just to say good night. (Which means alot to me) Well, I thank everyone for their thoughts and opinions on these boards.
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Nov 17, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 305 · Topics: 17
No, you do have a right to know. But he likes it that u care so much to know. Gives him sort of the ego boost that these dumb caps seem to need.