can Aqua have a 12 year old crush on someone?
so, I swore off all Aquas (after my unfortunate 11 year marriage) for a long time now and yesterday I find out from Aqua I know for 12 years, that he always had a major crush on me and now, that I am single, he's not going to let another chance pass him by.
I always knew he liked me somewhat, just never thought that it was that much. I thought we were just good friends. I am so oblivious. Frankly I was with someone for a while, and then with someone else and so was he, yet... there you have it... we will go out. Nothing dramatic, we agreed to just walk... and we will either keep walking, or we will go separate ways and still stay friends.
Why can they be so cold and so detached, yet, keep on wanting someone for so long?
Is he actually serious, or just putting out bait?
I actually believe him, we talked for a while and seems sincere. :/
any advice?
I always knew he liked me somewhat, just never thought that it was that much. I thought we were just good friends. I am so oblivious. Frankly I was with someone for a while, and then with someone else and so was he, yet... there you have it... we will go out. Nothing dramatic, we agreed to just walk... and we will either keep walking, or we will go separate ways and still stay friends.
Why can they be so cold and so detached, yet, keep on wanting someone for so long?
Is he actually serious, or just putting out bait?
I actually believe him, we talked for a while and seems sincere. :/
any advice?
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Posted by CapMusic
I dunno you two personally, so I can't say. However, feel free to communicate with your cap. We usually like it when people are more upfront about things. Doesn't mean you have to be gung-ho about it though xD
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Posted by aquasnoz
Ahh those dirty aquamans! Toying with hearts again I see *shakes head*
And now lies the fun part in dissecting your aqua male! Do you know his date and time of birth and where? Only if you're interested because I can make a lot of assumptions about him right now. I don't like to generalise, loath it infact so keep in mind my opinion is based off the aquas I've known in my life and fundamentally me.
Tell you what now from what you've written can I just say you are the sweetest thing?
*shrugs* I really want to give you an honest opinion because I don't want you to feel hurt so I need all the necessary information and forever send you down this path of hating aqua man HAHA.
So apart from DOB, can you describe more of him? What's he like? any exes? Past problems? Cultural background? Oh geez I'm pulling out everything here because at a glance and let me stress that... AT A GLANCE he seems like one of those manipulative abusing aquas. What's the big red flag here for me? He cut contact to a minimal after that night. You started the thread with chatting on facebook and I just don't see why he can't still do that.
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(layed out) maybe i should read mystuff before i post grrrr!
Lol @ the Sleeping Beauty reference!