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Dec 27, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 429 · Topics: 62
Y have i ben bothered..honestly...i thought the history we did have was n our favor. that along with the fact that he had me believing him wanting to be with me. on another note, the whole respect thing..im glad to see it verbalised somewhere else other than with myself..he doesnt seem to respect at all even the common courtesy of wat the Bleep is goin on with himthese days, not even to tell me we have no business together...its just so strange cause hes never NOT sed nething before so i dont understand y now he didnt just tel me instead of all this loopdeloo ish.. he wont even answer a question i ask him if it has nething to do with US as n relations...Weeks ago i brought myself to leave him alone indefinitely and he decides to trail in leaving me ridiculous messages on my fone as if everything is all good and nothing has transpired. i think i may have to tell him to stop contacting me cause wen i leave him alone he acts like thats a cue to start back chatting. its so stupid..it never felt this unbelievably pointless before..guess thats y its time to let go... thats it..y i even bothered...i thought he reallie wanted wat i finally was able to come out n tell him i wanted..thats wat i get for thinking!
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
As I said,,.. you are hopeless.. and you are dreamer... not to take it personally...please... there are things that you should know bout love life..
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
Mycap, how long did it take for him to re-appear again? Don't mean to burst your bubble, but are you happy with just being a booty call? If so, then great, but if you want something more, are you prepared to wait this long again for him to disappear and re-appear, what about a bit of stability? He's working on his terms..when do your needs and wants come into play?
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Feb 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 15214 · Topics: 99
I think they are good friends but thats about it. I would feel suffocated in a relationship with one..my best friend is sagitarian and I know they like their freedom, fun and travel..I can't help but think this would be restricted somewhat with a cappie..I don't know, haven't been with one but I don't like their approach to life..They can be workaholics..which is great but their LIFE experience sucks big time..
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Dec 31, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 585 · Topics: 81
GL, you made the right decision*thumbs up* im sure at the moment you wished you had handle all yourself because you may not want this to blown up, he's a man defending the woman he loves and totally no respect by his so called friend. Im sure this other guy will go on Jase's no friend list and rightfully so.
missmorals I wish my ex-cap had suffocated me - then we'd still be together. He's a total workaholic - I don't mind if someone is a workaholic, but if you can't see or call me because of work then there's nothing I can do to maintain the relationship. By the way I am getting the impression from these boards that cap men are very different from cap women - I know no one could call me a workaholic by any stretch of the imagination and most people think I don't take anything seriously enough.
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Aug 20, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 2571 · Topics: 154
Never been around 'annoying' virgos... well atleast I haven't met a really talkative virgo. I think most are pretty cool but the ones who are 'annoying' are more like 'hateful' lol