I'm a Female Cusp born on 20th July. And am Very Surprised and Pleased that I am not the Only ONE in this WOrld, who Oscillates like this. Its Crazy! It use to be deadly, but I have learned to handle it.
I agree to what you say Bellax22, in sense but not Literally. If a Guy is lucky enough to be in my bed, then ... ALL his senses - Body - Soul will have ''time of this Universe''. I give all and take all. Everything is Liquid Fire and the apatite does NOT* die easily once started. So, to start am very careful. Nope! I don't get a Guy for the heck of having a Guy. Neither am open to discuss even with my most intimate friends how the time was. It becomes a kind of sacred subject to me. Between me and him. And I expect him also to treat it in the same way, if not I feel betrayed.
I get along with every sign. But myself stay away from Pieces, Gemini and Libra.