capricorn women ... have feelings too
Wow, thank you so much sb and branh0913 for the feedback and the support 
I really needed different points of views on this situation. Well, I'm 21 but he's older then me by three years. Last time we had a serious conversation (4 weeks ago), he spoke about not losing my virginity until I was married (along wih teling me that my virginity should be shared with my husband; along with telling me that I shouldn't focus on guys right now, instead focus on my education (when I told him about my career plans, he has been suportiv every since). It sort of felt like he was acting like my father, until he told me that if we were living with each other that my "cherry" would be history :o He said that our feelings for each other are too strong for things not to happen between us -- there would be no place for me to run. In the past, he also referenced that I should've have so many guy friends ... just because I don't know there motives. He told me that he cared for me and he didn't want to see me taken advantage of by men. Keep in mind, I don't bring up all this emotional stuff because last summer we agreed to be friends ... whatever that means. Since he hasn't spoken to me in three weeks, I don't know what to think.
I really needed different points of views on this situation. Well, I'm 21 but he's older then me by three years. Last time we had a serious conversation (4 weeks ago), he spoke about not losing my virginity until I was married (along wih teling me that my virginity should be shared with my husband; along with telling me that I shouldn't focus on guys right now, instead focus on my education (when I told him about my career plans, he has been suportiv every since). It sort of felt like he was acting like my father, until he told me that if we were living with each other that my "cherry" would be history :o He said that our feelings for each other are too strong for things not to happen between us -- there would be no place for me to run. In the past, he also referenced that I should've have so many guy friends ... just because I don't know there motives. He told me that he cared for me and he didn't want to see me taken advantage of by men. Keep in mind, I don't bring up all this emotional stuff because last summer we agreed to be friends ... whatever that means. Since he hasn't spoken to me in three weeks, I don't know what to think.Leave Your Feedback
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Hi Shaka...
I never made any impresion on him I wanted anything more. He is the one who had asked how he going to tell other guys in the bar (that had wanted to date me) about "us". And asked if an ex of mine (whom he knows) and called me while I was overseas had said anything about him. I said "no...why would he ask about you?".
So he's assuming I'm telling people but I think he is. His bartender (a friend of his and wants to be my realtor)whom came over my house Friday was drilling me about my "story...a few people want to know if I am single" and he kept mentioning Virgo guys name...waiting for me to say something about him...I didn't. I told him I was very single and looking for a nice guy who is not a game player. Maybe bartender went back and told him that I made no mention of him.
The minute I went over to him at the bar he immediately asked "Are you behaving tonight?" hmmmmm
Virgo trait is to come right out and say "I'm not interested anymore?" WOW...thats news to me when it comes to men in general...and I hope its true.
I never made any impresion on him I wanted anything more. He is the one who had asked how he going to tell other guys in the bar (that had wanted to date me) about "us". And asked if an ex of mine (whom he knows) and called me while I was overseas had said anything about him. I said "no...why would he ask about you?".
So he's assuming I'm telling people but I think he is. His bartender (a friend of his and wants to be my realtor)whom came over my house Friday was drilling me about my "story...a few people want to know if I am single" and he kept mentioning Virgo guys name...waiting for me to say something about him...I didn't. I told him I was very single and looking for a nice guy who is not a game player. Maybe bartender went back and told him that I made no mention of him.
The minute I went over to him at the bar he immediately asked "Are you behaving tonight?" hmmmmm
Virgo trait is to come right out and say "I'm not interested anymore?" WOW...thats news to me when it comes to men in general...and I hope its true.
I'm a Virgo woman and have been with my Scorpio man for over 3 years--we live together. In the last year things have been rocky with our sex life. Let me start by saying that I do not initiate sex with him--Only one time since we've been together and I was drunk that night--I'm very shy about my body (always have been) and have been very interested in sex with him and love it !! But I simply am not the first person to make the first move..This being said, my man has complained that he feels his self-esteem is getting lower and lower because he comes to me all the time ...we've dwindled down to 2 times a week and now we are doing it 1 time a month. This is not acceptable at all, he hates it and I hate it--things have been soooo tense and he says that he's not asking alot by asking me to initiate the sex. I feel that a man (especially a scorpio--LOL) would never let a month go by or two weeks even--trust me, I get his point, I truly do, but good GOD-- this scorpio of mine -- is he really trying to prove a point or is he going somewhere else? Know aht I mean? This is what worries me. I don't have any reason other than this to think something is going on. I've asked him--he says no. He says he loves me and that he wants sex but he wants to feel that I want him too--he's tired of being the first to initiate all the time. He knows I have initiated in my past relationships (not much initiation on my part, but better than in this relationship) and this pisses him off.. Any ideas here??
