Posted by aquasnozPosted by Mr. Defense
I do go on regular dates, I also do open doors for women, give the hugs, and give them gifts. This is not romance though, this is simple interaction. As a matter of fact, I'm the first person to arrange a date to a nice place, because I love going out, and hate being stuck in the house.
Maybe the problem here is that you're not viewing them as romantic gestures which by all means I agree to you it might not be overly apparent but I think when something is genuine one doesn't need to think whether it was romantic or not.
As intrigued pointed out before sometimes these smaller gestures can be far more romantic than over the top ones depending on the person.click to expand
+1, exactly. romantic is more someone who looks out for you, checks in on you, worries for you, wants to take care of you, is there for you, sometimes even indirectly, not making it obvious. girls pick up on the indirect care. and girls can also tell the genuine from the fake. a smooth talker is not going to go anywhere with superficial flowery talk. the silent guy who irritates because he never says much is still going to get all the brownie points for showing it all through his actions. haha and if one ever confronts him about what's up with all the concern, he might not even accept that he was showing concern, because he is humble. he is not doing it expecting any acknowledgement, he is doing it because that is how he feels about that person. like we do stuff for our family/friends because we want to not because we want anything in return, because it is the emotion you feel for them. same time some direct display of affection is also a must when both have acknowledged the relation.
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Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by EvilTurtlePosted by everevolvingepithet
People do that on here?
Plenty in someways this thread is a science experiment, so here it happens more often than not.
That's a good way of looking at it, or the site itself?click to expand
Both the site and this thread.
This was a conversation I had with a Capricorn before we went out. He's super funny and I bet that's what I fell for.
Scorpio: What's your ethnicity?
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: It's obvious that you're Black, but what kind?
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: For example, I'm Asian, but what kind of Asian? Hmong. My ethnicity is Hmong.
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: So, what are you? Ethiopian? Kenyan? Nigerian?
Capricorn: Slave.
Scorpio: Excuse me while I die.
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So, my little brother is an Aquarius and he always makes me laugh without trying and he'll never understand why I always crack up around him.
Scorpio: ****, I made a mistake.
Aquarius: Why did you make a mistake?
Scorpio: I made a mistake because I'm human.
Aquarius: ...
Scorpio: ...
Aquarius: Want some milk?
Scorpio: Excuse me while I die.
- - - - -
Scorpio: Hey, can you scratch my back? There's a spot I can't get.
Aquarius: Okay!
Scorpio: Okay, move down more. Now, towards the middle. Okay, now everywhere.
Aquarius: Wait, don't we have a backscratcher?
Scorpio: Well, go get it then!
Instead, he comes back with a cowboy hat on.
Scorpio: Um, why-
Aquarius: I COULDN'T FIND IT, OKAY!?
Scorpio: But, why are you wearing-
Aquarius: BECAUSE!
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There was this one day where I was really moody and- okay, scratch that, I'm always moody, but I was really moody and everything ticked me off, basically.
Sagittarius: Hey, what's that textbook for?
Scorpio: Well, it says Entrepreneurship on it, so maybe it's for Entrepreneurship. DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT THAT!?
Pisces: Extra sassy today, are we?
Scorpio: EXTRA!?
Pisces: Excuse him. Well, you know him - sassy.
Scorpio: Just kill yourself.
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Share?
Scorpio: What's your ethnicity?
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: It's obvious that you're Black, but what kind?
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: For example, I'm Asian, but what kind of Asian? Hmong. My ethnicity is Hmong.
Capricorn: ...
Scorpio: So, what are you? Ethiopian? Kenyan? Nigerian?
Capricorn: Slave.
Scorpio: Excuse me while I die.
-
So, my little brother is an Aquarius and he always makes me laugh without trying and he'll never understand why I always crack up around him.
Scorpio: ****, I made a mistake.
Aquarius: Why did you make a mistake?
Scorpio: I made a mistake because I'm human.
Aquarius: ...
Scorpio: ...
Aquarius: Want some milk?
Scorpio: Excuse me while I die.
- - - - -
Scorpio: Hey, can you scratch my back? There's a spot I can't get.
Aquarius: Okay!
