am i the only cancer who feels this way
Posted by cancerpersonality
Yes lol im just learning to let go of an ex & when im finally feelin better he pops up (last night).. idk why i worry but i just wanna distance myself from the whole situation ..i think the change that has happened over this period of months is what caused my anxiety .im not to fond of change or patience
breakups are so overwhelming. Sometimes a physical distancing works wonders. Maybe long weekend drives or mini trips may help.
AND setting boundaries with the EX....make it clear that you need time to recover and heal from the changes.
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Libertarian Libra here.... I've never been able to submit to the left vs right way of thinking, and i find it especially annoying when political candidates act like professional wrestlers for the WWE.
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The Left = regulate absolutely everything, disallow self defense, disallow private property, welfare and state dependence, endless war, and force people to sacrifice their paychecks to help pay for it all.
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If we have to have a government at all, it should only be there to protect the natural rights of its citizens when those natural rights are attacked.
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The Left = regulate absolutely everything, disallow self defense, disallow private property, welfare and state dependence, endless war, and force people to sacrifice their paychecks to help pay for it all.
I can't support either brand because it revolves around a government of theft and force in order to leech off the people, while telling us what we can or can't do.
If we have to have a government at all, it should only be there to protect the natural rights of its citizens when those natural rights are attacked.
But the only way we could have a good/efficient government looking out for us is if we only elect 'just the right people' into positions of power... And that requires a lot more faith than believing in a loving God to take care of us, honestly.
It's like theism vs atheism, people. Anarchy simply means a society without a (unaccountable)Central government.
People get anarchy mixed up with anomie.
Anomie is a state of lawlessness and normlessness. It occurs in one of two ways:
1. There are no rules in society or social mores (murder and rape are as legal as eating a donut).
2. There are so many rules people feel they have no choices (authoritarian government).
Anomie is the result more usually of the latter...too much government. The more rules, the more robotic people feel, the more likely they are to kill others or themselves. Anomie is contrasted with anarchy. Anarchy is voluntary government, and as such it is very limited where individual participants wish it to be limited.
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1. There are no rules in society or social mores (murder and rape are as legal as eating a donut).
2. There are so many rules people feel they have no choices (authoritarian government).
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At what point did i lose patience, because i considered a date with someone else?? That just puts him to the side, not out of the picture. Anyway, should/shouldnt have sent him an email, i did..and since he came at me full throttle, he can take a bit of it back at him. He will make his mind up, so no more conjecture, "que sera" 
^^^Ooh I just saw your comment. I'm late...but damn that's good. That horn was doing things to me.lol I need to listen again with a surround sound system.
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