Hi Tony, glad you joined.
I know what you mean with regards to the flirty Gemini nature. I have noticed this with Gemini men, too. The flirting is almost painful. No offense to any Gem ladies, but a couple of my Gem girlfriends almost seem vendictive with their flirting.
However, you are exactly right though. My brother is a Gem. Thankfully, he has a Cancer rising and Venus in Cancer. This makes him extremely loyal and a wonderful father. He is very, very affectionate with his wife (who is a Cancer) and I have never seem hom outwardly be flirtatious, etc.
Me, I am a Cancer with Venus in Cancer, too. Some might say that my Mars in Gemini might make me a flirt as Mars and Venus seem to play a key role in romance/sex, etc. But, when in a relationship, I am extremely loyal. Just the usual insecure Cancer stuff which may be just as bad.
I know what you mean with regards to the flirty Gemini nature. I have noticed this with Gemini men, too. The flirting is almost painful. No offense to any Gem ladies, but a couple of my Gem girlfriends almost seem vendictive with their flirting.
However, you are exactly right though. My brother is a Gem. Thankfully, he has a Cancer rising and Venus in Cancer. This makes him extremely loyal and a wonderful father. He is very, very affectionate with his wife (who is a Cancer) and I have never seem hom outwardly be flirtatious, etc.
Me, I am a Cancer with Venus in Cancer, too. Some might say that my Mars in Gemini might make me a flirt as Mars and Venus seem to play a key role in romance/sex, etc. But, when in a relationship, I am extremely loyal. Just the usual insecure Cancer stuff which may be just as bad.
Finally, do i hear music?
Here is a great link on sex astrology based on venus and mars placement etc. Just scroll to the bottom find the sun sign and go from there.
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/individual-sex-horoscopes.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/individual-sex-horoscopes.html
I was sitting in a tree. A auto pulls out of the driveway of the house I grew up in. the car turns goes to the corner stops at the stopsign. the car pulls away as it does a long black Lemo pulls up along side of it and machineguns it. I flot over the site and I am laying on the ground in a pool of blood dead.
To be honest, I would break-up with someone for lack of discretion ... and have. Privacy is very important to me and I don't like people knowing my businesses. I have no idea if that is playing a factor for him or not.
I agree with Branh et all. Just stay still and do nothing. Let's see if he resurfaces on his own.
I agree with Branh et all. Just stay still and do nothing. Let's see if he resurfaces on his own.
"!!! HAFFO!!! you're dead wrong!!
i'm just CARRRAZZZAAYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL!!!
hehehehehehehehhehehehehehehhehehehe"
"you guys have the go ahead now, BURN IT BURN ME. do it. do it now, i command you."
Somehow I doubt about that. Why you imply by burning you apparently says something like that: "I'm ready. Show what you all are made of." This is a big sign of inferiority complex that brings big lack of confidence. By that you also imply on wish to learn because by wanting us to show all what have you want to see what we can do, then analyse and find a defencive mechanism to it. Pretty simple yeah.
i'm just CARRRAZZZAAYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL LOL!!!
hehehehehehehehhehehehehehehhehehehe"
"you guys have the go ahead now, BURN IT BURN ME. do it. do it now, i command you."
Somehow I doubt about that. Why you imply by burning you apparently says something like that: "I'm ready. Show what you all are made of." This is a big sign of inferiority complex that brings big lack of confidence. By that you also imply on wish to learn because by wanting us to show all what have you want to see what we can do, then analyse and find a defencive mechanism to it. Pretty simple yeah.
Schindler's list
Oskar Schindler a womanizing evil no good rotten S.O.B. but he saves 1100 jews from the death camps at the risk of his own life. why ? one looks at ones own contradictions and wonders how someone can be so contradictory.
Oskar Schindler a womanizing evil no good rotten S.O.B. but he saves 1100 jews from the death camps at the risk of his own life. why ? one looks at ones own contradictions and wonders how someone can be so contradictory.
HAHAHAHA ! I'm so NOT a fan of Virgo. My mother is a Virgo and I love her dearly but she's a legend in her own mind. I find Virgo males to be completely boring, not original and horrible in bed. The cherry on my Virgo cake of hate is the fact that they really like me........UGH.