I need advice on this Libra Female badly. :(

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by OneDullExistence
You said so yourself that the male ego is destructive, did you not? He will not allow her to do it too because of his ego? Dare not tell me that women don't have a ego. [...] From what I've read, gender roles still exist. That is a problem for me. Though I am not a feminist...

I didn't say gender roles don't exist, I said they are a product of our biology. If it was meant to be any other way - and I use the word 'meant' in the loosest sense - that bottle would have popped a looooong time ago. Don't you think?
Furhtermore, women have an ego, but that ego differs from the male ego in that there are different biological expectations for men and women, so naturaly we will not get our egos equally thorned by the same things. And let's not forget testosterone.... it makes ALL the difference and explains more than you may think.
And yes, women are as sexual as men, if not even more so. But there's a difference between having an urge to have sex and having a biological responsibility/need to "spew your semen" into everything in sight.

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Posted by robyn808
I??m not saying a domino??s an idiot but he is having a hard time constructing sentence using the terminology in the right context.
This is just a clear example of gem logic being used to over complicate a topic with nonsense. I??m very familiar with this strategy, don't let the big words fool you.

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Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by OneDullExistence
It's all about personal choice. We don't live in the wild any more. We are animals, but we are fully clothed, tower building and sex toy using animals. We are special.

We are not a least bit special. What an arrogant statement, typical for the 'thinking animal'. 150,000 years from now it would be like saying neanderthals are special for their stone- paintings and carvings.

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Posted by enfant_terrible
Some of you seem to be talking about love and relationships and common sense, while I'm talking about the biological core of our existence... which btw is most definitely NOT love or anything that remotely resembles love! I'm sorry to burst your bubble. Biologically it's all about "chores by instinct". Males have their tasks as women have theirs. Is it equally divided? Hell no, if it were I'd start believing in God and intelligent design.
Nature is not fair, I get it. Women have in many aspects been dealt the shortest straw, biologically speaking. What can I say? I cannot defend nor curse something that is not man-made. I cannot even be angry or upset about it. It is what it is.
But rest assured, just because I'm biologically programmed to "spew my semen" every time I get a chance does not make it right for me to cheat simply because I happen to be male. I do however think it is wrong when people refuse to accept certain biological fundaments just because it doesen't suit their agenda for the day.
And speaking of.... @OneDullExistence, since you are coming from a personal place with this issue, it's impossible for me and you to have an objective discussion about it. I mean you're talking about body-image, anal-plugs and vaginal perfumes, among many other things. You're talking about how we have changed since pre-historic times. It's small-time stuff as far as I'm concerned, totally irrelevant to the big picture. You're talking about 21th century culture ,and culture is like the weather. What I'm talking about, the biological codes under which we are subdued - the very reason to why we would even think of let's say cheating - these are constant.
And btw, it's OK to be a feminist. I mean of course you're a feminist. Anyone with a least bit common sense is a feminist. I just think it's silly we have to label common sense with "feminism". I hope that closing statement says a little about where I stand, despite that I "embrace" certain biological fundaments. I'm gonna hit the bed now.