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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 3881 · Topics: 128
Can't think of names for the others, mmmmaybe Libra: the Titilator
Me: Male
Physical:
Volumptuous figure, the femme fatale type of women, dark hair, pale skin, red lips, lithe, eyes that say I could f**k you for days.
Turn-ons:
All round kisser, mixture of feminity and aggression, soft lips, gentle touch with malignant intent, a woman with a husky voice (Kathleen Turner), a woman who values intense intimacy.
Turn-offs:
Women who are skinny.
People have always said I get the crazy women.
Well obviously I just barely made it within the boundaries of what most people consider sane so I don't know what stigma means. The main thing with freezing the eggs is stress relief - the feeling that I have a back-up so I can hunt down Mr. Right (or Mr. Will Do) with a clear head. I went through a crazy baby-hungry period when I turned 29 and my shrink wanted to see me no less than twice a month, it wasn't pretty. I am so much happier now that I think I have options.
Another thing is that I actually want to have twins. I want two kids so they can amuse each other in the playpen while I am taking the skin off the red fowl we're having for dinner and if I have a husband this will give him a chance to check out my ass while I am doing the Martha Stewart. I think the best way to increases the chances of having two kids so late in the game is by having both at once and I'd have to collect eggs in advance for this, whether current eggs or banked eggs.
Did your cappy talk about the marriage and kids stuff before or after you had had sex? If it was before then you are justified to suspect he used that talk to get in your pants, if it was after then it might just have been the - "would she be a good mother to my kids?" evaluation.
oh the last post was replying to capgirl. I need a minute to take in MyCap's post
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Aug 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1343 · Topics: 15
Well I was obsessed when I was younger, but it's all very very old to me these days.
MyCap what you're saying is scaring me about my efforts to replace ex-cappy although in my situation it will be a big help if he continues to not call. All I can say is you're strong girl.
My mom would say: tell him you want to marry him and have kids with him - yeah, that's why I stopped taking my mom's advice on men.
So you still see him regularly right? When you say "just sex" do you mean that you like don't go to dinner or watch TV together and such?
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Feb 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2525 · Topics: 50
I've been involved w/ my scorp for 15 yrs. He is still obsesses over something I lied to him about when I was 16. . . . I've never known him to let go of anything even though I know he wants to.
Well, from my experience, once they are over someone or something...that is it! Especially if crossed or hurt. I truly do not think that he will go back. They don't find much point in wasting time on a lost cause. I believe there will be space as long as he is not holding on to any fear or negative energy regarding the relationship.
Don't know if that helped...