COUPLES - what do you do on an average day?
Thanks for asking. I just feel that I haven't really had a "normal" relationship really. I love doing lots of different things and am very passionate, but as I my life style changes I'm kinda stuck for what I really want to do with someone. What parts to share, what parts I may be missing.
I guess everyone has different expectations from a relationship.
I guess everyone has different expectations from a relationship.
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b/c nobody else wanted to talk to your azz, CG. You ought to be more thankful...
I'm the original CapGirl! Those others are copy-cats!! I guess it's because of a boss I had for 5 years who was Aries- he was like jekyll and hyde, very uneven temperament, and fiery too- when he got mad, which was often, he looked like a little crusader storming about.
Oooh, ScorpionLady, it might be the mountain-climbing, rise to the top mentality of the Cap. but it's typically down more slowly and steadily. I have no interest in stepping on others to get there and am not even that motivated to 'move up.' She must have bad character, or ARIES in her chart! lol Or Gemini? Two-faced. (Gosh, I will feel bad if GEG reappears and sees me Gemini-bashing!)
PF~ cute! You're lucky I know you so well and can find humor!
Oooh, ScorpionLady, it might be the mountain-climbing, rise to the top mentality of the Cap. but it's typically down more slowly and steadily. I have no interest in stepping on others to get there and am not even that motivated to 'move up.' She must have bad character, or ARIES in her chart! lol Or Gemini? Two-faced. (Gosh, I will feel bad if GEG reappears and sees me Gemini-bashing!)
PF~ cute! You're lucky I know you so well and can find humor!
This thread or this board isn't about virgos. You've never talked to me b/4, don't start now.
argghh...ladies and gentlemen,
Its been six months and my cappy still hasn't said more then he "likes me" and he "likes where we are going". We spend everyday together, he stays at my house every night, we are a 'couple' in the eyes of our friends, yet he seems wearly to plan anything too far into the future, 3 weeks is his max if I am making the plnas (yet he planned 2 months ahead for my bday! damn authoritarian!
I know deep down he is in this for the long run YET I am still afraid that if he doesn't verbalize his feelings and his committment to me aloud he will split.
Am I just being insecure? It sure feels like it, BUT never before have I had a man be so wishy-washy about his feelings, they usually fall right in love/ deep like and make me feel secure with the relationship.
Should I let him get away with this new mode of communication i,e no-communication or gently confron him...again...??
Its been six months and my cappy still hasn't said more then he "likes me" and he "likes where we are going". We spend everyday together, he stays at my house every night, we are a 'couple' in the eyes of our friends, yet he seems wearly to plan anything too far into the future, 3 weeks is his max if I am making the plnas (yet he planned 2 months ahead for my bday! damn authoritarian!
I know deep down he is in this for the long run YET I am still afraid that if he doesn't verbalize his feelings and his committment to me aloud he will split.
Am I just being insecure? It sure feels like it, BUT never before have I had a man be so wishy-washy about his feelings, they usually fall right in love/ deep like and make me feel secure with the relationship.
Should I let him get away with this new mode of communication i,e no-communication or gently confron him...again...??
You're lucky too, m'dear.
thanks capgirl, I HAVE mellowed out, yeah it takes time to get over these guys, or to get over the initial "what the f-k is wrong with them? and these boards have helped tremdously, a lot of times we hear things we don't want to hear, but truth is truth and fantasy is fantasy, and my new motto for the last couple of weeks is "it is what it is" I've come to accept that no matter how "right" i might feel, it doesn't mean the other person is going to see my point of view. and there's another saying that goes, "would you rather be right or be happy" in other words pick your battles. it's esp hard to fight someone who isn't even there, and that's what i was doing. so thank you all for your patience.
Have you been reading that book, "Why Men Fear Commitment" or some title to that effect?? It's in my nightstand-- It's really good and talks about the man needing to verbalize his feelings for a commitment to happen... That's alot of time spent together. You're not saying ILY? I'd have a hard time being intimate over that period of time, that frequently, w/o being able to say that and hear it back.
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(Lol look how far we've come in this conversation.)
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I see, I have a lot to gain from some of the things you just said - More to look for at least.
How charming....Lmao...
And this is the democracy you guys talking about and wanted to export that crap out of your borders too..?? Under which name.? American usual hypocrisy? or "made in USA fascism".?
Or.. god forbid.. you guys are religious something..??
I guess.. you pranksters are just joking around?
But on the serious side? why not..? What is wrong to accept females reaching the top.?? Jealousy..?? Ahh?. 43 jackasses ran the US till now and have made pile of crap of it "both nationally and internationally", especially the last menace?.let at least 3 females do the same then start your nagging.
As I said it before?. You guys sitting on you philosopher armchair in comfort of your home getting drunk and playing with your ?. err (hopefully it is your computer) and brag around with your divine knowledge about everything in this world?
COOLNESS?..!
The following is a sampling of statistics related to the relative status of women worldwide.
