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OMG - Antibling..................how cum you know me so well!!
-Aqua girl tells hottie boy to get lost and that she doesn't want him.#
"Get lost" that's my favourite saying to hottie guy!!!
-Hottie boy blows a gaskit, gets drunk, and calls Aqua girls house to say all the meanist things he can think of.
Yep, over and over and over again it happens:-) I just flat-line him (i.e. hang up mid sentence) - works a treat:-)
Later I can use his mean nastiness on phone to emotionally blackmail and make him feel so guilty.....:-)
"One day, I'm going to tell that hottie boy I'm in love with him.
But not yet.~
Tomorrow is always another day..........:-) The Scarlett O'Hara syndrome:-) or the aquarius syndrome:-)...........oops why am I talking syndromes AB.....you proabaly know why AB - part of my new vocabulary:-) - but getting on well with it and doing OK (personal stuff to AB....:-)
LOL AB
Alana x
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Well would you believe...guess who asked me out to the theatre today..well dropped it in conversation..the cappy!..haha..just goes to show you, that all you need to do is ignore them..lol..he can sense I am drifting away..He got in a huff when he suggested a play at this theatre, hoping I would pick up the hint and say "would you like to join me"..instead I said "oh cool, thanks for that info, I will ask my friend if she's interested"..after which there was a long pause before I got the baby throwing his toys out of the pram treatment..lol..So then I said, well you could've just asked me, I presumed you were going with your friend..and he goes well nice to know who you put first!..pahleeeeze...anyway I said, cool, lets go and watch it..and he goes, no you go with your mates, I don't know if I will be able to go now!..WHATEVER!!!!
JEEEEEEZ MAN GROW UP
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Nice one Librat........me 87% .........where the remaining friggin 13% is..........well who knows???!!!!:-)
Primegem:-)......93% must mean you are a better aquarius than I am:-) but then you are the best of the best:-)
Alana x
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at least the capricorn men have the Saturn planet kicking them..but why or how we bear the brunt of the capricornt moody behaviour is quite commendable..given the fact that we dont even have Saturn backing us..
Let's get something straight. That is what happened initially, eventually it turned into a wonderful relationship. I only told part of my story not all of it for the insight, instead of the drama you all are looking for.{lol} I knowhesmine84 is just the screen name don't take it literally sweetie. Being in love is not about ownership.
I know he lied and I know he made mistakes but one has to understand if you continue to go back without setting conditions or standards, of course the man is going to run all over ya..Even I know that and I am younger than most of you women on here.
My only advice to you lovebirds is not to follow your heart. Your heart doesn't have the ability to recognize right from wrong. Allow your heart to guide you in a direction that will allow your common sense to kick in. Don't love unconditionally. Love isn't unconditional. I don't know who said it was but they ought to be shot. Love based on the condition that he respects you. Love based on the condition that he loves you. Only love yourself unconditionally and then true love will follow.
My cap and I aren't together now, but I know that I love him enough. Enough for me to walk away and know that I gave it all that I had. You ladies have to realize that when you love a man more than you love yourself you will start to feel weak, sick, and even depressed. Never let someone have that much power over you to the point where loving them is an addiction. That is why some dumbasses are actually trying to prove that love is a disease now. The nerve of some people. Know that love is a choice and you choose to fall deep. Hold your cards to your chest and lay one down ONLY if the probability of you winning is high. Love is a gamble, but always secure your hand so the other won't know what you hold. Don't love sparingly, just love smart. If you gamble sometimes you win some times you lose. But eventually all your winnings will be gone. So it is best to DRAW.
The men on this forum give you some insight, but you are in control of your own destiny. You can not rely on others for advice when the situations are different in many ways. Don't generalize these men. Generally, that is an excuse.
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haha, i fear oprah, too. :S
prim, are you back home yet?
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missmorals- what are we going to call our book?
Ladies it amazes me sometimes to read what you are saying, please don't take this the wrong way but I know some things are easy said than done but you ladies who are still feeling bad because U are not with your Cappy or he has not called and you want him so bad etc...stop tripping it really is'nt that serious I myself is guilty of the same thing but me being who I am, my pride my ego,dignity, self respect etc. is what helped me to move on with my life...
Yes I still do think about like a milisecond, but not in a way of wanting to be with him. My last phone call to him was on Valentines day I told him how I felt and has not pick up the phone since and I don't plan on it..I know that man will alway have love for me I have seen it in his eyes but I never picked up on it until I read it on this board..I used to say to him why are you looking at me like that...and when I think back I remember him doing it twice and not saying anything he would just have this smirk on his face I would say quit it..LOL...little did I knew it was the look of love.
Also, as a women who is confident in herself, and knows that I am not the one with the issues. They have the issues and that is something they have to deal with not you or me or anyone else. We cannot help these type of men they have to help themselves...
Like the old saying goes:
"If you love some let him go, It it comes back then it will mean so much more and if it don't at least you will know it was something you had to go through to grow"
I will date a cappy and I have went out with one the other week and I just look at him and think to myself, He don't have a chance in hell he will except my friendship on my terms and my terms only nothing more or nothing less.
We as women need to stand a little taller, be a little wiser, and gain a lot more strength to deal with men any man. Because men find weakness in us and will used it to their advantage and then we wonder why we got hurt.
We need to speak what's on our minds and have confidence doing it regardless of the outcome..So what if he leaves you because you told him how you feel or what you are not going to deal with etc.
Ask yourself does that make you less of a women because you are not with him? NO
Do I need a man in my life to feel complete? NO
I don't know about yall but I don't have a problem getting a man, I have a lot of confidence in myself as a women and no man is gonig to strip me of anything.
I often think back to how when I was in my 20's and 30's how I used to be all about dating guys and hanging out playing the game, being a playette etc...but then as I got older that got boring and I no longer want to play those games of lies and deceit.
I don't have time for the drama of not only from a Capricorn but men in general. I have not slept with another man since seperating from this Cappy and I don't plan on doing it.
Why? you ask well like I said before when men and women especially women end a realtionship you really need time to heal and regain your composure because losing someone you love can be a very hurt feelings but to jump from the frying pan to the oven is even more painful because you never took the time to heal yourself.
Yes I still date but I look at men different know, I don't have anything to prove anymore I am in no rush to tell a man how I feel anymore I refuse to put more effort in any friendship or relationship without receiving it in return. And I can think my ex cappy for that it is not anomosity that I am feeling it was a wake up call I found a weakness about myself that I need to make strong.
And like missmorals said we as scorpions we get knocked down and we get right back up and I believe we do that because of our pride. Never ever let them see you sweat...a true sign of weakness to me.
Again, I