am i the only cancer who feels this way
Posted by cancerpersonality
I try to break the situation down but instead I jump to conclusion and I'm very impatient lol.. but I think I can try and walk through my problems instead of run through them lol.. cuz I get tired of stressing and losing sleep behind little things.. I hate that I let little things get to me
i can relate, used to be like this ALOT, learned to tone it down through the years by getting to know myself. darn cancer emotions! have you ever heard of EFT? that is a great tool to discharge negative emotions, it's worked alot for me to calm me down so i can 'think' logically rather than 'feel' out of control. i also read alot of self help books
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Posted by xxnightbynight
lolol I never really saw it as "over reacting" - but I suppose we do. - I used to get really upset at the person, jump to conclusions, over react and then calm down... now I tend to keep to myself, bite my tongue and hold out... I think you become wiser with age...
ditto, but yea as I have aged my patience level has grown but my tolerance for bs has gone down...if that can make any sense at all.....
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ok how many of you have deleted someone off your friends list only to calm down and request them back..? lol
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CancerLeoDynamitePosted by incandescentcancer
Not if you have already slept with the guy and become emotionally involved with him. Then you won't give up either no matter how much you claim otherwise now.
haha I do not sleep with -anyone- you know this.
Also literally the last rl bf I had I broke up with him IMMEDIATELY upon -suspecting- he might be married..I mean to this day I don't know for sure that he was cause I did not even bother sticking around to probe..
something seemed fishy,
I dumped his ass.
Score 1 for respectable ladies. You definitely walked the talk!click to expand
-nod-
Being a good person feels better than dick.
OMGGGGGGG, I just checked on fb also. Rest in Paradise Nefer! 
We used to speak a lot because we share the same birthday... she was such a sweetheart. One of the kindest and happy people I've spoken to through here. This is so shocking...
We used to speak a lot because we share the same birthday... she was such a sweetheart. One of the kindest and happy people I've spoken to through here. This is so shocking...
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
-nod-
Being a good person feels better than dick.
Woman, I don't know if enough people tell you this but you're magnificent! Splendido!
thats hot
Ha ha-I just can't stop laughing!!!
Ya,I'm a woman-DMV knows something about it
Ya,I'm a woman-DMV knows something about it
Yes always felt this way. Moreso now these days.
My mother would take my sister and I camping when we were little.
Even though I was into everything and got in trouble often I loved it.
I do have a desire to go away into the woods and stay in a large log cabin.
Hunt and fish for food, live off the land. Grow my own fruit and vegetables.
My mother would take my sister and I camping when we were little.
Even though I was into everything and got in trouble often I loved it.
I do have a desire to go away into the woods and stay in a large log cabin.
Hunt and fish for food, live off the land. Grow my own fruit and vegetables.
I'm a Scorpio & he's a Pisces. Since I was 15, I've liked this guy. He was musically talented and popular. Our families are friends but we never spoke to each other. 8 years ago, I finally got to know him and he texted me daily from day to night and kept asking me out. As I thought he was too good for me, I chided myself for being deluded. He disrupted my work once just to give me a present he'd bought from overseas. He'd also asked me, "Are you happy? Have I contributed to your happiness?"??
This year, he surprised me by celebrating my birthday in mid-November at the penthouse level of a posh building. Thereafter, he went to "fetch a friend" (it was his new girlfriend of 4 months. He had been single for 5 years.) He continued texting me even when he was with her and was dismissive of the movie that he was watching with her. Although she has posted photos in Facebook, he has not told me of her existence till this day.
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He??decided against buying shoes when I weighed the pros and cons. As we took a break and had coffee, he texted his girlfriend while we were in the queue. I was leaning against his shoulder as he did so and saw it. He told me to top up his coffee card. I was taken aback but added value to it anyway. He kept making me laugh till I coughed, after which he grinned and said, "I'd better stop making you laugh so much."
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