According to the United Nations Human Development Report 2004: Section 28, Gender, Work Burden, and Time Allocation, women work on average more than men, when both paid employment and unpaid household tasks are accounted for. In rural areas of the developing countries surveyed, women perform an average of 20% more work than men, or an additional 98 minutes per day. In the OECD countries surveyed, on average women performed 5% more work than men, or 18 minutes per day.
Women own only 1 percent of the world's wealth, and earn 10 percent of the world's income, despite making up 49.5 percent of the population.
Women are underrepresented in all of the world's major legislative bodies.
In 1985, Finland had the largest percentage of women in national legislature at approximately 32 percent (P. Norris, Women's Legislative Participation in Western Europe, West European Politics).
Currently, Sweden has the highest number of women at 45 percent.
The United States has just 14 percent.
The world average is just 9 percent. In contrast, half of the members of the recently established Welsh Assembly Government are women.
Female share of seats in elected national chambers in November 2004 (percent)
? Rwanda 49.0
? Sweden 45.3
? South Africa 42.0
? Namibia 42.0
? Denmark 38.0
? Finland 37.5
? Norway 36.4
? Spain 36.0
? Netherlands 35.0
? Pakistan 33.3
? Germany 32.8
? Iceland 30.2
? New Zealand 28.3
? Austria 27.5
? Canada 21.1
? China 20.2
? UK(Commons) 17.8
? Mauritius 17.0
? United States 15.0
? Japan 7.1
So? I just wonder why Nr.1 superpower (lmao) got the 19th place in this table..??...empty place vacancy..?? or it is just a plain (ready to export) democracy..??..
Or am I just talking with bunch of "being dumped several times socially inept dweebs", which refusing to accept abandoning the ancients BS of the male dominance culture..??
What do you know about honour killing..??
What do you know about female's circumcision..??
What do you know about forced marriage??
What do you know about rape?
What do you know??..er?. never mind?
The issue lazlow and looneybird talking about is not about or being feminist?.!!!!
IT IS WOMEN RIGHTS??.and should be accepted and respected as MALE RIGHT..
And this is the democracy you guys talking about and wanted to export that crap out of your borders too..?? Under which name.? American usual hypocrisy? or "made in USA fascism".?
Or.. god forbid.. you guys are religious something..??
I guess.. you pranksters are just joking around?
But on the serious side? why not..? What is wrong to accept females reaching the top.?? Jealousy..?? Ahh?. 43 jackasses ran the US till now and have made pile of crap of it "both nationally and internationally", especially the last menace?.let at least 3 females do the same then start your nagging.
As I said it before?. You guys sitting on you philosopher armchair in comfort of your home getting drunk and playing with your ?. err (hopefully it is your computer) and brag around with your divine knowledge about everything in this world?
COOLNESS?..!
The following is a sampling of statistics related to the relative status of women worldwide.
According to the United Nations Human Development Report 2004: Section 28, Gender, Work Burden, and Time Allocation, women work on average more than men, when both paid employment and unpaid household tasks are accounted for. In rural areas of the developing countries surveyed, women perform an average of 20% more work than men, or an additional 98 minutes per day. In the OECD countries surveyed, on average women performed 5% more work than men, or 18 minutes per day.
Women own only 1 percent of the world's wealth, and earn 10 percent of the world's income, despite making up 49.5 percent of the population.
Women are underrepresented in all of the world's major legislative bodies.
In 1985, Finland had the largest percentage of women in national legislature at approximately 32 percent (P. Norris, Women's Legislative Participation in Western Europe, West European Politics).
Currently, Sweden has the highest number of women at 45 percent.
The United States has just 14 percent.
The world average is just 9 percent. In contrast, half of the members of the recently established Welsh Assembly Government are women.
Female share of seats in elected national chambers in November 2004 (percent)
? Rwanda 49.0
? Sweden 45.3
? South Africa 42.0
? Namibia 42.0
? Denmark 38.0
? Finland 37.5
? Norway 36.4
? Spain 36.0
? Netherlands 35.0
? Pakistan 33.3
? Germany 32.8
? Iceland 30.2
? New Zealand 28.3
? Austria 27.5
? Canada 21.1
? China 20.2
? UK(Commons) 17.8
? Mauritius 17.0
? United States 15.0
? Japan 7.1
So? I just wonder why Nr.1 superpower (lmao) got the 19th place in this table..??...empty place vacancy..?? or it is just a plain (ready to export) democracy..??..
Or am I just talking with bunch of "being dumped several times socially inept dweebs", which refusing to accept abandoning the ancients BS of the male dominance culture..??
What do you know about honour killing..??
What do you know about female's circumcision..??
What do you know about forced marriage??
What do you know about rape?
What do you know??..er?. never mind?
The issue lazlow and looneybird talking about is not about or being feminist?.!!!!
IT IS WOMEN RIGHTS??.and should be accepted and respected as MALE RIGHT..