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Jul 30, 2007Comments: 3 · Posts: 10583 · Topics: 206
Owwww!
Memories. All my past loves- come back to me.
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Nov 17, 2012Comments: 22 · Posts: 6178 · Topics: 30
Only thing I don't like about it is you jumped into something rigt after you break if off with your original s/o.......
I suppose IT does matter how long you were the original one... If it was just brief thing not lasting more than a month than I suppose your actions make more sense... I'd probably do the same thing ^.^
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
Yeah, I've seen both. Most cases, what's in the charts explained a lot after getting to know someone (or if you knew them already).
I was just curious. I think I'm getting sucked in with another Libra. *headdesk*
Playing it by ear atm, though. The internal battle of logic vs emotion is fun though. *cough* :p
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Nov 04, 2005Comments: 233 · Posts: 8226 · Topics: 348
^^^ same as above few posts. when im done... im very done. not jealous of whoever they've moved onto. in fact, somehow the other chick usually feels threatened by me. this has happened more than just a few times and it's bewildering because i dont contact the old flame, vice versa for the most part, and their new chick i'd never even met. IF i'm contacted by a guy i'd dated... 95% of the time it is completely plutonic and friendly. other 5% , i dont even respond.
she also probably really regrets treating a great thing so poorly. hopefully she envies you for being smart enough to cherish what she once had the chance to cherish.
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
Women like that need to be pushed off a cliff. And as for the men that Scorched mentioned- they should be pushed off a cliff too.
Unfortunately, our society is still structured to keep perpetuating the insecurities and bs in women that cause them to do such crazy shit. The women's movement did a lot, but there is still a lot left that needs to be ironed out. The media is constantly bombarding us with what we should look like, what kind of sex we should be having to keep our man interested and not straying, and what clothes we should be wearing. How many talk shows out there perpetuate the fear of cheating? THAT also doesn't help either side with insecurities.
Add that to the independence that the women's movement tried to accomplish and you have a whole hell of a lot of confusion combined with insecurity.
Am I a feminist? Yes. Do I like women who act like what was mentioned in the OP and they abuse the nice things that came with the women's movement? Nope. Hence my solution above.
Some men and women are very guilty of the stereotypes held against them. These same individuals need to stay the hell out of the dating pool, save the money that they'd spend on wining and dining, and use it for some fricken counseling.