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Aug 20, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 2571 · Topics: 154
My crab is 73% which is more accurate than if he had answered it himself lol!
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Feb 06, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 582 · Topics: 34
I am also a Sag female that has been dating a Virgo Male and I am finding out that he seems to be more unstable than me. I have my stuff together. I own a home, I have a good job, I'm very loyal and honest (maybe too honest sometimes) I give and give and give and he is the one to always have some kind of drama that goes on and he doesn't let many people in. He would let me in for a while and then he backs off after a couple of weeks. All I want is to help him and be there for him but, the more he does the push/pull thing the harder it gets. I have been dating him since October and he only started getting this way at the end of December. I want him to know it's OK to have someone care about him but, he only lets it happen for a little while and then ignores me and doens't tell me why. Then he comes back and tells me he likes me more than he was ready for but and I let him know that I feel the same way but, I would like to see us progress and it's OK too. He has been hurt badly in the past and so have I but, it seems that he has a harder time with excepting that not everyone is the same. He even told me he has never dated anyone like me. (I took that as a good thing from the way he said it). I'm in my 30's and ready to settle down and I think he is too but, I think he is more scared than me.
Well I'm not a Virgo male, but I have a Virgo male in my life who sometimes acts juvenile like yours.
When mine acts like what you've described, I leave him alone. Normally he won't let 2 days go by without a call or an e mail & that's fine. I just back off. Virgos need their space.
He is probably not mad at you like you say. They just get what I call 'weird' at times. Maybe this is his weird time.
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Aug 20, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 2571 · Topics: 154
Grab her by the shoulders and shake her while yelling 'Snap out of it! I said I'm sorry!' then when she's mad because you shook her you'll only have to apologize for that and she'll see how dumb the whole incident was... ah ha ha ha
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HEY MISSMORALS WHERE YOU AT........I know you have an opinion about this topic...
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Aug 20, 2005Comments: 1 · Posts: 2571 · Topics: 154
No not on me lol Never to be tried on a mad bull lol
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Actually you're a little right therr Aprilbaby. I am not a male who would ever dress for the attraction of other males lol. But I still see Shere Hite's sentiments as decent ones. Sexuality IS Sexuality, and not divided into male and female categories.
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The question of bisexuality is an interesting one. I long laboured under the impression that everyone was born bisexual but socialized into gender. It wasn't until I slept with a woman that I realized, I wasn't bi.
If you accept that society dictates what is beautiful and what we should be attracted to, (this is easily argued since there are very few universal markers of what is attractive exist, and you simply need to go through the history of art to see how beauty has changed) today the standard of beauty is the female form. Because women's sexuality is exploited to the max, I think women are attracted to other women because on some level we are told to be.
I still find some women attractive but ... I will NEVER sleep with one again. lol!
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Help66:
I have experience this before with him but, it has never lasted this long without even seeing him. I don't want to call or go to his house because I'm afraid that he won't even answer or open his door. I usually see him out and about but, not this time. His friend told me at the pool tournament last week that my Virgo male said to him that I was a "keeper" because I had my life together. Well, I think to myself that if he told his that and meant it then, why didn't he keep me, why did he just ignore me. His friend also told me that he thinks that my Virgo male is going through changes right now and that he knows that if he is with me that it would change his life and that he couldn't do some of the things that he likes to do (meaning being childish or going to after hour parties). He's in his 30's and acts like he is in his 20's sometimes. His friend told me to be patient and let him figure it out because he wants to be with me but, he also knows he has to change his life style and his friend has been seeing a change in him lately (since he met me) but, he is not there yet and that I need to give him time. Well, how much time do I give him or do I? I know how I feel but, I am getting so drained about not knowing how he feels. I won't date anyone else until I talk with him and know for sure what is going on and I really don't want to date anyone else, just him.