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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1234 · Topics: 79
You can't get him out of his marriage. That has to be his choice,,and apparently that's not what he wants right now...no matter what cocka mamey story he is telling you....I mean, be for real.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1234 · Topics: 79
I mean really. Please read over your post..and then tell me how you think it sounds.
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I love Aries men,,,just something about them
gslove thank you for responding to my posting. Its been a bit over a week since Ive heard from my virgo and I have to tell you, I am totally loosing my mind. Now granted I know she is in a relationship, but I told her that our friendship is the most sacred thing in the world to me. She also knows I would do anything for her at the drop of a dime. I sent her a little text on friday saying "Hi" and she didnt respond back. Im so hurt you cant imagine. Based on the little that she has told me her relationship is "Just there". Although she is not 100% happy (I beleive) I never ever told her to leave her current situation. On the contrary I encouraged her to try and work things out. Anyway, I think I have really lost her now. I once told her that Ill be loyal to her and loyal to our friendship regardless of the current situation. I go out with friends and (really amazingly) no other girl looks anything remotly appealing to me. Its like theye are not even there. I have women come and talk to me and other than just being nice and cordial thats where I draw the line. I could accept the fact that she is involved and she has her issues or whatever. However for her to ignore me hurts unlike no other. Should I move on or wait for her until (hopefully) she comes around. I love this person more than anything in the world and would do ANY THING for her. If she is hurt again in a relationship (as she told me she has in the past in nearly every single one) I wont know what to do. Thats what I want to avoid. Am I silly for trying to be loyal as hell to her ?
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 4935 · Topics: 117
Kitten, Softy does have a point ....right now since he is married, you are simply a distraction for him and his problems. You are letting him know that you are okay with being second in his life - is this what YOU want in a relationship? If he is cheating on his wife with you, then what is to say that he will not do this to you?
I say, find an Aries man who is totally available to you in all ways...you are settling Missy and you deserve so much more.
My best to you -
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1234 · Topics: 79
And why be willing to extend yourself like that for someone else's husband? I agrre with taking care of YOUR man...but another woman's. No matter what the situation is.