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Cancer MEN! They all have LIED, been manipulative, and very insecure and immature! Have dated 5.
When I was younger, one cheated. The crazy thing about them is that they always keep coming back...
FOOLS!!!
When I was younger, one cheated. The crazy thing about them is that they always keep coming back...
FOOLS!!!
Mars in Sag.
Annoyed? Progresses through- Passive aggressive... withdrawal... explosion (yelling, throwing things, pinching, it has to be pretty bad though).
When frustrated? Knuckle down. Complete radio silence.
Hulking out? Shaking, fist clenching, voice straining, tears, throat closing on knees hair pulling monster.
Damage? To me anger has always been damaging. The emotional exhaustion just isn't worth it in my opinion. Keeping my temper is a challenge.
Dealing with it? Meditation, rationalising it out of my mind.
I mean, I just recall the aftermath of prior emotional outbursts and just tell myself it's not worth the high blood pressure =P
I'd say I get really angry about three times a year, rest of the time I just act like a cold blooded reptile. It's safer for everyone.
Annoyed? Progresses through- Passive aggressive... withdrawal... explosion (yelling, throwing things, pinching, it has to be pretty bad though).
When frustrated? Knuckle down. Complete radio silence.
Hulking out? Shaking, fist clenching, voice straining, tears, throat closing on knees hair pulling monster.
Damage? To me anger has always been damaging. The emotional exhaustion just isn't worth it in my opinion. Keeping my temper is a challenge.
Dealing with it? Meditation, rationalising it out of my mind.
I mean, I just recall the aftermath of prior emotional outbursts and just tell myself it's not worth the high blood pressure =P
I'd say I get really angry about three times a year, rest of the time I just act like a cold blooded reptile. It's safer for everyone.
So says the greatly intelligent....
State ur facts and prove 2 me that Dazed is not sick and confused..
Just 1 shred of factual prove and I will chg my mind.
Facts only and NOT believes which include hypothesis..
State ur facts and prove 2 me that Dazed is not sick and confused..
Just 1 shred of factual prove and I will chg my mind.
Facts only and NOT believes which include hypothesis..
By tree i hope you dont mean herb lol. Dont wanna be smoked!
Yeah the tree idea is cool, I'd do that.
Yeah the tree idea is cool, I'd do that.
Posted by WaterCup
MrDefence, its because "right hand man" aka side-kick = YUCK to us. Admitting being one is sort of intriguing. We are curious to know why would anybody ever be ok with that. Its curiosity thats all
It allows us to make leadership decisions while not having to deal with all the pressure behind the 'leader' title. This way, we don't have to deal with petty judgments for our unpopular, yet necessary, decisions, and can continue to focus on more important matters. We guide and direct our leader, not live in servitude. Because we are not manipulative, our leaders are not the type to consider us as 'side-kicks'. They are aware of our importance, and that is enough.
Posted by seraph
Alright. It's time to walk away, ScorpioEV86. This isn't healthy. You don't seem right at all for each other. Even when drunk, the two of you somehow can't manage each other. You sure as hell aren't gonna do it sober.
On the one hand, you're enabling his behaviour by allowing it to continue (no doubt you're getting a self-esteem/"I feel needed" payoff), and he has deep-seated issues of his own (abusive mother, apparently, that he hasn't come to terms with, control issues with you, etc.) You did him a favour by pissing him off that night (or by putting him in a situation which allowed him to feign it and act the victim as a pretext for getting out), and he did *you* a favour by leaving.
If what you said is true, then let him deal with his mother's impending death in his own way - that is, *without* treating yo-yo-ing back and forth from you. In fact, a lot of what you're seeing might be connected to the grieving process that he's already begun, and likely struggling with. He is in anything but the frame of mind to give you what you think you need, and you're in no position to get sucked into his really imprudent way of expressing need and getting help. You're simply not equipped to handle it.
if you don't distance yourself *now*, you'll be on here regularly with newer versions of the same story.
Yes, you are right! And I noticed that for a while when we first started talking that he would jump into these depressed stages and not talk. He would call me every 5 minutes just to stare at me on facetime..... Poor fella, heck, i dont know.
But, truthfully, we have a problem with communication and that will always be the issue until he gets stable and the instability more than likely does come from his issues with his mother. And your right, I have enabled him multiple times because I keep allowing him to come back into my life.
I totally agree with you about him already starting the grieving stages for his mother. You have opened my eyes and made me realize that these issues with his mother are making him this way. I thought about it, but once you brought it to my attention, it hit me like a ton of bricks that that is the reason.
I'm not saying I didn't do anything wrong, but this is all crazy to me.
Exactlyyy! It's ultra binding and I think that scares him. I have no idea where his and I relationship will go but all I know is the connections is everlasting and I'm scared to go but its a thrill you never can case whats going to happen next. We were talking about religion and I was kind of shocked because he never did try to have phone sex with me lol which is good. I always feel like I did something wrong or I'm not good enough for him, idk why maybe its those insecurities coming back from the beginning and they should not be coming anymore because I do know he does respect me as a person and does see me as a long-lasting friend. I asked if he could treat me like a homegirl if we see each other and he said no. Idk what to do. I feel like maybe the talk was kind of closure for us to end on good terms since he hasn't tried to contact me. He ended by saying he would talk to me soon. Such bs ugh. I told him I don't think I'm ever gonna get sick with him and he agreed with me that he felt the same. I over thinking and analyze things, my mind wont stop!
Why would he say "I think I want to be single for a while"? That was over a msg.
That is what I'm confused about. Does that mean we are broken up?
Well, like I said when I offered to give his stuff back he freaked.
And when we met up he didn't want to talk about it.
Oh and when he went home apparently he made a joke saying he wants to be single so he'll download loads of porn.
The joke, a joke and they are just silly words but it still really bothers me.
That is what I'm confused about. Does that mean we are broken up?
Well, like I said when I offered to give his stuff back he freaked.
And when we met up he didn't want to talk about it.
Oh and when he went home apparently he made a joke saying he wants to be single so he'll download loads of porn.
The joke, a joke and they are just silly words but it still really bothers me.
Posted by LIBRA1234
Its quite simple but complicated at the same time. If you like him enough and u don't want to play games - call him and tell him u wanted to meet and have a little chat
If you think there is no future with this guy and your gut tells you he is off - move on and start meeting other guys...
Now u prob think it is more complicated than that, but trust me it isn't lol, relationships can be so simple as long as two people are on the SAME PAGE!
Very true! We are the ones that make things complicated, but if he doesn't want to listen then what do I do?
I have too many mixed emotions here... haha!
I want him and feel like we can work through it if we both are willing to listen and pay attention, but at the same time I feel like theres something holding us back... And then with the running back and forth theres no possible way to build something sturdy when we can't keep things consistent... Oh Lawd, what to do. I think SERAPH is correct in what he is saying, but when you heart is involved its difficult to walk away. :/
Do people have a choice about which type of tree they wanna be? I know I'd want to be a pretty treetrunk(er) lol, maybe be one of those Japanese trees ie. like the ones seen in karate kid. Or a fruit-tree.