MyCap what you're saying is scaring me about my efforts to replace ex-cappy although in my situation it will be a big help if he continues to not call. All I can say is you're strong girl.
My mom would say: tell him you want to marry him and have kids with him - yeah, that's why I stopped taking my mom's advice on men.
So you still see him regularly right? When you say "just sex" do you mean that you like don't go to dinner or watch TV together and such?
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Feb 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2525 · Topics: 50
I've been involved w/ my scorp for 15 yrs. He is still obsesses over something I lied to him about when I was 16. . . . I've never known him to let go of anything even though I know he wants to.
Well, from my experience, once they are over someone or something...that is it! Especially if crossed or hurt. I truly do not think that he will go back. They don't find much point in wasting time on a lost cause. I believe there will be space as long as he is not holding on to any fear or negative energy regarding the relationship.
Don't know if that helped...
APW, this one time i was just thinking about men and women and cheating. It made me feel hopeless and sad. It happens to both sexes.. there is always going to be some one "better" or different or more appealing whatever around the corner... and i was thinking of how long term married couples deal with that. In my experience with men i have felt nieve and stupid and young. I felt like a lamb surrounded by wolves. And in a larger scale have pictured all women as lambs.. as tender meat that is there for the mens taking... like they want a herd if they could. I dont want to be a lamb. How does a woman build confidence and become strong and wise yet still hold on to some innosence and her femininity?
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capchica, "watching my ass... martha stewart" LOL!!!!
Yes, the marriage/kids talk was 'right out of the box' within 2 weeks of having met him, and no sex yet. And at the same time, he would just start talking about dating philosophies and saying that if a guy really likes a girl, he doesn't want to have sex w/ her right away... I really felt it was some twisted-a $ $ reverse psychology. And he made "the SEX" issue so apparent, that I was even more committed to preventing it from happening, which I might not have done had he not been talking about sex so openly. Weird???
It helps if they've truly dropped off the face of the earth, and aren't calling. Be glad, capchica, it's really a good thing, that most normal guys do but usually not the men w/ 'commitment issues'. They can't commit to staying away even!
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Aug 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1343 · Topics: 15
Hahaha stfu you guys lol.
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Well yea and Taurus takes the slow, steady, never miss a beat approach to prosperity and Scorpio takes the.. opposite I guess. The more 'disconcerting' and dynamic approach to success, the pull if off or lose type thing. That's just the paradigm.
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Of course they can be destructive - they're bulls lol! But it seems to me that they're even slow and steady when destructive.