Posted by juke
Now that's the second time I've coughed up coffee through my nose in one day... ugh! haha
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Posted by Gandalf
I know what you both are saying. But i have a question? he helps them because he loves them, correct? what does it say that even after all the sacrifice he has made that "loved ones" won't have the drive to move forward. he has stated that this is not comfortable for him to go on like this. If someone loved you back then they would find that drive if not for their sake atleast for his sake.
my point is that he can keep this up all he wants however the ball is in their court and if they are capable of helping themselves then they should. If they don't? Then i am sorry but i would say that is not reciprocal love.
I see your point. If someone truly cared about you, they wouldn't make you sacrifice everything to help them out with something that they could muster the will to do themselves. And I agree that sometimes you have to let people hit rock bottom so they learn how to get back up. But some people aren't strong enough and they just give up. If he doesn't help his parents or his friend and they end up worse off mentally or physically, he would probably feel horrible knowing he had the means to help them but didn't.
He seems optimistic that things will turn out okay if he helps them out, even though it won't be easy for him. I might be mistaken, but it doesn't seem like he's completely sacrificing everything to help them out; it just sounds like it will cause him a hardship that will suck for a while but that he feels he can turn things around eventually so that he'll be able to follow through with his plans to move to Europe.
It sounds like this is the first time his friend has had to lean on him financially, but if she keeps doing so and doesn't help him out when he needs help, then yeah, he should seriously reconsider helping her out in the future. But with his parents, it seems more complicated. With family, especially parents, there's a sense of obligation that's hard to just ignore. I think it's okay for him to continue to help them, as long as he doesn't sacrifice everything for them.
@Sutekh
You make an interesting point - thanks for explaining that with an example. I didn't think about natal transits. Like I said, I'm new to this and I was thinking they were fixed.
You make an interesting point - thanks for explaining that with an example. I didn't think about natal transits. Like I said, I'm new to this and I was thinking they were fixed.
Most tall men I meet have this petite super short girlfriend.. Booo!
I'm 5'10
I'm 5'10
capricorn like blunt straightforward conversations so just ask they rarely take offence and are not sensitive (Im a cap)
Posted by ScorpioLaday
our souls are twins but our execution is different.
I have always read that Taurus and Scorps admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't.
I just met a taurus that I am obsessed with.. at first he was veryy into me. The whole eyes meeting across the room thing..Scorp/Taurus combos for the win.
The obsession is mutual..There is no connection I love more than this one. I tend to draw alot of Scorps to me (Bcuz of my Scorpio Moon).
To add to""Taurus/scorp admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't"... I would say that there is a feeling of "completeness" we feel when we come together, we are the "YING" to the other's "YANG"..and there is mutual respect by knowing of the powers we each possess. We KNOW each others capabilities. Where the scorp, can get away with his plans,plots & games of manipulation with the other 11 signs...Taurus will be on the other end with the Book of Plays, READY to call the Scorp out..giving the Scorp no choice but to ALIGN and behave himself. Cuz the BULL wont accept BULL from outside the range. PERIOD.
We're both stubborn, but loyal and lovingly patient when madly in love.
Lol, it's crazy to see someone describe my life. can't wait to get my time of birth to get 100% accurate. thanks for the replies!
Good to hear PM! Have fun and Good luck 
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Not really. Nature girl. My dream place is in the middle of nowhere. Quality pieces I adore, antiques. I do this by seeking out of the way barn sales, off the beaten path and the odd reasonable shop. Gives me a buzz getting a great deal. All I want for me is to keep the bills paid and loved ones bellies happy.
Big noisy places and gauche life style s is not my speed.
If by some extreme miracle I got oodles I'd pay off my parents homes, square up college for the children and travel. But I'd always come home to that old truck, woodburner and garden. Faces of those that really matter.
Big noisy places and gauche life style s is not my speed.
If by some extreme miracle I got oodles I'd pay off my parents homes, square up college for the children and travel. But I'd always come home to that old truck, woodburner and garden. Faces of those that really matter.
Do you think cultures of countries can be put into star signs. LIke people were saying British apologise for everything. Italians would be.....Leo? French are charmers artistic.........they say where your born affects your astrology..what do you all think?
If summer makes a certain character and winter another doesnt it make sense that hot countries might be more like the summer signs whereas cold might be like the winter ones?
If summer makes a certain character and winter another doesnt it make sense that hot countries might be more like the summer signs whereas cold might be like the winter ones?