Should I give up on this Leo man?
Alright here's the situation. I met this Leo guy about a month and a half ago. He contacted me and we had some pretty amazing conversations (pretty **** long chunks of text) online before I agreed to meet him in person. We went on a picnic and had a splendid time. A couple of days later he came over to watch a movie and ended up spending the night. We had sex (A big error with Leo's apparently as I gave in too quickly, but I liked him and I like sex). Things rocked on nicely for about two weeks, we'd talk, hang, out and cuddle/have sex. I was trying to treat things pretty lightly and casually since I don't like to dive into situations too quickly and I had just recently gotten out of a relationship.
I won't lie though, I was quickly becoming infatuated with him.
So about two weeks in we're hanging out, both aggitated for different reasons and he just comes out with the fact that he's still totally in love with his ex-girlfriend (whom he broke up with) and that I apparently vaguely (having seen her myself) resemble her. Understandably I reacted rather badly to this news. In short I was pissed. So he left, we continued talking during the next couple of days. Against my friends and I's better judgement I ended up going over to his place. We had a long discussion and I ended up staying the night. I asked him why he felt the need to tell me what he had and he said that it seemed like he was using me. I plain out asked him if he was and he said no. I chose to believe him, but warned him that I was developing feelings for him. He said that we could continue to cuddle and sleep together so long as I understood that his feelings were platonic and physical. I said that was fine, but that we might have to discuss it again should my feelings change.
So more time rocked on and the situation steadily become worse. He wanted to talk about her, and I couls see him straining to please her and get back into her good graces. He'd alternate between saying that he wanted to get back with her and that he just wished that he could forget about her. He told me that it felt like she was stringing him along (she's dating another guy now). I told him that as his friend I would listen to him talk about it if he felt like he needed to but he should understand that it hurt me.
I won't lie though, I was quickly becoming infatuated with him.
So about two weeks in we're hanging out, both aggitated for different reasons and he just comes out with the fact that he's still totally in love with his ex-girlfriend (whom he broke up with) and that I apparently vaguely (having seen her myself) resemble her. Understandably I reacted rather badly to this news. In short I was pissed. So he left, we continued talking during the next couple of days. Against my friends and I's better judgement I ended up going over to his place. We had a long discussion and I ended up staying the night. I asked him why he felt the need to tell me what he had and he said that it seemed like he was using me. I plain out asked him if he was and he said no. I chose to believe him, but warned him that I was developing feelings for him. He said that we could continue to cuddle and sleep together so long as I understood that his feelings were platonic and physical. I said that was fine, but that we might have to discuss it again should my feelings change.
So more time rocked on and the situation steadily become worse. He wanted to talk about her, and I couls see him straining to please her and get back into her good graces. He'd alternate between saying that he wanted to get back with her and that he just wished that he could forget about her. He told me that it felt like she was stringing him along (she's dating another guy now). I told him that as his friend I would listen to him talk about it if he felt like he needed to but he should understand that it hurt me.
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Tiziani, that sounds about right lol. Librans can be creepy. That velvet glove thing is only for not to leave any prints should they snap and kill.
ESC, please post your findings in here, doll
answer a) is also what my friend says ... it's just weird though ... it's like she's a little in denial, or she just hasn't wanted to tell me straight up what might happen. Maybe she only knows sub-consciously what's up? It's just weird talking to her these days.
she's the weirdest mix of cold heart and fragile i've ever met
she's the weirdest mix of cold heart and fragile i've ever met
:O wow!!
I TAKE THAT BACK!!!!!
PEDRO LOPEZ KILLED 300+
drum rolls purrrrlease!..... hes a libra
I TAKE THAT BACK!!!!!
PEDRO LOPEZ KILLED 300+
drum rolls purrrrlease!..... hes a libra
LMAO.
I love you all. ::Big hugs::
To the OP: I'm sorry if you had a negative experience with a Taurus. Having a negative experience with anyone of a particular sign could certainly sour your perception. But... c'mon, we're not "evil". ...Well, perhaps a select few, but still--!
Au contraire, we are some of the most loving, compassionate, kind, and giving creatures in the zodiac. We're pretty fucking awesome (IMO). If there is a "Lord" or "God" (which I strongly doubt), may s/he/it strike me dead with a mighty lightning bolt for being so proud!!
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Nope. Nothing.
I love you all. ::Big hugs::
To the OP: I'm sorry if you had a negative experience with a Taurus. Having a negative experience with anyone of a particular sign could certainly sour your perception. But... c'mon, we're not "evil". ...Well, perhaps a select few, but still--!
Au contraire, we are some of the most loving, compassionate, kind, and giving creatures in the zodiac. We're pretty fucking awesome (IMO). If there is a "Lord" or "God" (which I strongly doubt), may s/he/it strike me dead with a mighty lightning bolt for being so proud!!
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Nope. Nothing.
Told ya so!!!
And he was creepy too. He is the one who stared at his victims eyes and "watched as the light fades". I think he masturbated too or w/e. He was super scary
Henry lee lucas 400+
Leo/virgo cusp
Fucking hell how do they find the time.. I mean!
Leo/virgo cusp
Fucking hell how do they find the time.. I mean!
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Henry lee lucas 400+
Leo/virgo cusp
Fucking hell how do they find the time.. I mean!
LOL @ "how do they find the time?"
Like you're talking about working moms trying to get manicures or something.click to expand
LOOOL! Well it`s kinda an every day ocurrence by the looks of it lol, think of the arse ache of all of that, ya just wouldnt get time to eat, OR WOULD THEY!! .....O_o HUH???
Ive already been to the libra boards to get some insight of what libra's are like in relationships, just wanted to hear some tauruses experienvces with libra's.
Since I have been dating one for a couple of weeks they seem quite distant people, rather chatting in person not as much over via text but since Im used to dating cancers I find the independence of libra's intimidating I suppose :')
Since I have been dating one for a couple of weeks they seem quite distant people, rather chatting in person not as much over via text but since Im used to dating cancers I find the independence of libra's intimidating I suppose :')