Advice game for the scorpios on dxp
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Every now and then step back and think: "how could what I'm doing be interpreted by those we love".
Try to be less subtle and a little more out there.
I think we always know why we are doing things and rarely they are from a negative place but let's face it our ways are mysterious to the people not living in our heads.
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I forget to add, his tau buddy is a cusper (aries cusp) and YEP, it's true!! the cusp of power.
He owned three homes by the time he was 30 years old. (sold 2, kept the biggest one) Talk about someone who LOVES homes and property
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Posted by LIBRA1234
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Absolute nonsense... while u are deciding like a snail if the girl is right for u, she is gonna find another one, because she is WORTH IT. The good ones are taken pretty fast my friend
The horrible true is that you are some what right. I noticed that happening to others. It took me years to over come this mental force of habit. Most Caps never change their train of thought. It is possible to change it with lots of practice, dedication and a new mental belief. But then again, how many people really change to truly get what they want out of life?
Apparently there's a little something going on here about 'Taurus & money'. Guess I came at the right time haha.
The thing is that my birthday is in 2 days and due to me not having time on the day itself, my amazing taurus friend is going to try to surprise me tomorrow. I know he's going to try to do something nice for me, but I also know he's unemployed (recently graduated) and hasn't had any luck so far. It's getting frustrating for him and I know how much a tight budget freaks you guys out.
I already told him I don't want huge presents since that's not my style anyway (pisces), I just want to spend the day with the people I love having fun. Sitting in the sun for all I care, that's free
I just wonder now, how can I show my appreciation for his efforts, without stepping on his toes?
He's really unsure of what I want, when all I want is what I said.
Last time he gave me a gift for Christmas he just dropped it in my lap and walked to the kitchen.
As if it was nothing and I just sat there: what the? He didn't want to make a huge display out of it probably.
So, any input as to how you guys like to be thanked for an effort this size, when practically broke?
The thing is that my birthday is in 2 days and due to me not having time on the day itself, my amazing taurus friend is going to try to surprise me tomorrow. I know he's going to try to do something nice for me, but I also know he's unemployed (recently graduated) and hasn't had any luck so far. It's getting frustrating for him and I know how much a tight budget freaks you guys out.
I already told him I don't want huge presents since that's not my style anyway (pisces), I just want to spend the day with the people I love having fun. Sitting in the sun for all I care, that's free
I just wonder now, how can I show my appreciation for his efforts, without stepping on his toes?
He's really unsure of what I want, when all I want is what I said.
Last time he gave me a gift for Christmas he just dropped it in my lap and walked to the kitchen.
As if it was nothing and I just sat there: what the? He didn't want to make a huge display out of it probably.
So, any input as to how you guys like to be thanked for an effort this size, when practically broke?
My they are good at judging two faced snake ass behavior then since some are like that to begin with. Seeing me in you kinda thing. What do you mean you cant know people in the dark? Whats light for? And you can only see things in the dark when you yourself are in there with them, which proves my point that, you cant recognize what you dont know. Mirror effect- see me in you
My = maybe. Double ugh.
Posted by LetltB
"But I do have follow up question, please....what did you mean by''making up for it''? How scorpios do that?"
Taking the negative and turning it into positve. It tends to keep past mistakes/regrets where they belong..in the past.
(and thank you by the way)
yeah...regrets keep you stuck in the past. i like to look to the future.
Posted by trashedbliss
Ok so I met this Virgo online (no I dont know his exact birthday so no charts here).
He's snarky, overly cocky, funny, sarcastic and smart. Typical Virgo male.
We chatted about what the other one wanted (I want to date/possible relationship, he just wants to have sex & not be tied down). So we come to the terms of friends. He said he'd cool it on the sex topics because I said most confidently that I would not be having relations unless I was exclusive with someone.
This carries on for a few days, him initiating all contact. I say this because I stopped reaching out because if we're not working towards being together I dont feel like I need to impress you or please you. For what? We're just friends right? I wasnt even the one who brought up relationships etc, I was gong with the flow and he decided to have a panic attack one day and ask what we were doing.
So - how should I play this because he still asks like we are in the "getting to know you" stage and being flirty and sexual. I think he's trying to convince me but you know the stubborn streak of the Virgo - Im not buying/having it. I'll gladly just be his friend and I would gladly have sex with him - if we were exclusive which; he claims he doesnt want. He and I have definitely made a connection and are fond of each other.
He has mentioned that he's had FWB turn sour in the past b/c they grew to attached to him & he's been burned in a long term relationship before.
So Virgals and Virguys. How should I play this?
I highlighted (bold) the above. He stated what he wants to just have SEX. You want a relationship. Yet by the time I got to the bottom of your post, you still don't understand that he just wants to have sex. If you want to "play" this out as you say, do so with the notion, it's just going to be SEX as not to confuse yourself. There's no question what he wants. Do you not see that?
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Oh I get along with most people too it just seems to me the ones I end up connecting with who get me on many different levels without having to explain are the water signs. Funny thing is though the people I consider my best friends one is an Aries the other is a Gemini.
i used to have a friend like that before...now i dont anymore. i m just pretty much alone now when it comes to friends.