why do libras go m.i.a?
Lol Right! It sucks because I've always been here for him so for him to treat me like this is messed up but I would rather for him to just tell me he's not feeling the friends thing rather than lie to me and never come through for me. Is it too much to ask just to tell me the truth? Lol but this is really mean but he'll probably regret it one day when I'm no longer available ( ;
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Posted by xygeneration
Hmm. it's not a matter of justifying one's behavior.. if people even think about that to begin with. People say they make conscious decisions, but most of the time people make unconscious decisions.
It's not being lazy, it's simply hard to change. I wish that it was easy (speaking for other people). If you've been abused, neglected or whatever.. you'll understand this.
A whore/slut didn't choose the life they wanted to live, but they've made that decision unconsciously (some who were sexually abused during their childhood).. The human mind is so powerful that it can be so destructive in the same way that it can be productive.
Going back to the original topic, vengeance is taking the pain and turning it into something constructive to improve oneself. That's coming from personal experience.
Please don't think my comment was directed towards you when I said "lazy". Sorry if it came off that way. I was speaking in very general terms. You're right, people do make unconscious decisions. However, experience of abuse etc.. or not, at some point one needs to take responsibility for their actions. I guess I come from the philosophy that you *are* or *aren't* doing something; there is no "trying" to be anything, which is what I meant. A person chooses to be vengeful or go about their business and live their life. If it something they know is an issue yet they throw up their hands and say "well, I can't just unlearn it" I think is taking the easy way out. It's like choosing to talk to people in a rude manner. You can easily say well that's just how I talk to people, but at some point you need to recognize that excuse isn't gonna cut it. Why? Because even rude people make conscious decisions to pull that bullsh*t with some, an not with others.
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Posted by xxnightbynight
oooh Creepy you live in Sin City?! I left my heart in Vegas.
and some brain cells... a lot... of brain cells.
losing brain cells... yep, that'll happen here
it's almost the ambition of every other person.i left my heart in this beast too and goshdarnit i came back for it!!!! i need the silly little thing.
Posted by shellshocker
If you have been on the delivery end at one point in your life... what made you stop?
Reflecting on my values. Once I reminded myself of what matters most to me, it seemed that spitefulness just didn't fit into my agenda any longer. Also, developing the ability to let go. That took some time to cultivate. I think once I looked back over my life and realized how much time I'd spent ruminating, plotting, and hoping for the demise of others...it dawned on me that those very actions were self-destructive and I was losing a make-believe battle (with foes who had long forgotten my name, lol). That was energy wasted and hours that I couldn't get back- time that could've been spent doing so many other useful things!
And then there's the feeling of just being free. Free to love so much more. And to give more to yourself and others. Free to let go.
Posted by xygeneration
Um.. do I have to say "in my personal opinion".. sorry shell I forgot to write that.. but the OP said to discuss.. and in my personal opinion I am allowed to discuss my take whether from personal experience or observing other people.
Also, you can look it up or directly ask a WH0RE/SLUT why he/she is that way. It's still MY personal opinion based on the information I collected.
ok... i was just repeating the words you yourself wrote. next time i'll remember not to take them too seriously..
it's just that i happen to know quite a few sex trade workers... more than most people would be comfortable admitting to. And you would be surprised the type of backgrounds they have. good education, two parent households, calm upbringings. The problem was it was very boring and cookie cutter and they wanted out. something different. some like sex, like money and life style .
now if you are talking about $ 20 ladies on the street corner and crack whores... ya, they may have a different story.
I also think childhood abuse does not = sex worker. Do you realize how much sexual abuse is found in church communities?
just my observations..
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Yeah I got a little Pisces in me as well...
My moon is practically in Pisces...
My mars is in Pisces...
My venus is in Pisces..
My moon is practically in Pisces...
My mars is in Pisces...
My venus is in Pisces..
Posted by ScorpSuperiorPosted by shellshocker
If you have been on the delivery end at one point in your life... what made you stop?
Reflecting on my values. Once I reminded myself of what matters most to me, it seemed that spitefulness just didn't fit into my agenda any longer. Also, developing the ability to let go. That took some time to cultivate. I think once I looked back over my life and realized how much time I'd spent ruminating, plotting, and hoping for the demise of others...it dawned on me that those very actions were self-destructive and I was losing a make-believe battle (with foes who had long forgotten my name, lol). That was energy wasted and hours that I couldn't get back- time that could've been spent doing so many other useful things!
And then there's the feeling of just being free. Free to love so much more. And to give more to yourself and others. Free to let go.
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thanks for answering! seems self-realization was needed and the desire to make different choices.
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