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Aug 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1343 · Topics: 15
Well that's the whole point. Every sign has a disciplined form.
What you described was abour the dumbest among us all! lol but's it's alright, it's alllright. What do I care, right?
(I'm secretly plotting to sting you to death)
^^ lol kiddn
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Man Fock you
lol jk sag jk
ill take a few deep breaths, my psychotherapist says im beyond saving though
(so im plotting on him too)
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sagbot, I am more than happy to share my 'space' with you! Detaching can take many forms, the one used by most (mainly men) is turning feelings of love into 'hate' or 'dislike'. Here are some suggestions:
1. Taking time away i.e. a vacation
2. Throw yourself into something, for me its running, yoga, or volunteer work
3. Write about it
4. Talk about it with everyone you know, unless they are totally burnt out on your problems, sad but it happens
5. Meditation and visualization, i,e them out of your life, warm light flowing in and filling the space
6. Date someone else...try not to hurt anyone though : )
7. Slowly cut them out, one piece at a time, invite a friend to dinner or spend a night at a friends house, fill your previous time with them with 'new' people
Whew, being a taurus I can testify that detachment is really, really hard, it has taken me years to get over past relationships
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O i;ve looked into it thouroughly.
Probably Music would be my Libra Love.
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Mycap:
I have been 'into' astrology for several years, so I study people and look for patterns, this might be why I am not offended the Brahn guy who says some nasty stuff sometimes, he is a virgo and virgo men are lovely, they are looking for total love and have BIG hearts. Aquarians are interesting people, they are concerned about the world, smart, etc BUT they lack that deep sensitive nature that taurean women look for, Girl, we need our earth signs, someone who understands our need to be touched and loved 24/7.
The irony is that I 'know' so much about astrology yet still have committed myself to a capricorn, knowing full well how difficult they can be, argghh!
How are you and your cappy? I just remembered the other day that a friend of mine, who is a cancer, married a capricorn prison guard, he was very stern, but she just laughed at him. I guess the key really is too not taken them so seriously, its hard but when I am at my wits end I just laugh at him, it works for the most part.
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True, maybe I should've said music without words haha. I enjoy the more therapeutic stuff.
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yea actually i left my last comment before u made the comment about people music
you're right about the people music thing though
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Hahahah the Isley's, gotta love em
Haha - "can't commit to staying away"!! I am gonna have to paste these posts into a word file so that I can refer to them later! Y'all are as good as my shrink, have you considered a career in medicine? I met this 55 year old woman at a picnic during a college internship in 1995, she graduated med school at 50 and she inspired me, she was so happy with her life that it was like she was trying to get all the women to do what she did - I am flirting with the idea of applying to medical school when I am 45 or older - by the way this is how ex-cappy got the "stay-at-home-mom" admission out of me - when I said I might like to try med-school in 15 years - going to school at the same time as the kids.
Regarding your cap's reverse psychology, I think he lucked out on that - I don't believe that men are capable of carrying out complicated thought processes (sorry guys) but your evaluation that he had too much sex on the brain rings true - at least you know he was very attracted to you, enough to forget what he was saying and contradict himself.
My take on on it is that the thing that guys say about not wanting to sleep with a girl they like right away is total bull crap. Straight guys wanna get in our pants period and if they really like us, they wanna get in our pants urgently, they just feel guilty because they like us enough that they feel they ought to be trying to get to know us first.