cancerian/librian reunion?
(((Sweets)))
He is a Drama King.
No you shouldn't hang in there. You see, he thinks because you went into the situation knowing you are number 2 that you have no reason to be upset with it and were quite comfortable being number 2. You have suggested that you don't need more. If you did, you wouldn't have settled.
You see people (usually men) start these things to avoid something. It is a distraction from something they don't want to face. They don't want love. They want validation, distraction, and drama. While they are focusing on deceiving, they aren't focused on what they really need to focus on. The elephant in the livingroom is avoided because he is busy hiding the elephant in the closet.
Actions talk. Words don't. He obviously loves his girlfriend and has no intention of leaving. If he did, he would.
And I know how hard it is to hear that.
(((sweets)))
He is a Drama King.
No you shouldn't hang in there. You see, he thinks because you went into the situation knowing you are number 2 that you have no reason to be upset with it and were quite comfortable being number 2. You have suggested that you don't need more. If you did, you wouldn't have settled.
You see people (usually men) start these things to avoid something. It is a distraction from something they don't want to face. They don't want love. They want validation, distraction, and drama. While they are focusing on deceiving, they aren't focused on what they really need to focus on. The elephant in the livingroom is avoided because he is busy hiding the elephant in the closet.
Actions talk. Words don't. He obviously loves his girlfriend and has no intention of leaving. If he did, he would.
And I know how hard it is to hear that.
(((sweets)))
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Taurans tend to be quite possesive even if they do not wish to stay with their partner or even if they have other plans.
He will stay with you on his own terms, not yours, but as long as your terms suit him for the time being he will go with it.
However, he will never appreciate being taken for granted or being cheated on. As with all men, he may 'look around' for other women but he will never see this happening to you, i.e. looking around for other men, though.
If you just want sex and made it clear that you are only after that, you may be ready to either be treated as a sex-partner, never really a friend, but he may wish deep inside that you will fall head over heels in love with him.
I guess this relationship may better stop there. Do not pursue him further until he makes his next move. Look for a more wholesome relationship, with someone who will fill your heart and mind and future. That was my humble opinion.
He will stay with you on his own terms, not yours, but as long as your terms suit him for the time being he will go with it.
However, he will never appreciate being taken for granted or being cheated on. As with all men, he may 'look around' for other women but he will never see this happening to you, i.e. looking around for other men, though.
If you just want sex and made it clear that you are only after that, you may be ready to either be treated as a sex-partner, never really a friend, but he may wish deep inside that you will fall head over heels in love with him.
I guess this relationship may better stop there. Do not pursue him further until he makes his next move. Look for a more wholesome relationship, with someone who will fill your heart and mind and future. That was my humble opinion.
i'm an 18-year-old female college student from southern california. i like the water, but i'm currently in the middle of nowhere, unfortunately......
lmao sorry i had to laugh on the "dear lord" comment
Hey everyone!
It's been a while but id just like you to all know Erin and I are doing great together. See, a gem and a cap CAN be in a great relationship. We celebrated our sixth month by getting away on an island again on feb 26th.
We're both going to school and still living with our parents, so it can be hard. But i still meet her after school and pick her up from her labs when ever possible. We have dinner at her place together almost every other day. Some poeple say that cappies are controling but man does erin have control. I swear im so inlove with this girl that id do anything for her. I let her know how i feel about her every moment i can get and make sure i please her too
We have quite opposite interests in some things like school and carier paths but our understanding of what we want in life is just the same. I would say its a match made in heavin.
toodles!
It's been a while but id just like you to all know Erin and I are doing great together. See, a gem and a cap CAN be in a great relationship. We celebrated our sixth month by getting away on an island again on feb 26th.
We're both going to school and still living with our parents, so it can be hard. But i still meet her after school and pick her up from her labs when ever possible. We have dinner at her place together almost every other day. Some poeple say that cappies are controling but man does erin have control. I swear im so inlove with this girl that id do anything for her. I let her know how i feel about her every moment i can get and make sure i please her too
We have quite opposite interests in some things like school and carier paths but our understanding of what we want in life is just the same. I would say its a match made in heavin.
toodles!
i've always thought that capricorns were the stalker types, cuz every stalker that i had was a capricorn. i guess that's why i'm kinda scared of them.. lol. so to me, that would sound pretty damn normal. or maybe, he's either just really crazy about you, or he might even be one of those really horny capricorns-types. i wouldn't know cuz i'm really, freaking scared of them. but either way.. just enjoy the time that you guys have together, and just address his issues of detachment if they ever do arise. i'm sure he likes you a lot.
ewwwww. period.
