Well I think it's important that you express yourself to him -- if you're not interested in sex at this time and he brings it up - tell him so. Why not? Life is going to be hell if you don't put this boy in his place. Then again, I'm the kind of girl who is out for the chase. I'm always predator & I want to be in control (funny how I always end up with controlling types). I have a yucky feeling about this guy, capsweetie. Try to open up and tell him he's acting like a wad (with tact, maybe firmness of course). Somebody's got to do it and he may very well respect your words.