Scorpio: Okay, move down more. Now, towards the middle. Okay, now everywhere.
Aquarius: Wait, don't we have a backscratcher?
Scorpio: Well, go get it then!
Instead, he comes back with a cowboy hat on.
Scorpio: Um, why-
Aquarius: I COULDN'T FIND IT, OKAY!?
Scorpio: But, why are you wearing-
Aquarius: BECAUSE!
-
There was this one day where I was really moody and- okay, scratch that, I'm always moody, but I was really moody and everything ticked me off, basically.
Sagittarius: Hey, what's that textbook for?
Scorpio: Well, it says Entrepreneurship on it, so maybe it's for Entrepreneurship. DID YOU EVER THINK ABOUT THAT!?
Pisces: Extra sassy today, are we?
Scorpio: EXTRA!?
Pisces: Excuse him. Well, you know him - sassy.
Scorpio: Just kill yourself.
-
Share?
Ohh I am 52 and still remember details to the bone from the long past.. (well when I am not in lazy mood).
I do still remember articles on newspapers 45 years ago, tv showes, stories, even quotes from old radio programs (again , when I am not in lazy moods).
I do still remember articles on newspapers 45 years ago, tv showes, stories, even quotes from old radio programs (again , when I am not in lazy moods).
For your information (don??t know, don??t care is my lazy mood)
Some people collecting wealth and other treasure, I guess its Virgo curse... Collecting useless crap all the time.
Worse??_ keeping them too??_.
Worse??_ keeping them too??_.
When I get mad at you WATCH OUT! Don't worry...no one on here. 
Do other Aries feel like there's hell to pay when we're dissed?
Do other Aries feel like there's hell to pay when we're dissed?
Joke aside
As I mention it, I really do remember things from the long past no matter their effects. like they happening now.
As I mention it, I really do remember things from the long past no matter their effects. like they happening now.
Posted by virgology83
Ugh, forget it. Trying to bring peace to this site will never work. GOOD bye everyone! I asked administrators to delete my account and I am not coming back..I didn't like how people treated certin memebers one a certin thread. I like to stay anonymouse???(SP!) with people to not hurt anyone's feelings..this is a site to help, not hurt. I asked advice for my leo friend..I got it, I'm good now. I didn't BASH him that much..I am not a liar..this site is very terrible with terrible hurtfull people and needs to be demolished.
virgology83
Hey, it's alright virgology83. Don't worry about some members, P-Angel was bashing me a while back. You just gotta roll with the punches. You gotta have tough skin on here.
You gotta understand women don't like wussy guys. Women deep down don't like nice guys. Be assertive and most of all be confident. So don't quit this site.
Your answers will come.
I don't know if its just the ones I know or if its a common trait. Like for example, the other two water signs are emotional and secretive as well, but are much more open with their feelings and thoughts and etc. I thought Scorpios were much more passionate and would be more open about their wants and express them. From what I've seen, they have a hard time expressing themselves. They are secretive and calculating and are very judgy as well I've noticed. Also sometimes they can be cynical and look at the negative side of everything. Is this more or less accurate?
If its true, then how does one get past this aspect? Because I often feel they are always juding and analyzing stuff but they don't tell you what they're thinking or what they are trying to figure out through their tests. It would be a lot easier if I didn't constantly feel like I'm giving an exam when I'm with them.
I don't know. Some Scorps are pretty chill though..but most are like the kind I described above. What are your thoughts and tips?
If its true, then how does one get past this aspect? Because I often feel they are always juding and analyzing stuff but they don't tell you what they're thinking or what they are trying to figure out through their tests. It would be a lot easier if I didn't constantly feel like I'm giving an exam when I'm with them.
I don't know. Some Scorps are pretty chill though..but most are like the kind I described above. What are your thoughts and tips?
lol @ Q. When you talk about virgos who collect trash, you remind me of my brother inlaw...he moved in with us and came in with a load of junk ie margarine containers, yoghurt containers etc, he doesnt throw anything away. Fun the truck that helped him with his stuff made about 3 loads and every single thing deserve to be thrown away. Who keeps plastic forks & knives, and foam cups? LOL. I threw all that shit away. A hoarder in my house...NO!