Some of you are limiting your understanding of emotion. When astrologers talk about emotion in relation to this sign they don't always just mean the capacity to feel. They're also referring to the capacity to intuit and empathize. Reason and emotion are both pathways to knowledge in this sense.
Both reason and emotion factor into any number of decisions the average person makes each day, and in a complimentary way. The synergy between them is especially evident in decisions of incomplete information. Take poker for example. The fun of poker is that you can't be empirically sure what cards your opponent has. The best poker players might use reason to calculate odds and probabilities based on the empirical evidence available to them, but they use intution and empathy to fill in the missing pieces based on information that is non-empirical.
Say my opponent bets into me, and he's holding 3 different cards face up, with 1 card hidden. If I have two pair, calling or raising his bet is an easy decision. I can reason from the empirical evidence available to me that the best possible hand my opponent would have is a single pair. I've got him beat.
Fortunately poker is almost never that straightforward. Say my opponent has a queen, a jack, and a nine showing, all of different suits, with 1 card hidden. If I have a pair of 10's, reason isn't enough to make the right decision. If my opponent has a jack or a queen hidden, he has me beat with his higher pair, and I should fold. If he has any other card hidden, then I have him beat, and I can call or raise. In making the right decision, I'll have to take into account the empirical data from previous hands, sure, but I'll also have to "feel him out," i.e. try to intuit what he might have or else try to empathize with his emotional state to sense whether he's strong or weak in this particular situation.
For those of you who didn't know, scorpios make phenomenal poker players : )
What some people forget is that life is always a game of incomplete information. Some of the cards are always hidden. Somewhere out there is an x-factor. Even the most relgiously rational of quantam phsyicists will tell you that at the most basic levels of reality as we know them, there is no certainty. The empirical information available to us is always, always, always incomplete.
Scorpios generally have keen, rational minds. But when a balanced scorpio is said to "just know," or when that scorpio is said to act "without regard to consquences" it's because he's seeing more than the eye can see.
It's because she's listening to more than the ear can hear.
Scorpio, more than anything else, is the master sign of insight and knowledge. To say that scorpios are the masters of emotion and reason is merely to say the same thing in different words.
Both reason and emotion factor into any number of decisions the average person makes each day, and in a complimentary way. The synergy between them is especially evident in decisions of incomplete information. Take poker for example. The fun of poker is that you can't be empirically sure what cards your opponent has. The best poker players might use reason to calculate odds and probabilities based on the empirical evidence available to them, but they use intution and empathy to fill in the missing pieces based on information that is non-empirical.
Say my opponent bets into me, and he's holding 3 different cards face up, with 1 card hidden. If I have two pair, calling or raising his bet is an easy decision. I can reason from the empirical evidence available to me that the best possible hand my opponent would have is a single pair. I've got him beat.
Fortunately poker is almost never that straightforward. Say my opponent has a queen, a jack, and a nine showing, all of different suits, with 1 card hidden. If I have a pair of 10's, reason isn't enough to make the right decision. If my opponent has a jack or a queen hidden, he has me beat with his higher pair, and I should fold. If he has any other card hidden, then I have him beat, and I can call or raise. In making the right decision, I'll have to take into account the empirical data from previous hands, sure, but I'll also have to "feel him out," i.e. try to intuit what he might have or else try to empathize with his emotional state to sense whether he's strong or weak in this particular situation.
For those of you who didn't know, scorpios make phenomenal poker players : )
What some people forget is that life is always a game of incomplete information. Some of the cards are always hidden. Somewhere out there is an x-factor. Even the most relgiously rational of quantam phsyicists will tell you that at the most basic levels of reality as we know them, there is no certainty. The empirical information available to us is always, always, always incomplete.
Scorpios generally have keen, rational minds. But when a balanced scorpio is said to "just know," or when that scorpio is said to act "without regard to consquences" it's because he's seeing more than the eye can see.
It's because she's listening to more than the ear can hear.
Scorpio, more than anything else, is the master sign of insight and knowledge. To say that scorpios are the masters of emotion and reason is merely to say the same thing in different words.
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tauruschica----wooohooooooooo do I know this guy that you speak of??? Sounds way too familiar...damn fish...
yeah, i know what you mean. but when i happen to not like how the teacher teaches, i just can't get myself to listen. i end up doing better independently (so far). but that's only becuz i'm still a freshman, so the classes aren't at all hard for me yet. i know that i'll start going to class next quarter, which is soon becuz finals are just around the corner. *sigh*