am i the only cancer who feels this way
My worries over petty stuff causes me to stress & overthink EVERYTHING!!! Sometimes causing a panick attack Smh.. I stress til the problem is solved.. I swear I hate feeling like that I feel dumb for worrying but I can't stop lol any ideas on what I can do at these times to calm down?
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
So, what came of this? Any truth and light?
I'm taking a hard "it's all over Red Rover" stance. Care for a little wager with me on the side?
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Posted by starlover
It is very funny to watch ~ my dad never grew up in some ways ~ the big baby throwing his toys around. Dont get me wrong, a very clever and intelligent guy, but emotionally very very immature! God knows how my very patient mother tolerated him. After she passed i told him i wasnt about to be treated that way and ironically he began to respect me and calm down
Aries people need a very firm hand!!
a good spanking????????
Was seeing a Libra co-worker. He was going through a divorce, she left him and I am too focused on my career. There was a lot of physical attraction and we had a lot of fun. We lived in different countries .So, when he left we stayed in contact.
I got a promotion and moved to the same city. He was very excited for me. I didn??t tell him. He heard through the grapevine. I didn??t contact him for the first 3 weeks as I was settling in. I went to a meeting and I could see the way his face lit up when he saw me. We exchanged a few pleasantries. I texted him my new number and to see if he would like to have coffee.
We didn??t get to meet as our schedules were out of sync for about 3 weeks. But he saw me having coffee with his friends and a few other people from work.I had to travel for 2 weeks and when I got back I got the following text from him: Lolla123,I wanted for us to meet and catch up but unfortunately we did not have the opportunity. I need to let you know that I met someone last month and don??t think it is fair or appropriate that I meet you for coffee. I trust that you will appreciate and understand, Jordan
My first reaction was what the hell, but thought at least he is honest and I respect him for that. I responded: Hi Jordan, I do understand and thank you for being honest, it is appreciated. Take care. Promise I won??t contact you again.Lolla123
He responded: Hi Lolla123, it??s no problem for you to contact me again and it would be nice to catch up informally over coffee as friends - I just wanted to be honest and let you know that it can??t be more..I appreciate your message, thank you, Jordan.
I responded by telling him that I really don??t know what to say .As I do have feelings for him and I would be lying to him and myself if I say let??s be friends and he should give me so time to think. Anyway,have a great holiday season and an awesome 2013.
He responded by telling me that just because he said that we can??t be more then friends it does not mean that he doesn??t want me in his life. His tone sounded frustrated.
I didn??t know what to say to him. So, I didn??t respond to him that was about a week ago.(I deleted his number)
This morning I ran into him. He was having coffee with a girl .He looked scared/ nervous but pretended not to see me. I waited for my coffee and when they called my order I looked up we locked eyes .We(my boss and I) sat down and I could see him looking at me from the side.
I got a promotion and moved to the same city. He was very excited for me. I didn??t tell him. He heard through the grapevine. I didn??t contact him for the first 3 weeks as I was settling in. I went to a meeting and I could see the way his face lit up when he saw me. We exchanged a few pleasantries. I texted him my new number and to see if he would like to have coffee.
We didn??t get to meet as our schedules were out of sync for about 3 weeks. But he saw me having coffee with his friends and a few other people from work.I had to travel for 2 weeks and when I got back I got the following text from him: Lolla123,I wanted for us to meet and catch up but unfortunately we did not have the opportunity. I need to let you know that I met someone last month and don??t think it is fair or appropriate that I meet you for coffee. I trust that you will appreciate and understand, Jordan
My first reaction was what the hell, but thought at least he is honest and I respect him for that. I responded: Hi Jordan, I do understand and thank you for being honest, it is appreciated. Take care. Promise I won??t contact you again.Lolla123
He responded: Hi Lolla123, it??s no problem for you to contact me again and it would be nice to catch up informally over coffee as friends - I just wanted to be honest and let you know that it can??t be more..I appreciate your message, thank you, Jordan.
I responded by telling him that I really don??t know what to say .As I do have feelings for him and I would be lying to him and myself if I say let??s be friends and he should give me so time to think. Anyway,have a great holiday season and an awesome 2013.
He responded by telling me that just because he said that we can??t be more then friends it does not mean that he doesn??t want me in his life. His tone sounded frustrated.
I didn??t know what to say to him. So, I didn??t respond to him that was about a week ago.(I deleted his number)
This morning I ran into him. He was having coffee with a girl .He looked scared/ nervous but pretended not to see me. I waited for my coffee and when they called my order I looked up we locked eyes .We(my boss and I) sat down and I could see him looking at me from the side.
I've been friends with a Virgo for about 8 months now. In the beginning he seemed quite taken by me, and we would spend heaps of time together. We did fool around a little but it has never gone very far. That didn't last long and he backed off saying that he didn't want to get involved with anyone, but we still spend lots of time together, usually with me initiating the contact however. I'm a Pisces and my intuition is usually pretty good and I feel he really does like me. He has told one of his friends he does like me and other people have passed comments about the way he looks at me. He denies it all though. He did say to me once after he backed off that somethings are worth waiting for. Later on when I tried to get him to elaborate on that he denied saying that also.
My question is how long does it take for a Virgo to decide your the one? I know they don't rush these things and I am happy to wait, however I don't want my waiting to be in vain. When or how do you know it's just not going to happen?
My question is how long does it take for a Virgo to decide your the one? I know they don't rush these things and I am happy to wait, however I don't want my waiting to be in vain. When or how do you know it's just not going to happen?
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I WILL BE LAYING ON THE BEACH SUNNING ALL DAY IF THE RAIN SETTLES DOWN LAST WEEK GOT 2 INCH IN 24 HOURS. THEN DRINK & FUCK UNTIL THE END. BY THE BY ONLY YOU WEST WORLD PEOPLE DO MONTH/ DAY / YEAR.
with the first sag, sounds a bit like a venus in cap, maybe. i think he knew from the getgo that he wasnt interested in a relationship with you but formed some kind of ship with you to further his needs because you were willing to do it. the lies werent designed to impress you but to keep you in the dark and keep the money/sex coming. once i hear a man lie, you have to nip it in the bud. if he will lie about little things that dont matter, he will lie about the large things that do matter. next thing you know it, he's found a girl who is a better match.
with the second sag, sounds like a cancer rising or taurus moon which equals homebody. i dont think he is interested in a relationship. more like a friendship with benefits. assuming the wrong things in each other, sounds like Neptune is in the air. he may also be feeling you out to see if your worth it. i think sag men love some good arm candy.
with the second sag, sounds like a cancer rising or taurus moon which equals homebody. i dont think he is interested in a relationship. more like a friendship with benefits. assuming the wrong things in each other, sounds like Neptune is in the air. he may also be feeling you out to see if your worth it. i think sag men love some good arm candy.
He and his friend left and he didn??t look my way. He was looking at the ceiling while he walked pass me. I was thinking how childish and I did feel shitty too. The Leo in me wants us to meet and talk it out. I think we both need to have??this talk??. But I am afraid that I might not be able to not get emotional.